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    Asking a girl what she wants to do on a date?

    I forgot who posted this but someone was asking about where to take their girl on a first date. And I wanted to ask you guys what about simply asking the girl what she wants to do?

    I don't mean leaving it up to her but if you say coffee or dinner and she responds with dinner then you reply ok I'll meet u at such and such place at 6. Give her options but have answers ready.

    What are your guys thoughts on this?
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    Ask her what does she normally eat, then suggest a restaurant. I don't think alphaness plays such a huge part to where YOU have to make each and every decision for her... It's not something that should really be thought about too hard.
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    Beta. Plan the date, all of it, and if she doesn't want to do that she'll say no/I don't like that/let's do something else.



    Making her make decisions isn't something that should happen until you're in a relationship. You need to LEAD.
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    Originally Posted by Mr.Marvel View Post
    I forgot who posted this but someone was asking about where to take their girl on a first date. And I wanted to ask you guys what about simply asking the girl what she wants to do?

    I don't mean leaving it up to her but if you say coffee or dinner and she responds with dinner then you reply ok I'll meet u at such and such place at 6. Give her options but have answers ready.

    What are your guys thoughts on this?
    OP, your not doing it right. Would you ask her if she wants sex or would you pursue your own interests unless she screams rape? Stop? No? Just use a bit of intelligence. Its not so much about being alpha as it is just leading. Men are suppose to lead. Assume gender role. Women want a man to lead, someone they can love, and respect that they will follow. If she doesn't respect you, she sure wont follow, and well, a bit of common sense goes a long way. You should have a bit of a understanding of her. I would just invite her back, put on some music, have some drinks, see what you both are feeling like eating, go out or order in (preferably something healthy), and come back to your place. Its less awkward bringing her back if she comes to your place first like, it is much easier to touch her immediately then be all awkward at the end of the night. Ya dig?

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    Beta. Plan the date, all of it, and if she doesn't want to do that she'll say no/I don't like that/let's do something else.



    Making her make decisions isn't something that should happen until you're in a relationship. You need to LEAD.
    OP, if it is a girl you like, have multiple places you are going, let her drive, come pick you up, and instruct her where to go. Give directions, end up taking her to multiple places, do not be a sucker and pay for everything. The point is that, by instructing her and letting her follow you, you have already planted the seeds of follow your lead, and it works well in a relationship or even fwb. You tell her what to do inside the bedroom and out. It is gold.
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    I think what you have planned is fine. If she says dinner, you can ask her what kind of food she likes, or, is there any kind of food she doesn't like? Doesn't make sense to bring her to a seafood restaurant and she is allergic to seafood, or something like that. Def give her options and get her input. Planning everything out and telling her to meet you someplace is NOT alpha. Chicks don't want to be told what to do brah. That's my 0.02
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    Originally Posted by Like It Or Not View Post
    I think what you have planned is fine. If she says dinner, you can ask her what kind of food she likes, or, is there any kind of food she doesn't like? Doesn't make sense to bring her to a seafood restaurant and she is allergic to seafood, or something like that. Def give her options and get her input. Planning everything out and telling her to meet you someplace is NOT alpha. Chicks don't want to be told what to do brah. That's my 0.02
    And your pennies are rooted in a very, very beta place. Simply by trying to make the date all about her and what she wants, you've already put the pussy on a pedestal before you've even started.
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    if you ask her your gonna get. "I dont mind, its up to you etc"

    what you need to do is try to remember something shes said before and try to make a link to that

    If she hasnt given you anything to work with then do what you want
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