I know how to cold approach a girl at a party or club scene, that sht is easy but I have no idea how I would approach a girl in say one of my classes or if we're both staring at each other on the bus or something. I wanna stop using the club as my sole source of trying to get laid so tell me how its done rh.
01-10-2012, 08:39 PM #1
How to cold approach a girl, what should I say? (srs)
01-10-2012, 08:49 PM #2
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01-10-2012, 08:55 PM #5
That's pretty much what I do when I'm at the club and I have liquid confidence but when sober I'm pretty sure I'll have nothing to talk about.
I mean I guess I just need practice since that's how I felt even while drunk but I don't know if my sober self can get through all the rejection needed in order to improve especially when dealing with girls in my class that I'll have to see everyday.
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01-10-2012, 09:29 PM #7
I teased a girl about stalking me and then said something about the place we were at isn't my house. I live at ....." which embarrassed her, and I found it funny. Pretty much assuming she wants to come back with me. I just get a rise out of them and notasingle****isgiven.jpg./ Not sure what the **** all this cold approach **** is. Just hit on girls man.
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ps: Also, stop reading pick up material. IMO that **** is for phaggots and it will **** with you more then it will help you. Its not a big deal brah. Just hit on bitches every where you go. No excuses. PLAY LIKE A CHAMP.
01-10-2012, 10:49 PM #12
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01-11-2012, 07:11 AM #16
You start approaching sluts in public places when they're going about their day-to-day business you're going to come off as desperate and strange. Bitches will undoubtedly think you're one creepy mother****er once you go down this route. Also, imagine the rep you'll get once sluts start talking about the "weird guy who asks random girls out in this mall." It won't do you any favors.
There is this one slim nerdy-looking chick with HUGE tits who works part-time at a grocery store near me, but I'll NEVER ask her out. She already thinks I'm weird (I assume) coz I go in there, pay for my groceries, mumble and stammer when I talk at the checkout, and can't stop staring at her HUGE perfectly formed gorgeous tits. (She's caught staring at her double-Ds a few times.) Seriously, I've jacked off MANY times just thinking about ****ing this whore with all my pent-up sexual frustration. Alas, it'll never happen, unless I commit a sexual assault on her, which I won't do, since doing a few years jail would be ****ed.
Anyway, I guess I'm saying that if you're resorting to cold appoaches it shows that you don't have a social circle and that in turn shows you have few options; guys who have options do NOT hit on randoms hoes in the street... only desperate, socially inept guys do. So don't do it.
I would like to here a genuine story of a guy getting digits and a date from some cold approach in the street, mall, bus stop, wherever. To date, I haven't heard any, because there are none. When I had a social circle, not once did I hear of someone meeting an ex-GF or current GF through a cold approach. DOES. NOT. WORK. PEOPLE.
I think you're best off ignoring females completely, until you gain a solid network of friends. Only that will bring pussy. If you have no friends, you will not get pussy LEGALLY. Trust me, I know. I've been dumped by my fair-weather friends three years ago. I live a life of socail isolation and hence have not been on so much as a date since mid-2008.
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01-11-2012, 07:26 AM #21
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you actually gotta have no fear when approaching a girl, have something generic set up and use it on them to open up, if it happens good if not on to the next. too bad psychologically men have a fear of rejection (i can explain why lol)
my friend has balls of steel i swear, he'll talk to any girl he sets his eyes on, no fear as soon as they make eye contact he'll engage. also to the tell them to take clothes off, that works as iv noticed, a woman WANTS to be told what to do. they have the poon they just waitin on if your man enuf to go and get it. my same friend will also randomly just take his clothes off to let the girl knw wats good. we've been at parties and hes been talkin to a girl or dancin wit her then randomly he takes off his pants. works 9/10 times lol
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01-11-2012, 08:03 AM #25
Bare in mind op,the more attempts = more failures. But don't be afraid to try, at the end of the day you won't have anything to loose and you'll still walk with your back straight,ballin down the street...
If the case is both of you staring each other on a bus...smile and approach - give her positive feedback on it... ie. they say smiling is contagious but i rarely smile to strangers
Good opener - then hint about how you are laughable person & you'd like to keep smiling etc. etc. (in order for you to keep smiling you'd need to get to know her etc.)
Ofc. you might get rejected of her wanting to be the rare occation but you can deliver a rebound in a very jokingly non aggressive manner .. ie. stubborn is my nickname,what's yours..
Endless opportunities op, just keep your head cool and Don't over think , that would be the best recommendation
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08-23-2013, 09:27 AM #29
swanky is just a beta phaggot and instead of helping people he just puts them down. ofc you can pickup girls in day but no1 does it cuz no1 has f***king ballz to do it. you know what girls like most ? something new, something different, its normal for guyz to approach girls at night when both u and them are drunk. but you go out and get drunk 3 times a week which is crap, i still didnt manage to get ballz to approach girls by myself but with my friend in summer we approached a lot of girls during the day and we got phone numbers and he made out with few, maybe phucked 1...
and we had the most retarded entrance ever, i didnt pick shiet up cuz i had oneitis.... you wont get nowhere if you gonna think too much and get excuses to come to a girl and talk about random shiet. what i did: i saw a cute girl at club(wasnt drunk at all) and told friend to say to me:GO! and he said it and i went to the girl and talked(didnt get a phone number but i still talked to her). and after first approach and it ends and you see how it didnt hurt at all and every time you approach again that day/night its just gonna be easier.
also IMO best to pickup girls is college partys, house partys(u and few friends come and dont know anyone) or birthsday partys to pick up girls... i dont remember when was the last time i went to 1 of these and didnt made out with some girl..
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When you look at all the cold approaches on the sites people mentioned like Simple Pickup, why do they never explain what happens AFTER they get the number? Because nothing happens once you get the number. Granted, these sites need the permission of the girls in order to put it on youtube, but the fact of the matter is that numbers mean chit.
Collecting numbers DOES NOT mean you are successful at cold approach. I can get numbers about 70% of the time. How many times have I actually met up with girls? Only 5 times. How many have gone to day3s and beyond? Zero.
You need social circle for this to work. Yea, you might get the girl excited when you initially approach and she might give you her number, but she won't meet up with you unless you are part of her social circle. Period. End of story.
inb4 I have good game. I've done this long enough where I can carry conversation in every setting. My looks are good too.
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