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    Why do people get bored with me?

    I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I never really had many friends as a kid, used to be teased a lot in both grade and middle school too, and now I'm 3 months shy of turning 25 but still have more acquaintances than actual friends to hang out.
    Seldomly do go to parties when invited and drink a lot but then afterwards it's the same lifestyle. Nothing but studying (I changed my major) and only had 1 failed relationship, someone that never really saw any potential future with me but wish he would have told me in my face instead of wasting my time.

    I already posted pictures, one from last year taken in April (my main profile picture) and another one from late 2010. If I'm just plain or ugly just say it. I don't think it's that either. It's something that tends to get others bored. I got told in high school several times ''Oh you're weird'', even my science teacher once made me read a short story. When I finished it, he told if I understood it. I said yes ''Yes the kid in the story is different from everyone '', in which he replied ''Exactly my point, he is you in a way''. It must be for a reason but I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
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    roll bread.
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    Originally Posted by footmenrow View Post
    roll bread.
    Don't know what's that suppose to mean. I'm I overweight is that what you're trying to say?

    I had a previous account here but I never came back with it again. I was doing good and someone all of the sudden didn't like my opinion and it's like I was the worst of worst all of the sudden. So I disappeared and started just going to other forums.
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    You look "monotone" in the picture. It could just be a picture you didn't care for, but in all honesty Would you say that your picture does not define how you typically purvey yourself?
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    Originally Posted by SubtleHustle View Post
    You look "monotone" in the picture. It could just be a picture you didn't care for, but in all honesty Would you say that your picture does not define how you typically purvey yourself?
    Yeah I've always been somewhat simple. I don't like wearing make-up nor too much elaboration. Sometimes I wear the same clothes or do my eyebrows after a long while. I guess that must be it. I don't know. There must be a reason why I never got hit on during my high school years. The only reason I had a relationship long ago (the only one) is because of me going to myspace.com and doing the calling first after he gave me his #. If not I assume by now I would have still be a virgin.
    Actually two guys did once hit on me (one after my graduation and the other about 3 yrs ago) but both were losers. I must be doing something wrong. It's either I don't get hit on or I do but it's the wrong guys.
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    Well, therein lies your problem. A guy [in general] doesn't want to see a girl that reminds him of himself. Girls pretty up themselves for guys, and Guys "try" to do the same for girls. It's just, how society works. First off, I would suggest fixing the face: Smile. A little upbeat/cheer goes a long way. Second, switch it up. Guys and Gals [in general] like a change rather than the same old Vanilla...and usually when there isn't enough change, one party in the relationship decides to cheat. Third, think about what you like, and find others who like that. Fourth, do what you like.
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    Originally Posted by footmenrow View Post
    roll bread.
    He doesn't mean your fat. You look in your picture like your a healthy size. I don't really get it either, was probably a joke.
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    Originally Posted by SubtleHustle View Post
    Well, therein lies your problem. A guy [in general] doesn't want to see a girl that reminds him of himself. Girls pretty up themselves for guys, and Guys "try" to do the same for girls. It's just, how society works. First off, I would suggest fixing the face: Smile. A little upbeat/cheer goes a long way. Second, switch it up. Guys and Gals [in general] like a change rather than the same old Vanilla...and usually when there isn't enough change, one party in the relationship decides to cheat. Third, think about what you like, and find others who like that. Fourth, do what you like.
    I hope that's it. I do agree that I might need to smile more. Years ago I was told time will tell, don't rush things but I don't know. It's like I have to do something to make things happen. Time sure didn't get me a bf (now ex).. I had to look for it.
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    Originally Posted by Jamiebebulking View Post
    He doesn't mean your fat. You look in your picture like your a healthy size. I don't really get it either, was probably a joke.
    Ok... yeah certain terms I'm just unfamiliar here. It's been a while since I was absent and all because one member didn't like what I said.... and took away all my points I had worked hard to earn. It wasn't fair because I never flamed nor insulted anyone. Guess I'll forget that member, whoever it was.

    Ok thanks for making it clear.
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    Looked at picture. You look average.

    If you want more acquaintances go make more acquaintances. It's that easy. Join clubs, take up classes, find hobbies, hang out with other people.

    If you want more real friends though I can't help you because finding a real friend is hard as ****. Start with acquaintances.
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    Originally Posted by Ecnewyx View Post
    If you want more real friends though I can't help you because finding a real friend is hard as ****. Start with acquaintances.
    Yeah I've always had a hard time making new friends. Sometimes it's hard to keep a conversation for a long time and the bad news is many (even the guys) might start getting bored. It's not my fault. I'm trying but if there's a lapse of silence is because my mind is empty and I'm terrible in making jokes. Sometimes I don't have a sense of humor, it just doesn't come out naturally or I can be told ''You're funny'' without even knowing why.

    The only friend I could think of (even though I don't consider her best friend but is a good friend) is my childhood friend Gretchen who I always gotten along with. The other few friends I got are only ocassional friends and then the other are just acquaintances, nothing else.

    Besides finishing my carreer and optaining a degree, I want a childless marriage (no kids, just a husband).
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    Originally Posted by kineticforce View Post
    what the most exciting thing you've done in the last month?
    Spend time with my family for Christmas. Other than that, studying for exams and doing assignments.

    Somewhere either on another site or elsewhere, I heard we (in general) have long developed perfect conversation skills from an early age. I guess I must be on the end of the gene pool. I can't imagine what was my ex thinking those times where it got silent and he restarted the conversation again. I get the feeling he wanted to break up at some point because when I broke it off, he said something like ''I waited for you to break it off, I love you but.... blah,blah...and more bs''. That's worst.... someone not letting you go out of pity. I didn't needed that. I preferred someone to be straight-forward, not a coward.

    If there was a program to develop more social skills (not sure if there are in my country... right now I'm in Peru) and depending on the price, I would assist in every single class. I'm not shy nor afraid of what to say (not anymore) but just at times can't keep up the conversation and don't really know what else to say. Not even getting drunk helps out, that only makes me even more quiet.
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    Originally Posted by DAames View Post
    Nice username, would wife/10
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    The pity came from your silence. Due to him keeping on insisting/trying conversations, I envy him. Pity of your silence? Maybe. I think he just wanted to open you up, and finally decided it was hopeless for him. You may want him to be straight-forward, but how can he do so if you're so withdrawn? When someone is withdrawn, people view them as fragile. So, him not being straight-forward was due to your miscommunication of feelings.

    We're just men, not mind-readers.
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    Originally Posted by SubtleHustle View Post
    The pity came from your silence. Due to him keeping on insisting/trying conversations, I envy him. Pity of your silence? Maybe. I think he just wanted to open you up, and finally decided it was hopeless for him. You may want him to be straight-forward, but how can he do so if you're so withdrawn? When someone is withdrawn, people view them as fragile. So, him not being straight-forward was due to your miscommunication of feelings.

    We're just men, not mind-readers.
    Yeah and on top of that (well 5 months into the relationship), there was a time I became emotionally attached to him after he took my V-card. I guess that made it worst for him... and added even more pity. Damn why doesn't 1/4/2007 get erased from my memory? I'm not even trying but if this were hypothetically speaking ask on a truth or dare game, I would know the answer right away as if it were a b-day or my phone #.

    I guess it's true... even if we move on, something is still there that somehow refuses to be forgotten.
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    That's extreme. I would never go near a great white shark. But yes I would love to travel one day... as in go out and see something I've never seen before.
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    Originally Posted by VanillaSky87 View Post
    I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I never really had many friends as a kid, used to be teased a lot in both grade and middle school too, and now I'm 3 months shy of turning 25 but still have more acquaintances than actual friends to hang out.
    Seldomly do go to parties when invited and drink a lot but then afterwards it's the same lifestyle. Nothing but studying (I changed my major) and only had 1 failed relationship, someone that never really saw any potential future with me but wish he would have told me in my face instead of wasting my time.

    I already posted pictures, one from last year taken in April (my main profile picture) and another one from late 2010. If I'm just plain or ugly just say it. I don't think it's that either. It's something that tends to get others bored. I got told in high school several times ''Oh you're weird'', even my science teacher once made me read a short story. When I finished it, he told if I understood it. I said yes ''Yes the kid in the story is different from everyone '', in which he replied ''Exactly my point, he is you in a way''. It must be for a reason but I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
    Well, you are 24. You look fine. What do you do for a living. What do you talk about when you are with guys? Are you an introvert? Do you twitch? I mean, you look "normal" maybe you are just finding total douche bags.
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    Originally Posted by smashew View Post
    Well, you are 24. You look fine. What do you do for a living.
    I work from home (until they find a new location) and go to college.
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    What do you talk about when you are with guys?
    If it's with my male friend X we call each other at times. The conversation always starts with a ''What's up, how you been'' and ends with him telling me ''Well if anything I'll give you a ring or you call me, bye''. If it's my male acquaintance from work (before the place got torn down), we sometimes text on MSN and say things like ''Hey what you doing or he lets me know everytime there is any news about our work (sort of like the messenger). Finally, my male friend from my college mainly talks to me about the classes and yesterday he asked if I go out with my bf to which I replied ''I don't have a bf for now'' and he stated ''Oh I'm sorry, didn't mean to get too personal, time will tell'' and from there it went on till one of us had to log off.
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    Are you an introvert?
    Quite often but when I have the subject on my mind I say it. If I had the social skills or ability to make friends easily then I wouldn't be. I think the reason I'm mainly an introvert is because I got no choice. This is the same as if you were poor and keep telling people that you're satisfied with what you have but in reality it's because you have no money (deep inside, you wish to have better items). Some people just have that special talent to be outgoing. One of the few times I felt finally different was on a male co-worker's wedding about 3-4 months ago. My male friend X, female childhood and others I could kinda relate better were there... and yes that day I got super hammered (once I'm there at the party or other special social gathering, it's all night long for me and I get served like a man).. spoke slightly more than usual too.
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    Do you twitch?
    Sometimes although not intentional.
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    I mean, you look "normal" maybe you are just finding total douche bags.
    Yes that can be the case. I think I just haven't found the one yet.
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    You sound very needy which is a very huge turn off. Its like, if you got so much going on, why would you need a man? You got a vagina so, just on that fact alone, your going to have options. You could focus on yourself and the things that really matter in life. Date when you feel it is right. Also, get out as much as possible, and you will meet people. Its not the 1950s. You can ask guys out or extend invites too.
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    Originally Posted by jamestown0101 View Post
    You sound very needy which is a very huge turn off. Its like, if you got so much going on, why would you need a man?
    What's wrong with wanting to get married one day? I always wanted someone I can share a house, be with for the rest of my life, talk about almost anything, be intimate (have sex which is something I obviously would never do with my family, friends nor a woman.. I need a man for this to happen obviously) everyday if I love him. I love men... same as I love my major. I don't want to be single for life. Only thing I don't want is giving birth.
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    Its not the 1950s. You can ask guys out or extend invites too.
    Yes I can if I know for sure the answer is a yes. I don't like rejections.
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    Originally Posted by VanillaSky87 View Post
    What's wrong with wanting to get married one day? I always wanted someone I can share a house, be with for the rest of my life, talk about almost anything, be intimate (have sex which is something I obviously would never do with my family, friends nor a woman.. I need a man for this to happen obviously) everyday if I love him. I love men... same as I love my major. I don't want to be single for life. Only thing I don't want is giving birth.
    Yes I can if I know for sure the answer is a yes. I don't like rejections.
    I have ****ed with desi girls before. I am entirely open to these things. I do notice differences culturally and I am open to experiencing as much as possible. See, what you want, and what I as a man want are very different things. The desi I was dealing with spoke of these things and I was thinking, "what the ****?"



    If I am honest, I may have been distant, and that pushes unity away. Then again, she brought up marriage, having a family, and kids. Sharing similar beliefs, politics, and other common interests. Still, it was too much. Well, having your vagina stretched out of shape, and squeezing out a child is probably not what most women are thrilled to do. For many men, no heir is a deal breaker, and yet, some are okay with no kids.

    The **** you mean you don't like rejection? Cause men do? Despite looks, I don't get every girl I hit on, and notasingle****isgiven.jpg. Its funny cause, girls are getting the chance to work, to have a career, and be promiscuous. Burn your brahs and **** like a champ but,



    are had at these women when they come @ me with wanting marriage or kids. You happen to be the opposite of these types of girls and women. Still, wanting to be in a relationship, and really needy is a huge turn off. More so if you are a man but, it can come off as being desperate, and not having things going for yourself. Like, you are more then capable of doing your own thing, living your own life, and not needing a man to support you. Its fine you want this but, some men may get the impression you will jump at anything that comes your way, and even though they may or may have liked you, may hit the brakes just cause.

    You will have a bf eventually but, you should enjoy being single, and like myself, when you least expect it, you will meet someone awesome. Leave the past in the past, give guys a fair chance despite previous guys you have dated or chose, and just learn to not take it personal. Soak up the lessons from the experiences and avoid repeating the past. Good luck!
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    OP out of curiosity, what is your background? The relevance to this sort of goes back to the girl i was seeing. She was not born in America, came over very young, and yet, she is now a very Americanized woman. Promiscuity is built into our country here in America, women emulate Kim Kardashian and Snooky off Jersey Shore. They see movies like the slut from the note book that runs off and ****s a ex cheating on her fiance or some phaggot who is content with his gf cheating multiple times with different men. In her country, had she been caught of promiscuity, she would have been put in a white sheet, put in the ground, and stoned publically for her behavior. In a sense, we are all a product of our environment, and responsible for our decision making. Obviously, stoning is barbaric, and inhuman but, American women are out of control, and very few are worthy of marriage and children. Not all are whores just most of them just are not able to handle it or are deserving.

    Women from a young age are taught that, this is what they want, and learn quickly after they get it, they are still unhappy, and want out. In America, there out yields alimony, money that is not theirs, and any intelligent male would know, its not the smartest business proposal, and as a young man, neither is a committed relationship. I have met lots of girls in my life, hooked up, and been quite barbaric myself. Very select few were worthy of a relationship, of something more, and while this may come off as hypocrtical only if we did not live under a feminine legal system. A miscer by user name NVRSTOPWORKING called me out to post a video where a American woman came at a guy for being divorce and went on a big speech about being a independent woman, strong, and not needing a man. She was later contradicted when he came back to call her out for taking alimony. This is what the misc refers to female logic. You may embody feminine qualities, marriage qualities, and traits but, men today are going to be skepticle of women cause of the stories, and experiences. Then again, we are all responsible for our deicison making, the people we pick, and choose in our life, the decisions we make, and the ones we fail to make.

    Focus on your major, on the things you want, take your chances even at the cost of rejection, and you wont regret. You will get rejected but, regret sucks and I think possibilities out weigh any form of failure.
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    its pretty simple OP your just a bookworm, you keep saying i gotta stay home and study cause im doing a 'major', u were exactly like my brother from yr 10, he hadnt stopped studying since, he is 20 now and just graduated but now he said he's going to do more, for now he's on holidays, i used to go out drink, party all the time he wouldnt, now that he is free he is drinking me under the table, if you truly want a man you have to set some time aside to go out and meet new people.

    "why do people get bored with me?"

    oh i duno the fact all you can talk about if your study and books, thats not the flashiest point of conversation unless you meet some guy thats doing the same thing as you wait a minute...... thats it?

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    edit: OP also, you think ure ugly, so what, looks has nothing to do with like men to women, if your interesting the man will hang around, i know plenty of girls but i chase the ones that are spontaneous, bite back etc, cause it intrigues me, rather than dating this girl i know that would do anything for me, theres no interest at all...
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    Originally Posted by johnnnnnyboi View Post
    its pretty simple OP your just a bookworm, you keep saying i gotta stay home and study cause im doing a 'major', u were exactly like my brother from yr 10, he hadnt stopped studying since, he is 20 now and just graduated but now he said he's going to do more, for now he's on holidays, i used to go out drink, party all the time he wouldnt, now that he is free he is drinking me under the table, if you truly want a man you have to set some time aside to go out and meet new people.

    "why do people get bored with me?"

    oh i duno the fact all you can talk about if your study and books, thats not the flashiest point of conversation unless you meet some guy thats doing the same thing as you wait a minute...... thats it?

    DATE ANOTHER BOOKWORM

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    edit: OP also, you think ure ugly, so what, looks has nothing to do with like men to women, if your interesting the man will hang around, i know plenty of girls but i chase the ones that are spontaneous, bite back etc, cause it intrigues me, rather than dating this girl i know that would do anything for me, theres no interest at all...
    I agree with zero of this post except the excuses for going out. You wont meet people staying at home, alone, and by yourself. Get out. You will meet people OP.

    Originally Posted by VanillaSky87 View Post
    I don't want to be single for life. Only thing I don't want is giving birth.
    Yes I can if I know for sure the answer is a yes. I don't like rejections.
    There is some irony. You don't want to be single but, you will only do something about it if its a lay up? Is this real life right now? Cause we all know everyone appreciates what comes for free. Wait wut?

    OP, stop the excuses, get out as much as you can, and when you see a man you like or would like to date or see again, suggest to him, "we should hangout sometime!" See wha happens. If he is down and not a ***, he will at least give you some cawk, and you may have your relationship.
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    Originally Posted by jamestown0101 View Post
    Then again, she brought up marriage, having a family, and kids. Sharing similar beliefs, politics, and other common interests. Still, it was too much. Well, having your vagina stretched out of shape, and squeezing out a child is probably not what most women are thrilled to do. For many men, no heir is a deal breaker, and yet, some are okay with no kids.
    No it's definitely not something I would be excited about. Ever since middle school (was 13 yrs old at the time) I knew kids weren't for me. I don't have that desire for them. I think one of the reasons my relationships didn't work (apart from too much difference and me being boring at times) is because he would say how he wanted a kid in the future. So it's going to be a challenge finding a man like that because most of time either they might be not interested in either (just dating endlessly for years) or in both marriage & kids but not childfree marriage.
    Originally Posted by jamestown0101 View Post
    The **** you mean you don't like rejection? Cause men do? Despite looks, I don't get every girl I hit on, and notasingle****isgiven.jpg. Its funny cause, girls are getting the chance to work, to have a career, and be promiscuous. Burn your brahs and **** like a champ but,
    No I wouldn't like getting turned down. It would reminded me of this guy in high school I once had a crush on for 2 years (since the 7th till 9th grade). I never really asked him out but he knew I liked him. It was a disaster and he rejected me harshly (he called me ugly and a bunch of other sarcastic comments). Then he tried apologizing his way and asking me out but that was only out of pity (I noticed). Later on he just asked me for a hang-out, in which I happily say no. Nothing would fix what he said nor how he acted that day even though he seemed sorry.
    Originally Posted by jamestown0101 View Post
    Like, you are more then capable of doing your own thing, living your own life, and not needing a man to support you.
    I didn't meant ''I want a man to support me and feed me''. I don't want that. I already have my own bank account and it's me paying for my classes. I was referring to a man I can share similar goals & ambitions, that I can spend a lot of time with and get to know his family..... someone I can trust and develop a deep connection with.
    Originally Posted by jamestown0101 View Post
    You will have a bf eventually but, you should enjoy being single, and like myself, when you least expect it, you will meet someone awesome. Leave the past in the past, give guys a fair chance despite previous guys you have dated or chose, and just learn to not take it personal. Soak up the lessons from the experiences and avoid repeating the past. Good luck!
    Ok... thanks!! With me if I made a mistake I don't repeat it. I learned it once and that's all it takes.
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    Originally Posted by jamestown0101 View Post
    OP out of curiosity, what is your background?
    I was born in Peru but just like the girl in the story came over to the US at the early age of 4. Fast-forward: It's been now about 5 years since I've come back (way back in late May 2007).

    There used to be a lot of what is called ''machismo'' (meaning chauvinism) here many years ago but now it has decreased significantly. Ex: A man can get reported for hitting or trying to spank a wife like a child if the woman proceeds to go to the commiseria (police station) and file charges on him. One of my mother's male childhood friend got busted for that and has to appear in court for hitting his ex wife. The sender accidently send the police notification to our old apartment and basically if he doesn't show up, he's gonna have to pay a big fine.

    Basically everyone can do what they want to though many people still find it weird those that don't desired either relationships or kids. So if I were in a family reunion and people start asking when if I'll have a child, I have to lie and say ''Yeah pretty soon, not now or ''I'm still too young for that''. This is similar to American but I have to say the US is slightly more open-minded and even elderly people work (over here unless you have a profession, there is an age limit to many job positions).
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    Originally Posted by jamestown0101 View Post
    There is some irony. You don't want to be single but, you will only do something about it if its a lay up? Is this real life right now? Cause we all know everyone appreciates what comes for free. Wait wut?.
    Well no one is an island afterall. At some, it's good to have someone to talk to.
    Originally Posted by jamestown0101 View Post
    OP, stop the excuses, get out as much as you can, and when you see a man you like or would like to date or see again, suggest to him, "we should hangout sometime!" See wha happens. If he is down and not a ***, he will at least give you some cawk, and you may have your relationship.
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