Females, what is the first thing you look at on a man?

[Al Shades]

Shoulders. No joke, my hubby has broad shoulders. Why shoulders you may wonder? Because that is where the "nook" is, that spot you put your head when you snuggle and being held. It is kind of right above the arm pit when I guy has his arms around you. I gotta fit....

Pretty sure that's called the trapezius muscle.

[KasaraBrianne]

Face/facial hair/hair. at the same time hahh.

[dabomb691]

the hands is da truth guys. get the compliment all the time from women

[marlene79]

face. I love a good face with nice eyes.

[Ion26]

Well this is interesting...

I assumed the most popular answer would be face+hair aesthetics...

Loled @ hands...

[latebloomingmom]

I really only thought chicks looked at a guy's hands just to size them up...
you know...are they big enough to hold onto 'the girls '
or do I need to find a guy
with bigger hands...
hmmm learn something new..

[ThePeach]

eyes are the windows to his soul.
nice teeth.. and a nice solid v-taper

What if a dude has braces? Getting round 2 on the 20th because my 1st ortho messed up my bite. Turning 21 tonight also.... got 1 weekend to go all out

keep it up, the rewards will be great!

[LisaSkinnoble]

I'm very happy with Mr Flexy, so I don't look at other men. But you lassies out there, look at their ring fingers first. Ring? Run like hell. No ring? Check for a tan line. Then run like hell.

[Ion26]

I really only thought chicks looked at a guy's hands just to size them up...
you know...are they big enough to hold onto 'the girls '
or do I need to find a guy
with bigger hands...
hmmm learn something new..

Well I dont know about big or small hands...but one thing is certain I always make sure my hands are as soft at a baby's butt

[NOVA888]

I'm very happy with Mr Flexy, so I don't look at other men. But you lassies out there, look at their ring fingers first. Ring? Run like hell. No ring? Check for a tan line. Then run like hell.

The problem is that many single women won't run. I've read (and seen firsthand), that the 'ring' is a massive turn-on for many single women.

[ThePeach]

The problem is that many single women won't run. I've read (and seen firsthand), that the 'ring' is a massive turn-on for many single women.

Personally when a married guy makes any kind of move on me I'm so turned off by him right there and then he might as well consider himself non-existent to me.

[seanb1979]

The problem is that many single women won't run. I've read (and seen firsthand), that the 'ring' is a massive turn-on for many single women.

Yup I know a couple girls that almost exclusively go for married and otherwise taken men. It simply shows the man is desirable and they want what others have.

[grylls]

This thread is relevant to every guy lol.

As a guy I think a woman should have nice real nails- if not, fireexitisthatway.jpeg

On topic, do women generally prefer the juiced or natty look on a guy?

[Ion26]

This thread is relevant to every guy lol.

As a guy I think a woman should have nice real nails- if not, fireexitisthatway.jpeg

On topic, do women generally prefer the juiced or natty look on a guy?

To clarify your question. When you refer to juiced vs. natty do you mean like Jay Cutler/Ronnie Coleman vs. Rob Riches/Greg Plitt?

[LisaSkinnoble]

The problem is that many single women won't run. I've read (and seen firsthand), that the 'ring' is a massive turn-on for many single women.

Those women need to be quartered and drawn. SRS. Ripped to shreds and left to die in public.

[discdoggie]

A smile and wink from a stranger is VERY sexy.

[discdoggie]

As a guy I think a woman should have nice real nails-

^^^^Must not date rockclimbers, gardeners, or hardcore deadlifters.

[MsDesi]

Build is huge. Dude is scrawny it's a no go.

Personally when a married guy makes any kind of move on me I'm so turned off by him right there and then he might as well consider himself non-existent to me.

So true

The problem is that many single women won't run. I've read (and seen firsthand), that the 'ring' is a massive turn-on for many single women.

I think that's more an exception than the rule tho.

Yup I know a couple girls that almost exclusively go for married and otherwise taken men. It simply shows the man is desirable and they want what others have.

I know some too... skanks. Wanting sloppy seconds.

[norinicole]

Well I dont know about big or small hands...but one thing is certain I always make sure my hands are as soft at a baby's butt

Really? That's more of a turn off for me. I like a guy's hands to be a bit rough. To me that shows he knows how to use them.

^^^^Must not date rockclimbers, gardeners, or hardcore deadlifters.

This.

And really, if she doesn't have fake nails, are you willing to pay for them? Maybe some women can't justify spending that money every 3-4 weeks to get their nails done.




And to answer the original question, I first look at height then shoulders.

[grylls]

To clarify your question. When you refer to juiced vs. natty do you mean like Jay Cutler/Ronnie Coleman vs. Rob Riches/Greg Plitt?

Yea brah, Jay etc vs rob sized guys. I ask this as I would like to be as close as possible to bouncer sized of muscle - natty. Thing is women tht I speak to or know all much much prefer the Tyson gay/ rob riches look or that model David gandy lol.


As for the nails- when I say nice I mean I like that thy look decent, not bitten down to the cuticle etc. Nothing over the top maintenance wise

[norinicole]

Yea brah, Jay etc vs rob sized guys. I ask this as I would like to be as close as possible to bouncer sized of muscle - natty. Thing is women tht I speak to or know all much much prefer the Tyson gay/ rob riches look or that model David gandy lol.

I had to google those guys. I personally don't find that attractive, although I respect the amount of work it may require to maintain that low bodyfat. I prefer guys to be BIG. For example, my bf is the leanest he's been since I met him weighing 250lbs at 6'1" with 20" arms.

Also remember who you are asking. Most of the women on this board may like the beefier look, but we're also on a bodybuilding forum. And every woman will have different tastes.

As for the nails- when I say nice I mean I like that thy look decent, not bitten down to the cuticle etc. Nothing over the top maintenance wise

Gotcha.

[bigbadtom]

Because of my size, I have become very aware of where a lady's eyes go on first glance etc. Face then quickly to arms/chest, then abs, package, legs. Pretty sure from the rear, they check out with width of my back and ass.
I have most of my clothes tailor made but sometimes I find sizes that fit.

Shoes?
Shirt?
Hair?
eyes
smile
face shape
height
built

what is the first thing your eyes shoot to?
inb4it's a body part

[Casca]

What do you ladies think of a masculine, very well defined forearm (not veiny except for the few main veins or time since lifting )? I read it somewhere else how women really like forearms, especially when the man wears a long sleeved shirt rolled up. Thought it was strange.

[Ion26]

Really? That's more of a turn off for me. I like a guy's hands to be a bit rough. To me that shows he knows how to use them.

I assume you like when a guy touches your face when he kisses you? Rough hands wouldnt go well with your delicate face

[thepandabear18]

wat?
i hate shaking hands with dudes that moisturize a lot. specially if they just hit the lotion, its like shaking hands with an eel or something.

back on topic

Made me lol. I don't think I've ever shaken anyone's hand that was slimy from lotion. I would be like, WHY are you wet?!

Personally I look at a guy's face first, generally eyes first because that's really the first point of contact. Then smile. A nice smile is really high on the list of attractive features.

[norinicole]

Because of my size, I have become very aware of where a lady's eyes go on first glance etc. Face then quickly to arms/chest, then abs, package, legs. Pretty sure from the rear, they check out with width of my back and ass.
I have most of my clothes tailor made but sometimes I find sizes that fit.

Where do you go to find clothes that fit?

My bf has a hard time finding anything other than t-shirts.

I assume you like when a guy touches your face when he kisses you? Rough hands wouldnt go well with your delicate face

Good point.

I guess I was thinking more that I prefer MEATY hands.

[latebloomingmom]

I assume you like when a guy touches your face when he kisses you? Rough hands wouldnt go well with your delicate face

no.no rough hands are for the rest of ya..

[HopeJ]

For me it is a combination of everything rather then one thing that sticks out. Unless it is something extreme like the tiny shirt or tiny shorts are worse. Or if he is acting in a rude manner. The other day there was a man who was attractive but every other word he spoke he swore and was so loud.

[bigbadtom]

It can be hit or miss but try local shops in your area rather than large department stores; also, find a good tailor, not as expensive as one would believe-they offer deals to alter or make from scratch.

Where do you go to find clothes that fit?

My bf has a hard time finding anything other than t-shirts.



Good point.

I guess I was thinking more that I prefer MEATY hands.

[norinicole]

It can be hit or miss but try local shops in your area rather than large department stores; also, find a good tailor, not as expensive as one would believe-they offer deals to alter or make from scratch.

Ok. I think we've found a good tailor, so that helps.

Thanks!