My wife is pregnant with our first child - a boy. My wife is adamant about wanting him to be circumcised after he's born, but I've pushed back because I don't know if it's the right thing to do. The main reason she supports circumcision is for hygiene, both for her as a mom cleaning him while he's young and for him when he's older knowing how to clean himself appropriately. She said she doesn't want to worry about infection and having to put lots of effort into cleaning him. I explained that out of all the work we'll be putting into raising our son, cleaning his foreskin will probably amount to about 0.001% of the total effort, but that point seemed to go over her head. It doesn't help that I'm circumcised and she feels like I won't be able to teach him how to clean himself.
The reason I'm having doubts is because I want my son to be able to have the greatest sexual fulfillment possible when he's older and because I don't want to risk injury during the procedure (even though the risk is low). My questions to you guys are this:
How difficult is it to keep an uncircumcised penis clean? Especially interested in responses from parents of uncircumcised kids.
Cliffs:
- Having a boy
- Wife wants him circumcised for hygiene reasons
- I don't so he can enjoy sex more/won't risk injury
- Need opinions from uncircumcised guys and parents of uncircumcised kids
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12-12-2011, 03:34 PM #1
Uncircumcised brahs and parents of uncircumcised kids, please respond. SRS thread.
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Cleaning has never been an issue for me, she's worrying about nothing.
Uncircumcised worst case scenario = he gets an infection from not cleaning
Circumcised worst case scenario = disfigured penis / mistake during the procedure
do some real research yourself (i.e. not the misc) and tell her all the details
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12-12-2011, 03:40 PM #16
Yeah, I'm cut and I definitely enjoy sex, but who wouldn't want even more enjoyment? The injury thing I was referring to was with regard to the procedure itself.
I'm cut and so are all the men in my family, so I really have no way of knowing until he's born. I guess the doctor can tell if it's a normal amount of foreskin?
Thanks.
Thanks.
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12-12-2011, 03:41 PM #18
Cleaning is seriously is as easy as pie. All you do is pull the skin back, clean it with soap like you would with anything else, like your face. just scrub with soap. I love my foreskin when you fap all that pre cum makes it so easy to pull back its awesome lulz
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12-12-2011, 03:41 PM #19
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My parents left me uncut and I was for about 16 years. About that time I was wanting to get lucky but was embarrassed about being uncut. So I asked to get circumcised. Been happy since.
Im going to say this though, it was the most awkward feeling I've ever felt... I wasn't put ti sleep so I could feel the cutting happen but no pain....Squat: 135 lbs
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Stop quoting my stats. I know what I'm doing if I can deadlift 1.5 plates.
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12-12-2011, 03:41 PM #20
mate, is this a joke? do you know how easy it is to pull back foreskin? we obviously weren't MEANT to chop off the tip of our c0ck brah, u think evolution would gimp us by not being able to clean ur godamn c0ck? and if ur a religious nut, u think god would create us with some useless piece of skin? **** no. cutting it off is mutilating ur d1ck brah. don't fuarking do it.
tl:dr, keeping ur c0ck clean is fuarking easy brah.......
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12-12-2011, 03:43 PM #27
Wtf? How hard is it to pull it back and wa****?
It's harder to wash the soles of your feet because you have to sit or stand on one leg.
Let your son decide when he gets older if he wants it or not. You wouldn't want your son to hate you guys for fuking up his penis.Last edited by frozenbarb; 12-12-2011 at 03:48 PM.
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There are a couple things really. Sex does feel better with all the extra nerve endings, although you do have to clean opposed to not at all. Especially after sex. Being circumcised however there won't be any cleaning issues, sex still feels good and he won't have to feel self conscious about it if that's the case.
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12-12-2011, 03:44 PM #30
saying for hygene is like shaving for hygene or soething else, only difference is that it won't grow back. Its like buying a convertible so you wont have a roof too wash because you're too lazy lol. it should be the kids choice when hes older, it shouldnt even be an issue.
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