1 woman for the last 12 years.... but average bout 2-4 times week and she makes a great sandwich nomsaying
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12-10-2011, 08:59 AM #61
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12-10-2011, 09:12 AM #62
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12-10-2011, 09:19 AM #63
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12-10-2011, 09:20 AM #64
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12-10-2011, 11:35 PM #65
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to NYY again.
Glad you are aware brah. I've had better years. Then, I have hooked up with more but, I've met cooler chicks, less kills on the year. It all amounts to what? I guess it depends on what you want. In the past couple of years, I have layed so much wood, I could smell burning rubber. I have only stacked upon the last decade, year after year, girl after girl, and I never stop learning. More recently, my priorities have changed, and I have shifted gears after Guardian & Heavy C calling me out in such a way, I am aware. RESPECT to those guys. Reps on site.
In contrast, I have hooked up more last year yet, I have met cooler chicks this year. I am in a open relationship, multiple fwb, and I still meet or hook up with other girls. Sometimes, it goes a few days, weeks, months, and sometimes, it turns into more. Ironically enough, it began as just furniture breaking and being a neaderthal with a random girl. I suppose it depends on what a person wants. I almost doubled my income this year so, that amounts to something. Just busying myself. Some of my advice is clowning and yet, 100% CEREAL. I fully suggest priortizing what you like and love versus chasing girls. You haven't got to be a rich man but, if you make a living, are passionate, and love what you do, that is success. It all comes down to what you want. There likely is a archive for a long time of me posting about a hook up or some girls I pumped before this forum. I am no richer for it. My eyes are open.
Awaiting Guardian's post. That guy is pure genius. Hilarious too!Last edited by jamestown0101; 12-10-2011 at 11:47 PM.
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12-10-2011, 11:38 PM #66
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12-10-2011, 11:52 PM #67
My apologies for the misunderstanding. It is just a forum so, at times, I am not as precise as I should be in my explaination.
All I meant to say was, I am on a bender, knocking back shots of midleton or martinis, few bumps, bang some pretty girl retarded, and I wake up realizing I went raw dog and or worse, Anal too.
At that point, I almost wish I had gone, ****ed a nasty bish (with a rubber on).
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12-11-2011, 12:07 AM #68
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fooled around with a couple chicks but no sex
to all the guys with high numbers (i consider 6+ in a year high for the average dude) where are you guys meeting chicks?
its not that im bad talking to girls, i just literally never seem to meet any hot girls who arent taken
when i go out, the hot girls are with their boyfriends or stay in mobs making it hard to get them home.
theres a plentora of fat ugly skanks though but thats not for me
anyway props to the guys getting crazy pussy but im legitimately wondering where are you guys meeting these girls?
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12-11-2011, 12:15 AM #69
im sure most guys getting tons of lays are doing it either online with girls beneath them looks wise. or are in college and racking it up at college bars.
im seriously impressed if a guy is hitting double digits after the college days and not using online dating for easy girlsWhen the world says, "Give up," Hope whispers, "Try it one more time."
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12-11-2011, 12:30 AM #70
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12-11-2011, 12:51 AM #71
13 different girls
Thought it was higher... messed around with some other girls that I did not have sex with but didn't pursue them after that, so my sex totals could have been higher... apparently not every girl wants to have sex after the 1st date. WTF is that about?
With work, working out, side projects, hobbies... I have no idea how you guys have enough time to date all these girls and bang them unless they're one night stands.
Also found 2 girls I like a lot and been focusing on them. After hooking up with that many random girls, I realized that it's fun, but I'd MUCH MUCH MUCH rather have a serious girlfriend. SO fcking hard for me to find one worth dating seriously... and when I do, it's always been a challenge for me to actually start dating them. The girls always seem to have so many other options that it's just such a pain in the ass and really frustrating to get to the relationship phase. Ugh.
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12-11-2011, 12:53 AM #72
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12-11-2011, 12:54 AM #73
same.
Honestly though - I could go to a bar and bag a 6 or below pretty easily if I wanted and have really high #'s... but I hardly ever do that now... mainly b/c I don't get super wasted like I used to lol. All the girls I've banged this year are 7.5-9's. I have like 0 motivation to pursue girls less than that. Kinda sucks b/c some nights I'll have 0 girls I want to talk to... or there will be only 1-2 that meet my standards and I'll get anxious talking to them b/c I know they're all I've got lol
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12-11-2011, 01:30 AM #74
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12-11-2011, 01:41 AM #75
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12-11-2011, 01:47 AM #76
bartending.
but honestly I can pick up chicks anywhere. It truly is a numbers game. This year I've hooked up with chicks that I:
-met at cross-walk on campus
-met visiting friend in the dorms
-met buying a shirt at the mall
-met buyiny halloween costume
-met buying groceries
..and its not because I'm really good-looking. Girls have their guards way down while doing normal activities. When they're approached by a confident man they fukkin fall a part and submit. Try it sometime, just don't ask for the number before you get their name.
Usually like this:
1. Approach. Say something funny about whatever is around us / make fun of them.
2. Introduce myself. (then they introduce themselves--or if they get really nervous I ask them their name)
3. Talk a little more
4. Get digits
5. Text & flirt. I only call if I know them well, like if its a girl from class. Otherwise they'll think you're desperate since they don't know you very well and calling is personal. I'll call after a large amount of texts have been sent (but I don't text back and forth like a girl).
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12-11-2011, 02:34 AM #77
once i get a number its game over and its easy. i guess the problem i have (that i really need to get over to truely meet some more girls) is that 99% of girls i see in public these days are:
- with guys
- in a group of friends (will front in front of a group not to look easy even if they are interested)
- face buried in iphone/blackberry
- generally looking constipated and upset with a look of sorrow on their face
makes me say yea fuk this bitch ill wait till i go to a party or something to meet some chicks....then meeting girls becomes few and far between....ur definately right about capitalizing on every day situations, will try
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12-11-2011, 03:01 AM #78
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12-11-2011, 08:20 AM #79
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12-11-2011, 08:27 AM #80
Phuck I feel I have a similar problem. I seem to be 'good' at one night stands and casual sex, but can't find serious girlfriend, it always phucks up. Either girl isn't interested/flakes, or vice versa. Has been my luck for ages. Guess I have to be happy that at least I am getting something though. But yeah, one night stands aren't all that great really. Feels bad not having had a relationship for like 4-5 years now though.
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12-11-2011, 10:32 AM #81
Welcome to my world man. I have the EXACT same issues you do lol. I think it's because I have very high standards so when I finally find a girl I'm interested in enough to seriously date, it's harder... but I just can't date a girl I'm pretty interested in... I need to be really worked up about her. So now when I find one and it doesn't work out, it really frustrates me.
My Theory:
1- the # of girls I'd actually really date are a very low % of girls out there so it's very hard to even find one to talk to
2- the girls are really high quality so they have a lot going on in general (little time to date me) AND have tons of people vying for their time (guys trying to date her, other girl friends trying to go do stuff with her)
3- she has lots of other options so she really has to be into me to start dating
4- timing - she has to be ready for a relationship and so do I
Fcking sucks. I have a friend in his 30's with the same problem. The girls are out there though...somewhere. The last girl he dated was: gorgeous, amazing personality (she makes 400k/yr in high level sales), outgoing, fun, sweet, great chef, spoils her man, very intelligent, etc. These are the type of girls almost every guy would want to be with.
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12-11-2011, 10:36 AM #82
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12-11-2011, 10:47 AM #83
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12-11-2011, 10:49 AM #84
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12-11-2011, 10:51 AM #85
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12-11-2011, 11:03 AM #86
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12-11-2011, 11:22 AM #87
Yeah, sometimes its hard to understand. A lot of the hot girls around my age (22) walk around with a very arrogant, prissy attitude and think the sun shines out of their ass. And a lot of them take themselves very seriously and aren't a lot of fun. Their life is vanity. Staring in mirrors and taking photos in bathrooms and ****. I can't relate to that. So maybe it is just meeting a girl you click with, its just I don't seem to find her.
I think I am going to try an differently approach it now though. As for ages I have been 'looking' for a girl. Now I am just going to work on my lifestyle, shape up a bit and generally sharpen up my act and hope that this has a beneficial effect. I have a feeling that the last few girls that 'fizzled' out fizzled partly due to things like me wearing crappy clothing and stuff. Not even character flaws, just **** like looking a bit trampy. So
I'm thinking about just working on my lifestyle, wearing smarter clothes, getting fit/strong. For a one night stand, a girl isn't really thinking or caring about your flaws and who you are as a person, but I think they take it into account more before dating someone. So I think tuning up my lifestyle might be the key as I think several of the last girls just thought I was a bit of a mess frankly, that was at college when I was always broke and never looked good. Now I'm working so its a case of just really polishing myself up a bit more and I think it might make all the difference.
All those one night stands have become boring..and in the end, they are ultimately not satisfying or rewarding. Ok I lie it feels nice when you haven't done it in a while and you get a nice lay, but in reality, phuck, would be nice to have a gf.
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12-11-2011, 11:23 AM #88
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