First college party - not sure what to expect

[OhioStateBucki]

Sounds counter-intuitive but you'll learn the best way to get laid at frat or house parties is to just get pretty drunk (not to the point of blackout/puking/whiskey dick obviously...) with your buds and be having a good time. People flow towards the fun in parties and it will inevitably bring girls your way. From there it's a matter of balancing giving them enough attention to keep them around but not being one of the other 1000 WK *******s who have been all over her at that same party. Then it's just a short amount of time before you're hooking up w/ her at your place.

Edit - Also don't expect anything in particular to happen. If you think everythings going to happen in a certain way trust me it never does and you'll just spend time worrying about how things aren't going as you hoped.

So essentially: No expectations + Get drunk + Have fun doing whatever the fuk you and your friends want to

[niktak11]

lol wut?

You have no idea how many times i've walked in to a party and girls have come right up to me, dtf..

Just carry a beer around and pretend to drink so you don't look like a ******* when plow drunk girls, don't actually have to drink.

This is what I was hoping

[Boffothe]

Sounds counter-intuitive but you'll learn the best way to get laid at frat or house parties is to just get pretty drunk (not to the point of blackout/puking/whiskey dick obviously...) with your buds and be having a good time. People flow towards the fun in parties and it will inevitably bring girls your way. From there it's a matter of balancing giving them enough attention to keep them around but not being one of the other 1000 WK *******s who have been all over her at that same party. Then it's just a short amount of time before you're hooking up w/ her at your place.

This. Girls don't want the guy desperate to get laid, they want the fun guys who don't give a phuk and are the life of the party (but don't be obnoxious)

[niktak11]

I don't mind drinking. It's just that getting caught once will automatically get me kicked out of pharm school. Any chance of getting busted at a frat party?

[themiscson]

The only girls at a party looking to go home with someone are drunk girls. Sober guy taking home a drunk girl is typically viewed as date rapish. Girls friends will stop the **** from happening.

no, everyone will try and stop this.. Taking home a drunk girl while you are sober is a good way to get 30 screaming bitches to get 30 drunk dudes to try to beat the **** out of you.. just sayin'


sauce- ive seen this a bunch of times..

[codyistheman]

Bro, you have to get at least a little bit tipsy. No white knighting but most girls will be drunk and if you get caught sober trying to hook up with a drunk chick there could be trouble. Take a few shots, and go mingle with hella bitches its not hard.

Like the other guys above said, dress like a douchebag.

[niktak11]

first college party with two weeks left in the semester... notsureifsrs and you should be studying so you can party guilt free after

Just broke up with girlfriend. And I'm not worried about finals

[shoobey]

no, everyone will try and stop this.. Taking home a drunk girl while you are sober is a good way to get 30 screaming bitches to get 30 drunk dudes to try to beat the **** out of you.. just sayin'


sauce- ive seen this a bunch of times..

College kids logic is hilarious lol. So it's not rape as long as you are drunk too and can't make decisions either lol? So basically your drunk cancels out their drunk or something? How do people know you aren't just buzzing while the girl is trashed? There are just so many unanswered questions lol

[niktak11]

Are there things I should specifically not talk about with them (like school)?

[shoobey]

Bro, you have to get at least a little bit tipsy. No white knighting but most girls will be drunk and if you get caught sober trying to hook up with a drunk chick there could be trouble. Take a few shots, and go mingle with hella bitches its not hard.

I'm honestly fascinated by this, because I graduated from college in 2007, and this was not around when I went. Sometimes I would show up to parties and not drink just b/c I didn't feel like drinking, or had to study later, but wanted to go out still. I never in a million years would have expected to get into a fight for this, but I also didn't go around hitting on girls b/c they were drunk, I hit on girls b/c they were hot and seemed cool, just like I do when I'm drunk.

[Boffothe]

I don't mind drinking. It's just that getting caught once will automatically get me kicked out of pharm school. Any chance of getting busted at a frat party?

It depends on what school you go to, schools with established and old Greek cultures will be pretty much totally safe from police in my experience, or at least that's how it was at Penn State and other big schools I've been to

[shoobey]

Are they things I should specifically not talk about with them (like school)?

i think u gotta just get a nice buzz going on, get into the tunes and have a good time! U are wayyy over thinking this bro!

[robertk232]

*beginrivalry****talking*

Oregon State huh brah...? Why don't you just take a gay sheep home instead of a girl?

http://www.gazettetimes.com/news/loc...821b429da.html

"Beavers player Ben Michael Siegert was apparently caught driving the getaway vehicle that whisked a ram away from the university's Sheep Center, according to police.... The ram lives at the research facility on 35th Street near Campus Way and is part of a study on homosexuality in sheep, said Sheep Center manager Tom Nichols."



*endrivalry****talking*

Brah, just get a little buzzed and be friendly. If you are not a social retard, you should have success. If not, chalk it up as first time out jitters, and try again the next night.

[WakeMitchell]

watch some Collegerules69 videos, thats usually what its like

[aggieman122]

OP you are asking a bunch of GDIs how to get laid at a fraternity party. That is your first problem. Join a fraternity and grow a pair. Take a Lap.

Edit: Also drinking is a necessity. This isn't high school anymore.

[HansF]

The only girls at a party looking to go home with someone are drunk girls. Sober guy taking home a drunk girl is typically viewed as date rapish. Girls friends will stop the **** from happening.

This. good luck with your non drinking taking a girl home goals for 2011

Also unless you're extremely outgoing people can tell if you're not drinking. Don't be that awkward guy that shows up and stands around and watches everyone else drink.

[DontNegImPreggo]

lol wut?

You have no idea how many times i've walked in to a party and girls have come right up to me, dtf..

Just carry a beer around and pretend to drink so you don't look like a ******* when plow drunk girls, don't actually have to drink.

Do this every single time I go to a party(Srs). Hate the taste of beer, don't particularly enjoy being drunk and I don't have issues being social when sober.

OP, just have fun and girls will come to you. Don't spend all of your time chasing girls.

[shoobey]

This. good luck with your non drinking taking a girl home goals for 2011

I remember a few years ago a common suggestion on the misc was to go to bars and parties sober so you could spit game without getting sloppy. How the times change.

[transformation2]

u dont have to drink jus walk around with a cup and pretend ure drunk.

edit: btw last party i went to was so chill chicks were hammered i didn't even bother spitting game. "hey wanna hook up?" "sure" LOLOLOL SRS.

edit2: bunch of slack jawed ***gots ITT. op you don't have to drink pretend you're drunk no one is gonna know/care

[niktak11]

Do this every single time I go to a party(Srs). Hate the taste of beer, don't particularly enjoy being drunk and I don't have issues being social when sober.

OP, just have fun and girls will come to you. Don't spend all of your time chasing girls.

I will try this. Randomly talking to drunk bishes did seem kinda creepy

[transformation2]

I will try this. Randomly talking to drunk bishes did seem kinda creepy

lol wut approaching chicks is not creepy a tall. this is **** advice im out.

[EZ-Bar]

sucks that your not drinking.

are you a fun over the top person usually without it?

If so its really easy. The guy having the most fun will be able to grab pretty much any girl at that party dance with her and its pretty much done from there.

if your planning on walking in there seeing some girls walking up and asking them what there name is, what there major is, how old they are, etc etc. And for them to be like omg im a college whore lets leave. Then your probably in for a rude awakening (this is exaggerated of course)

tips:

- Grab a beer you dont really have to drink it, but its just a situation where it will make it easier if you have one in your hands
- Dont ignore a girls friends...they will cockblock you if you do. (especially fatties...in which case you have to be careful not to make the whale like ya too much).
- Have a good time. Dont sit in the corner wondering why the bishes arent flocking to your aesthetics. Talk to the douchey frat bro's, talk to everyone, its kind of hard to describe but be a fun person. Nobody wants to talk to the boring guy and you definitely cant bore a girl into like you).
- one of my favorite things ever to do is get girls to role play. example would be after talking to em for a bit ill pull her in and tell her something like "hey your my bouncer for the night k?" if shes having a good time talking to you she will of course agree.. then you can play along and go "oh well first we need a quick interview...flex for me". She will pull a double bi or somethin you squeeze her arms tell her she will do then tell her ok so basically all you have to do is keep the all the girls from taking advantage of you tonight. And whatever you can go from there but its fun, easy, and different. The best is when you leave and start talking to another girl and she comes and "bounces" you from her (or even more interesting sometimes her from you) so she can have you to yourself. But of course this all depends on if doing something like this fits you if that makes sense.

[HansF]

u dont have to drink jus walk around with a cup and pretend ure drunk.

Do NOT pretend you are drunk. Everyone can tell. If you dont drink fine, but dont pretend to be drunk. It looks extremely fake and you'll just come across as a *******.

Even drunk people can tell when other people are pretending to be drunk.

[rhaus]

I'm going to my first college party at a frat on Saturday and I honestly don't know what to expect. I'm not interested in drinking, I'm pretty much only interested in getting laid. Do I need to walk in with a plan or what? Also, is it unrealistic to expect to walk out with a 7+? My looks will be better than the average guy's there.

Didn't read thread, but I'm sure it was mentioned. Find a ride there, get 5+ drinks deep quick, maintain the rest of the night with beers, and be the center of attention, be having fun and talk to everyone. Bishes will notice and then, and only then will they WANT to talk to you. From there, it should be cake. Bounce around from girl to girl and finally decide on which one you want.

If you don't drink... you will not pull any females. Period. This takes alot of practice and you have no experience, so drink.

[DontNegImPreggo]

lol wut approaching chicks is not creepy a tall. this is **** advice im out.

I will try this. Randomly talking to drunk bishes did seem kinda creepy

Like niktak said, It's not creepy OP. It's just slightly more difficult to come in on a cold approach, especially if you've been in a relationship for 2.5years. By having fun and shii girls will come near you and the conversation will start and flow more naturally. Where as with a cold approach they figure you're the 100th guy that night just trying to hook up with them.

And don't pretend to be drunk, just sip a bit here and there and pretend to drink. Follow? You don't have to pretend to slur your words and **** or stumble around, just be seen with different glasses/beers throughout the night capeche?

[jerseyshorebrah]

I'm going to my first college party at a frat on Saturday and I honestly don't know what to expect. I'm not interested in drinking, I'm pretty much only interested in getting laid. Do I need to walk in with a plan or whatAlso, is it unrealistic to expect to walk out with a 7+? My looks will be better than the average guy's there.

[transformation2]

Do NOT pretend you are drunk. Everyone can tell. If you dont drink fine, but dont pretend to be drunk. It looks extremely fake and you'll just come across as a *******.

Even drunk people can tell when other people are pretending to be drunk.

obv im not suggesting op should slur and stagger on purpose. and i never drink more than 2 shots at parties because i have to drive and no one has given a single fuk or mentioned a thing about being sober and chicks bein drunk.

[shoobey]

Didn't read thread, but I'm sure it was mentioned. Find a ride there, get 5+ drinks deep quick, maintain the rest of the night with beers, and be the center of attention, be having fun and talk to everyone. Bishes will notice and then, and only then will they WANT to talk to you. From there, it should be cake. Bounce around from girl to girl and finally decide on which one you want.

If you don't drink... you will not pull any females. Period. This takes alot of practice and you have no experience, so drink.

What are your tips for bars bro? Get drunk/don't get drunk? All I can do is pick up girls in the club at this point in dancing situations, because I just got out of a 5 year relationship recently, and that's the highest stage I reached before this lol.

[CoreMaster75]

I don't mind drinking. It's just that getting caught once will automatically get me kicked out of pharm school. Any chance of getting busted at a frat party?

Not really. They will just tell you to leave, they will bust you if you run however. The only time frats really get busted is when they get sold out, and the entire police force coordinates a bust. Which is pretty rare, at my college it would happen once a year, sometimes once every 2 years.

Just broke up with girlfriend. And I'm not worried about finals

It's going to be hard brah, no lie. After 2.5 years you're not going to be in pick-up mode, you're still going to be in girlfriend mode, even if you don't think so. Read Coal Man's sticky in Relationship help if you really want a shot at bringing home girls. And you'll need a beer in your hand or else it won't work. You'll either be labeled as a creeper immediately(srs).

[WestAfrica]

My first college party was the day I moved down. I was living in these apartments for college kids. 12 diff buildings with 12 diff apartments with 1-5 ppl living in each one.

Brb Friday before school everyone is out in the parking lot area
Brb 300+ ppl plus all their friends
Brb ppl partying
Brb Police
Brb Police helicopters flying overhead trying to disperse party
Brb Is this what college is like???