Girlfriend has a best 'guy' friend..
How do you guys deal with this?? I've met him and I don't see him as a threat because he is definitely not as good looking as me but it's just weird because they hang out alone together, watch movies together, go to parties, etc. I just find it weird.. I haven't brought it up yet and I haven't shown any signs of jealousy, but it's kinda pissing me off a little bit lol. This is a very new girlfriend (been official for 2 weeks), so there's hardly any feelings involved, but I just don't want this to be a problem in the future (get cheated on or whatever).
Anybody else been in this type of situation?
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More info:
-they used to date years ago (broke up, got back together, broke up, got back together, etc.)
-he bought her a car (lol)
-my girlfriend invites him over to watch movies at her house
-they hang out 1 on 1 a lot..
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11-22-2011, 11:23 AM #1Registered User
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Girlfriend has a best 'guy' friend..
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11-22-2011, 11:25 AM #2Lord of Winterfell
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I broke up with my gf because of this, and guess who she was dating within the same week... the best guy friend..
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11-22-2011, 11:26 AM #3Registered User
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lol sounds like wifey material (notsrs). Just string her along for sex then drop her. She'll turn it on you no matter what reason you give her not to hangout with him.
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11-22-2011, 11:26 AM #4Thread Grader
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have they ever kissed? evenm in like 5th grade?
send him a text from her phone on some sexytime ish and see what he saysyou should read this
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11-22-2011, 11:26 AM #5itsmenara
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if he's not gay or married, you in trouble.
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11-22-2011, 11:28 AM #6Registered User
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You are setting yourself up for alot of heartache if you get serious with her, DO NOT DO IT.
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11-22-2011, 11:28 AM #7Registered User
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I agree with chosenbrahh on this one... make her a fuk & chuck because there is no way you're gonna stop that bsOriginally Posted by chosenbrahh
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11-22-2011, 11:28 AM #8Registered User
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In my experience.... She probably only sees him as a friend; he on the other hand probably likes her more than that. Pepper ur angus (or her angus for her bff)
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11-22-2011, 11:28 AM #9Banned
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brb no pics *******
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11-22-2011, 11:28 AM #10
I have played the other role as the bestfriend a few times and I love making the boyfriend rage. It sends their girlfriend right into my arms for sexy time. Seriously, you best be watching out OP.
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11-22-2011, 11:28 AM #11Registered User
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Get a "best friend" who is a girl..
start hanging out with her all the time
See who gets jelly now
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11-22-2011, 11:29 AM #12Registered User
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From what she told me, yes, they dated for like a week back in high school or some ****..Originally Posted by ragingcrayon
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11-22-2011, 11:29 AM #13XXXGAINS
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he better be gayer than richard simmon's underpants or prepare thy angus. No straight dude hangs with a chick he aint trying to bone when he could be chillin with his boyz
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11-22-2011, 11:29 AM #14Registered User
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Yea, x2.Originally Posted by Jon85
disgunbgood.gifIf life gives you lemons, say **** the lemons and bail.
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11-22-2011, 11:29 AM #15'Sup
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OP probably doesn't realize he is actually the guy friend lol.
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11-22-2011, 11:30 AM #16So?Originally Posted by nickh04
My Best friend is a beautiful woman with a BF. I know him he knows me, and well if anything was going to happen it would have happened within the past 6-7 years of our friendship. My ex also had a "BFF" man friend who she used to love and even got a tatoo on her in resemblance of their friendship. And they never ****ed. Its not really a big deal broski.
Moral of the story is, dont be a pussy beta ******* and understand your significant other may have other friends and outlets in life. Deal with it.*DISCLAIMER: Killdowzer is not responsible for advice he gives or the posts he posts.
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11-22-2011, 11:30 AM #17I <3 Deadlifts
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Originally Posted by ragingcrayon
could try this. i think most any guy who is a friend with a girl, wants to fuk her. i mean really, who would want a chic as a hangout buddy if she isnt putting out...Supps:
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11-22-2011, 11:31 AM #18Registered User
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Had the same situation some time ago. I told the guy to back the **** off or else he'd be sorry, but the girl hung out with him anyway sometimes which ended up ruining the whole relationship because I thought it was some grade A bull****.
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11-22-2011, 11:31 AM #19Registered User
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this x10.Originally Posted by Beararms
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11-22-2011, 11:32 AM #20Registered User
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Sooooooo this.Originally Posted by Jon85
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11-22-2011, 11:32 AM #21Registered User
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this happened to me, telling her i didnt like it worked out in fights. i just said "ok thats fine but dont be mad when i hang out with other girls" and eventually once it made her uncomfortable and she started a fight about it i just said this guy is tearing us apart, its him or me. choose now
she chose me ofc, girls always choose dick, you just just have to manipulate them a bit. give it a try OP
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11-22-2011, 11:32 AM #22
Bail out now while you still don't care very much... (srs)
Based on personal experiences nothing good will come out of this. (very srs)xTUNAx
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11-22-2011, 11:33 AM #23Platinum Account
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prankdial.com...... use evil operator between their 2 phone numbers, and you can listen in on a phone call between them (a fairly long one if you are willing to spend a dollar or two)
also, it's not traceable back to you, if you ever have suspicions with your girl and a dude, this is a good way of finding out how they talk to each other when you aren't around
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11-22-2011, 11:33 AM #24Thread Grader
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dump the btchOriginally Posted by nickh04
you should read this
https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=179438063
negs for using "of" where it should be "have"
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11-22-2011, 11:34 AM #25XXXGAINS
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Originally Posted by KillDowzer
you are the exception NOT the rule, glad it worked out for you though........for now"There are no absolute rules of conduct, either in peace or war. Everything depends on circumstances." Leon
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11-22-2011, 11:34 AM #26Registered User
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I'm friends with a married woman. I've known her since we were 8. Never treated her like a woman though. I think of her and her husband as men in a gay marriage and I am ok with their lifestyle. It doesn't affect me. It's the 2010s and as long as they don't do stuff in front of me I don't see anything wrong with it.
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11-22-2011, 11:34 AM #27Banned
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lolOriginally Posted by nickh04
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11-22-2011, 11:35 AM #28Registered User
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Exactly!Originally Posted by NoFXN
Play it cool
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11-22-2011, 11:35 AM #29Registered User
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what he said ^^^, Get a BFF thats a girl and hang out with her 24/7. Tbh, I have a best friend thats a girl, and my girl has a bes friend that's a guy and we all get along perfectly fine...and some times orgy.
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11-22-2011, 11:35 AM #30Registered User
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OP girls do this, dont let the misc fool you, not ALL girls are whores, just most of them.
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