MISC APPROACHES/PICK-UP CREW (international) (tips) (GTFIH foreveraloners)

[FeelTheFear]

Attended Alex free tour last week, was a great 2 hours full of anecdotes about our home city and some good solid advice.

Went out sat-

Pull 2 girls into a club with a friend whos wasted. One 7, one a 5
- Go to bathroom grab a drink
- friend is wasted hooking up with a 5
- See the 7 dancing nearby with a guy up close
- Bro starts moving in and dancing with her before I can pull away
- They makeout I bail back to my group while friend goes home with 5 and gets a BJ

You put the pie on the window sil for 1 second and it gets eaten!

Setting up two day twos this week.

should've tried harder to steal her back

one thing i learned from friday was that AMOGs can pump up girls state.. while you steal her back and she'll have better energy than when you left her

[Jonken]

Didnt know of this thread in!

Posting up some month old reports ive written.

Adventures in Budapest: (with my mom and grandpa)
First off, awesome city. People are out enjoying cafe's and bars 24/7. The chicks are super hot. Lots of foreingers as well.
The first two days i didnt go out, tried chatting to a few girls in stores and on the streets... Most responses was "NO ENGLESH", and the few who actually spoke a bit had such broken english it was hard to understand each other.
Friday: Met up with "Don_greene" from RSDN at around 23:00 at a park close to my hotel, in the park there was about 500 people drinking. We tried to open about 5 moving sets, all responding with "no englesh". Then we opened a sitting set, turned out they were quite faul, so we left. We opened a three set sitting on the grass. All were super cold to begin with, but we actually got other responses then "no englesh". After awhile one of them started to warm up a bit, and she helped translate what we were saying to the others. All was good until they suddenly left after a phone call. Opened one more set there, but some dudes came in that knew them and everything turned hungarian. Me and Kerian (don_greene) and some of his other friends went to a UV-paint party, had a good time, got painted by some chicks, dominated the dance floor and opened a few good sets (mostly girls from france/finland/poland and so on). Nothing which lead to anything. Left the club with two finnish chicks, but didnt pull.
Three hours of sleep then i had to wake up and explore the city some more.

Saturday:
Met up with a girl i met from "mazily" in sweden. We met last sunday, and it turned out she was going back to budapest on the saturday. When she got back to budapest she sent me a text and asked if i wanted to go to a house party her friends were holding. So around 22:00 i met her in the same park from the other day, we go to the house party, and there was a few super hotties! I was holding a good vibe and most people there seemed comfortable speaking english with me. The some of the hotties left early after some drama at the party, we left for the club around 01:00. The club was some sort of indie club at a rooftop. It was cool as to be able to look out over half of budapest. Danced a bit, made out with mazily girl. At 05:00 me, her and one of her friends left the club. Mazily girl starts complaining how she does not have to keys to her appartment, i say we can stay at my place. Her friend comes in and says she promised to sleep at her place, and there will be no other way. I tell them i need company back to my place anyway, because i cant find my way around for ****, they agree. After 10min of walking i still havnt found a good way to fix the problem, so when we were close to my place the friend basicly tell me "walk 3min that direction, nice seeing you" and they left.
Even with the blueballs finish it was an awesome weekend. Insane how you can go to a completely foreign city and meet people in such short time, saw some sick partys due to that. I will go back there for sure to make more out of the place. I mainly want to explore the street game there a bit more. And i did talk to some people who had lots of friends in the tourism industry, that might be able to help me get a job for 2-3weeks.

Adventure in Motala: With five friends
Went down to my summer house in Motala (a smaller town in sweden). Just relaxed with my buddy's on the Friday. Saturday we BBQ, joked around, had a few drinks. Then we went to Harry's (a small/medium sized pub/club).
Once we got there around 23:30, the club was semi empty, and there was seriously only rank chicks. I mean like 0 at the binary scale. I got a bit bored from sitting at the table with my buddies, so me and another friend started approaching everything in the club. At the time that was about 10 girls.... Once we had talked to all of them the club started to fill up nicely. I think the time was around 00:30, i hit up the dance floor. Started dancing with some semi chick who was quite responsive, but i didnt push it anywhere. I then went straight into another set of three, and started dancing "the cube". Silly as, but i enjoy it haha. The hottest girl in the group started dancing it to, so i gave her a hug and lifted her up, span her around. When i put her down i tried going for a kiss, she turned her cheek, danced a bit more and i tried again. Another cheek haha. I left them to check the other dance floor. On my way there i see a cutie, who i ask if she's the one who spilled all over the floor. She says no quite shocked, we talk a bit while walking, turns out its her birthday, and she turned 25 (i thought she was around 20..). We dance a bit, i ask if she had gotten her birthday kiss yet, she says no. So i gave her one.
After that she dances quite aloof, not being really physical or responsive. I get bored of that so i push her up against the wall, starting to ask a few interview mode questions with boss tonality. Since she was short i was really looking down on her. I couldnt tell if she was comfortable or not with it, so i take a step back, she instantly grabs my hand and pulls me back in. We make out a bit. She starts throwing a **** loads of **** tests my way, i couldnt be bothered, so i just laughed at them or joked about it. Then we talk to find our friends, when we meet hers she presents me to them. Telling them im "green".
In my head at this time i was like "viiictooooryyyy". I leave her to dance a bit with my friends.
20 minutes before the bar closes she comes and finds me. We make out some more, laugh a bit. Meanwhile her friend sat with my friends. I just said hello to her friend and didnt pay too much attention to her. Then we get our jackets to leave, i tell them we are having an after party at the lake house. Her friend starts bitching how they both are sleeping at her place. I tell them that they should join us, she says no. I tell them ill join them then, the friend says no. I couldnt be bothered, so i tell them "this is your last chance, im jumping into the cab now, take it or leave it".
Well..... They stayed. So once again i leave the club with great blue balls.
I did have a fun night though. And to the end i think i got a bit to serious with a few **** tests, and i will have to spend more time getting familiar with their friends. My friends i was there with is mostly a bit chody or relationships, so didnt have a proper wing.
Excuses excuses.

Adventures in Uppsala: Swedish Holiday Special
This tuesday was a swedish holiday, so me and 3 PU friends and a "regular" went to uppsala to celebrate.
There was a ****load of people there when we arrived around 12:00. We started by sitting down in the park and just chatting for about 30min, then i started waving and calling on girls walking past. It wasnt that successful due to a lot of noise and movement around, so i failed to stand out. Around 13:00 we begun to approach a few sets to get a good social vibe going. An hour later me and my regular friend started to kind of approach anything that was pretty. Had a few nice interactions, then we found a big group of people dancing infront of a redbull car with a DJ set. While dancing around i start talking to this cute 18 yo blonde, she asks for my number after about 3min, i lift her up (shoulder press style) and spin around. When i put her down i go for make out, while making out i hear her friend ask my friend for his number.... And i ask the girl if she's in a numbers competition. She admits she is. I tell her that i dont like being part of some damn competition, but if im in it atleast im gonna be on the winning team.
I grab her by the wrist and walk up to some dude and tell him to hand her his number.. He complies and asks us how we know each other. I tell him that we are **** buddies. He starts to laugh and comments how its weird that we get numbers for each other, so i tell him that he owes me a girl. He then points to quite a hot friend of his, so i start talking to her. After a minute or two the first girl starts to pull my arm and scratch my back, crawing attention. I leave the second chick to make out some more. Then her fat friend comes up and say "your coming with me" to the girl.
Since i had some past anger for the last two weekends, i tell her friend "**** off! Shes mine!" like gollum from LOTR or something. Well it didnt work too well, and they left haha.
I then go back to girl number two (a 24yo redhead) and tell her that she should stop smoking but i want her number. She puts her number in, but then i ask for her name, she gets upset about me forgetting, and deletes the number. I then notice she had her name on her damn shirt... I start dancing and spinning her around a bit until shes happy again. Then she tries to convince me to stay in uppsala for night to go clubbing, and drags me to her friends. When we sit down with her friends everything goes really stale, and i just leave. Opened a couple of more sets until the time was around 18:30. I then leave for the train station to go back to Stockholm.
On the train i get a text:
"Hey this is your ****buddy, where are you?".
I said i was going back to Stockholm, and that she should text me once she gets back. Then i left for a dinner with friends, i was so damn tired that i went home and to sleep at 23:30.
Gonna follow up on this girl this weekend.

Adventures in Stockholm
Yesterday was instense! I had my first workshop/seminarium since i quit my studies. Me and my colleuge filled the group with 15 people which was awesome. It was two hours long, talked through that like it was nothing haha.
Then i bolted of to a friends surprise party, after spending my day there until the evening when we hit Stockholm. Once in the city we went to some small underground party under a bridge with some DJs and table tennis, was a pretty cool environment BUT my friends thought it was lame and we left after like 40min. Then they started to complain about where to go and so on, so i left them for another friend.
When i arrive at my friends its him and four girls, not bad! We chat for about five minutes until we leave to hit the bars. While going there i get a text from the hungarian chick. So i meet up with her as well. We hit up a rock bar called medusa, i challange one of the girls on a strip battle. She was doing pole dancing for exercise, so she owned me, but i did some cool tricks. Good blood calluses in my hands today haha.
We build a nice vibe with the pole dancing, and the hungariar chick gets jealous as.... Then her friend starts to try to drag her home. Im like "**** dat, not again". So i start sweet talking her a bit, holding hands and being cute. She then decides to stay while her friend leaves.. Yesh!!! We make out a bit, dance and so on. After a while i tell her that we are leaving.
She looks a bit doubting, but then decided to join.
Glory!
BUT, i got about a 30min ride home. First 20min subway, then 10min buss. So we arrive at the buss, and she starts to struggle.....
She: "where we going really?"
M "My place"
S "really?"
M "I know you want to"
S "but i cant"
M "you can"
S "I have to go home"
I pick her up, and start walking towards the buss, who was supposed to leave 3min ago
S "no really i have to go home"
M "Well, last chance... Im getting on that buss now!"
M "last chance"
S "i have to leave"
And thats when i bolted to the buss, leaving her behind shouting "what the ****!?".
At the buss i get a text "see you next weekend?!". PPFffffft,

[BigJohnny999]

should've tried harder to steal her back

one thing i learned from friday was that AMOGs can pump up girls state.. while you steal her back and she'll have better energy than when you left her

I thought I got AMOG'd the other night, but the way it went down kind of makes me thing that I was the AMOG. I didn't swoop this girl, but I think this guy was probably talking to her and walked away then I approached her. I remember either Tyler or Julien saying that once a girl starts getting aroused it's easy for another guy to come along and pick up where the last guy left off, especially if he has better game.

I really wish I had some good wings to go out and game with. All my friends ever want to do is get fuked in half drunk. It can be fun at times, but I wish I had some friends with the same goals as me as far as fitness and pick up. I have seen a couple of guys out and about that I suspect might be PUA's. I might just start asking them.

[socrates07]

I thought I got AMOG'd the other night, but the way it went down kind of makes me thing that I was the AMOG. I didn't swoop this girl, but I think this guy was probably talking to her and walked away then I approached her. I remember either Tyler or Julien saying that once a girl starts getting aroused it's easy for another guy to come along and pick up where the last guy left off, especially if he has better game.

I really wish I had some good wings to go out and game with. All my friends ever want to do is get fuked in half drunk. It can be fun at times, but I wish I had some friends with the same goals as me as far as fitness and pick up. I have seen a couple of guys out and about that I suspect might be PUA's. I might just start asking them.

I got the same problem don't worry

Let's see here, had plans from last weekend to hang out with a chick on memorial weekend, had big plans too. Messages me on ******** on thursday night "so don't hate me but I can't chill this weekend because family is coming in"

I have a troll face all over my face when I'm reading this message not being sure what to make of it. On the one hand, yeah it's a holiday, yeah family is most likely coming in etc. on the other hand, wtf you just finding this out today b*tch? I could have done something else, had something else planned out better but you only finding out now? Rokay... sat there for like another 3-4 minutes with solid troll face wondering whether to respond or not. End up just closing ******** and not responding till last night around like 1:30AM with "so we still on or what ?"

I honestly, I kind of wish I hadn't even sent the message. She isn't really hot, I can do way better pretty easily if I wasn't in a fuking desert basically. The only thing turning me on is the fact that she lives in daytona shores ON the beach in Daytona beach. Google image that and take a look at that fuking place for fuks sake..

She's interested, she ended up sending me like 4 pics without me even asking, was just like "check your email I sent you pics"... like rokay.

I don't know what to make of her really, she says she lost her phone on weds, yet I see "sent from mobile" on ******** when she messages me. So it's like, okay sure she can be using her friends phone to sign on ******** I guess ( to be fair she was on ******** like 24/7 up to her phone going bye bye, now it's only very rarely )

eh massive headache, about to drop her I think

Other chick I know on saturday night, blah long story and i'm not dear diary'ing this sh*t since this is my first post in this thread.

[BigJohnny999]

I got the same problem don't worry

Let's see here, had plans from last weekend to hang out with a chick on memorial weekend, had big plans too. Messages me on ******** on thursday night "so don't hate me but I can't chill this weekend because family is coming in"

I have a troll face all over my face when I'm reading this message not being sure what to make of it. On the one hand, yeah it's a holiday, yeah family is most likely coming in etc. on the other hand, wtf you just finding this out today b*tch? I could have done something else, had something else planned out better but you only finding out now? Rokay... sat there for like another 3-4 minutes with solid troll face wondering whether to respond or not. End up just closing ******** and not responding till last night around like 1:30AM with "so we still on or what ?"

I honestly, I kind of wish I hadn't even sent the message. She isn't really hot, I can do way better pretty easily if I wasn't in a fuking desert basically. The only thing turning me on is the fact that she lives in daytona shores ON the beach in Daytona beach. Google image that and take a look at that fuking place for fuks sake..

She's interested, she ended up sending me like 4 pics without me even asking, was just like "check your email I sent you pics"... like rokay.

I don't know what to make of her really, she says she lost her phone on weds, yet I see "sent from mobile" on ******** when she messages me. So it's like, okay sure she can be using her friends phone to sign on ******** I guess ( to be fair she was on ******** like 24/7 up to her phone going bye bye, now it's only very rarely )

eh massive headache, about to drop her I think

Other chick I know on saturday night, blah long story and i'm not dear diary'ing this sh*t since this is my first post in this thread.

She could be ********ing from a tablet. I always assume girls are being shady, but there's always a very real possibility that things came up. You've already made an effort, don't chase too hard.

[ADADA]

Daygame is so much nicer when the weather is really good. It's so fun to game again, not gonna go into a relationship for fun anymore. Gonna find a really great girl or keep on gaming.

Atm I have a bit of an abundance again. Meeting new girls each day they come and go. Have a tall blonde girl who is up to do stuff, had her in my bedroom on saturday. It's so easy to get girls to come with me, they all say they are comfortable with me. With this girl I went to a bar, I said this place is fkn boring. Walked to my car said get in I have to piss. Drove home took her to my bedroom.

Today during daygame there was this hot 16 year old who goes to the gym alot. Got her number and she seems really interested. It's also funny when your dick kinda chooses. We hugged and I got a chubby. With most girls that doesn't happen. No ****. Hugging is amazing btw, every girl I meet I hug. It's so nice when they really hold you aswel and want to keep holding you for a bit.

Yesterday I was in the park with 3 girls all day chilling. Now today I had a girl with me for like 50 mins who just stayed around. She was up to do anything really. Might take her to the freetour on thursday and try to fuk in the back of the room. How funny would that be to just start fuking while Julien is talking. It wouldn't be a problem for me but have to find a girl who is up for it and who is hot enough. I fuked in every club in Amsterdam now almost, and every movie theater. It's so much fun to do all these things. Pickup is amazing, was also hungry the other day and was in the park. Just sat down with some girls and ate all their food and chatted.

My car is an amazing wingman also. Every girl fuking loves it, it's so easy to just say u wanna go to the beach? At the redlight today aswel some girl yells from her car saying I have no roof and shyt and laughing we chat and joke around.

Never know who you gonna meet it's fkn great to be outside so much and having fun. Gonna study at the university aswel in september. Been out so much now that I am social as fuk.

[BMWBrah]

weird, i can approach girls when they are alone, but not at bars.

i was out with my friends on saturday, didn't approach one woman.

however, on my walk back to my car, i saw a girl on her porch. i stopped, we talked for an hour until 2am, and made out a bit.

any advice on how to talk to women in a packed bar?

[ADADA]

weird, i can approach girls when they are alone, but not at bars.

i was out with my friends on saturday, didn't approach one woman.

however, on my walk back to my car, i saw a girl on her porch. i stopped, we talked for an hour until 2am, and made out a bit.

any advice on how to talk to women in a packed bar?

Just approach and learn? I normally just go sit with them. Or if they are standing I go up to them and talk.

[BigJohnny999]

weird, i can approach girls when they are alone, but not at bars.

i was out with my friends on saturday, didn't approach one woman.

however, on my walk back to my car, i saw a girl on her porch. i stopped, we talked for an hour until 2am, and made out a bit.

any advice on how to talk to women in a packed bar?

Just look for the drunkest chick in the bar that you can legally have sex with.

[socrates07]

She could be ********ing from a tablet. I always assume girls are being shady, but there's always a very real possibility that things came up. You've already made an effort, don't chase too hard.

kind of losing interest to be honest with you.. thinking about deleting off ********

[Onisac]

I also wish I had friends who are interested in pickup. Whenever I go out with my friends, all we do is drink and dance together, probably hoping that some girl approaches us, which happens sometimes but rarely leads to anything.

[FeelTheFear]

I also wish I had friends who are interested in pickup. Whenever I go out with my friends, all we do is drink and dance together, probably hoping that some girl approaches us, which happens sometimes but rarely leads to anything.

having friend who are cool/naturals/into pickup makes going out 9001x more fun and effective

[elterrible987]

I got a quick POF question for you brahs.

Girl I been talking to on there for 5 days, I tell her I want to meet her and ask her if she free later this week. She say shes "not sure how comfortable she feels about meeting up"
IDK WTF that women speak means...

I am thinking of telling her that if she thinks she would want to meet up later then we can still keep talking on pof for a bit more. But that is a very logical thing to say and Ive realized women dont operate on logic so I got to screen this by misc bros that have broken the woman BS code.

what do misc?

[FeelTheFear]

I got a quick POF question for you brahs.

Girl I been talking to on there for 5 days, I tell her I want to meet her and ask her if she free later this week. She say shes "not sure how comfortable she feels about meeting up"
IDK WTF that women speak means...

I am thinking of telling her that if she thinks she would want to meet up later then we can still keep talking on pof for a bit more. But that is a very logical thing to say and Ive realized women dont operate on logic so I got to screen this by misc bros that have broken the woman BS code.

what do misc?

always ask out over phone/text, that should usually be first step, to get the phone number

chances are shes just saying shes not interested, but i dont have the context

[elterrible987]

always ask out over phone/text, that should usually be first step, to get the phone number

chances are shes just saying shes not interested, but i dont have the context

ok. I asked that way before and it worked but I wont in the future. Do you think my response above is ok?

[FeelTheFear]

ok. I asked that way before and it worked but I wont in the future. Do you think my response above is ok?

id probably just ask for phone number, and start text game all over again try to build rapport and then ask her again at a later date

but im phucking **** at online so i dunno lol

[ADADA]

ok. I asked that way before and it worked but I wont in the future. Do you think my response above is ok?

Try to find common interests. I never did dating sites but when I notice a girl is hessitant to meet up I talk about hobbies and shyt. Happened a few times a girl didn't seem interested till we were chatting about painting and meditation on txt. She kept txting me all day after that and asked me out the next day. They have to get comfortable with you I think.

[BigJohnny999]

always ask out over phone/text, that should usually be first step, to get the phone number

chances are shes just saying shes not interested, but i dont have the context

Chances are if it's POF she wouldn't even be responding if she wasn't interested. Maybe she's just not convinced yet, but you probably just haven't gone about it in the right way.

[Xaviesta11]

College freshman orientation today and holy phuck i have no clue how I am going to pay this chit. 4 out of 14 girls were smashable. Got two of the 4's numbers. Texted after orientation, both flaked. Girls are so phucking fake...

[BigJohnny999]

I have never really put much effort into POF, but the other day I was bored at work and just messing around on my phone and had three girls hit me up in a matter of a few hours, all of them attractive. I number closed all three, one of them offered to take me on a date to taco bell lol. Now I just need to figure out when I'm going to hang out with them, I still have two other girls I'm trying to get a day two with and one is being flakey. I can probably knock out a Saturday and Sunday during the day but I want to keep Friday and Saturday night open. I'm all about the same night lay. I like meeting girls, but I have so little time during the week that it makes it extremely difficult to have a day 2. If I do anything during the week I usually have to sacrifice going to the gym for it.

[socrates07]

kind of losing interest to be honest with you.. thinking about deleting off ********

well that chick I mentioned earlier wants to get a hotel room setup for next week on the beach going half and half of course.

we'll see what happens

[TonyP25]

Any tips for gym approaches?

[FeelTheFear]

Any tips for gym approaches?

friendly and cool

[TonyP25]

friendly and cool

Hmm what if she's wearing headphones and this girl actually works out? , I feel like she is drawn to me like magnets always seems when their is space she always ends up workin close by me or walks close by me. No prolonged EC though so maybe I'm just a yard. Feel kinda intimidated actually doing the approach as I would be stopping her Srs workout.

[Aleks93]

Just started doing daygame! Yesterday = 8 approaches with 1 numberclose. Today = 3 approaches with 1 numberclose. Pretty fun!

Any tips for gym approaches?

Just like any other approach, but don't do it in the middle of her workout set, do it when she is taking a break. For example, I did one today I just said something like "Hey, you look amazing! What's your name?" and then take it from there and see if she likes you :-)

Hmm what if she's wearing headphones and this girl actually works out? , I feel like she is drawn to me like magnets always seems when their is space she always ends up workin close by me or walks close by me. No prolonged EC though so maybe I'm just a yard. Feel kinda intimidated actually doing the approach as I would be stopping her Srs workout.

No, just say "Hey" to her once she is taking a break from her sets, then she will take of her headphones and you can talk to her and tell her what's on your mind :-) Your not stopping her srs workout, most people take 1-2 minutes break inbetween sets.

[TonyP25]

Just started doing daygame! Yesterday = 8 approaches with 1 numberclose. Today = 3 approaches with 1 numberclose. Pretty fun!


Just like any other approach, but don't do it in the middle of her workout set, do it when she is taking a break. For example, I did one today I just said something like "Hey, you look amazing! What's your name?" and then take it from there and see if she likes you :-)


No, just say "Hey" to her once she is taking a break from her sets, then she will take of her headphones and you can talk to her and tell her what's on your mind :-) Your not stopping her srs workout, most people take 1-2 minutes break inbetween sets.

Thanks guys , will execute tomorow

[FeelTheFear]

Hmm what if she's wearing headphones and this girl actually works out? , I feel like she is drawn to me like magnets always seems when their is space she always ends up workin close by me or walks close by me. No prolonged EC though so maybe I'm just a yard. Feel kinda intimidated actually doing the approach as I would be stopping her Srs workout.

lol i have a better success ratio opening girls w/ earbuds in. Just make a pulling motion away from your ear. And just get her inbetween sets, talk for a bit, then if you want let her finish her exercise and open warm later

[FeelTheFear]

just talked to 2 girls at the park for like 2 hours.. they were young so i held back on the escalation on target, didn't want to freak out the friend. Didn't have phone so i had to ******** close. Meh. Pickup is cool though that you can hang out with people you didn't even know. Surprised I don't have that many friends.

probably need to give the friend more attention so she hands you the target, instead of viewing her as a tagalong. The more comfortable you are with the friend the more you can escalate on target. Girl=group, group= girl.

[Ablincoln]

Just texted this bish asking if she wanted to hang out tonight. She said she would love to but has to work tonight. I know she's really into me, but we haven't had a first date yet. Should I ask her again, or just wait until she asks me?

[BigJohnny999]

Just texted this bish asking if she wanted to hang out tonight. She said she would love to but has to work tonight. I know she's really into me, but we haven't had a first date yet. Should I ask her again, or just wait until she asks me?

After I get an excuse for about the third time I start to question the girl's integrity. I might sit on it for a week and try again, but usually at that point it's a bust. Text game is probably one of my weaker areas, but I will usually text something witty and funny followed by "what are you up to (now, tonight, tomorrow, this weekend)" and wait for their response. If they say they're not doing anything and you ask them to do something they have no reason to deny you.