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    Unhappy Anyone lost their sex drive after a break up ?

    Long story short. Dated for 2.5 years, she was my first every thing. Right after the break up i was pretty down but i got better, month ago meet another girl and started hanging out with her. She is attractive physically and emotionally but when hooking up i just feel strange and dont get hard. Brought her back to mine last night and it was a disaster, i had to go to the bathroom and focus whack a bit to get a hard one but then i couldn't get it in cause she was nervous and dry.

    I cut all contact with the Ex and things ended on good terms, i dont think about her much at all but since the breakup my sex drive took a hit. Porn gets me going pretty fast tho, but a hot girl grinding on me did'nt.

    S*hit sucks and pisses me off.


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    Maybe you're gay?
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    It's because you fap waaaayyyy too much. Don't fap or look at porn for 2 weeks and then see her again.

    No need to thank me, just write my name in the load and post pics.




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    Originally Posted by Ricky_k View Post
    Porn gets me going pretty fast tho, but a hot girl grinding on me did'nt.
    you are addicted to porn brah, get some serious help or u might become gay
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    Strong concience. sounds to me like some part of you is still in love with your ex. Im betting the best thing you need to do is keep slugging away with other chicks until your brain gets the message that you are no longer with your ex. Will take time dude keep at it champ good luck!
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    yeah I know what u mean, I went through the same thing when I broke up with my ex. Its hard to put a finger on the exact reason but it could mean u still have some feelings for ur ex. Also having sex with someone new after 2.5 years can feel a bit "weird" and can take some getting use to. I think the only way to get over it is time, dnt get too down about cos its just part of the moving on process.
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    I found that mine went into hyperdrive...

    Just stop fapping bro then go see the girl again...
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    Ever since I been taking NO products I found it's easier to maintain ever after a round (little to no downtime) besides that like the poster above said. FOREPLAY use it, if you can't get hard with her playing with it then yea maybe your gay.
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    there's probably some level of depression involved. you might feel alright, but subconsciously you're really not.
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    Originally Posted by SuperJuiceman View Post
    there's probably some level of depression involved. you might feel alright, but subconsciously you're really not.
    I agree. I can say that this has happened to me before as well, but I think with time it will pass. Our libido is governed by chemical levels and our self-confidence (these two are interrelated), and it's tough to think of anything more damaging to the ego than a bad breakup. Just to be sure, though, quit fapping, perhaps get on a zinc/arginine/yohimbe stack, lol. If it's still happening a month from now, see a psychologist.
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    Originally Posted by SuperJuiceman View Post
    there's probably some level of depression involved. you might feel alright, but subconsciously you're really not.
    I agree.


    I think it's usually all psychological.
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    OP, it's natural... after my divorce I went through a few months of straight beast chopping chicks... but then I met someone I actually liked and my drive plummetted, it was very hard to understand. It's a big mental block and it doesn't make sense, for me.. I suddenly felt vulnerable to being hurt again and I didn't feel like I was 'the man' and in control... I didn't have the supreme confidence that should be with every man when he has sex... with the previous rebounds I didn't care and I was in control of everything in my surroundings, including breaking them off. When you're with her, before you get her to your place... imagine youself as powerful, and the ways in which you're going to fcuk the living siht out of her. After doing that for a week, I was back in the game and sex was great and natural again without my mental battles. Once you start putting it down right with this new girl, your problems will dissappear.
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    OP, what turned you on so much with your ex was your emotional connection, and knowing each others bodies. This girl you just dont have that deep of a connection with, try getting to know her on a deeper level, and hold off on sex until neither of you can contain yourselves anymore.
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    Originally Posted by ripped_bitch View Post
    Maybe you're gay?
    No


    Originally Posted by SiMON2g View Post
    Foreplay, use it.
    Did, my ex just coming near me was enough in the past i had no issues getting hard quick



    Originally Posted by RC2008 View Post
    It's because you fap waaaayyyy too much. Don't fap or look at porn for 2 weeks and then see her again.
    I don't fap that since breakup. I no longer felt the "drive" to fap i would fap because i was bored when before there were times i just coudnt help myself and need to get one off

    Originally Posted by Ironbrah View Post
    you are addicted to porn brah, get some serious help or u might become gay
    No porn addiction at all i can assure you.

    Originally Posted by SuperJuiceman View Post
    there's probably some level of depression involved. you might feel alright, but subconsciously you're really not.
    At first there was, but i felt so much better when i was able to meet a new girl and hit things off with her

    Originally Posted by EasternHammer View Post
    I agree. I can say that this has happened to me before as well, but I think with time it will pass. Our libido is governed by chemical levels and our self-confidence (these two are interrelated), and it's tough to think of anything more damaging to the ego than a bad breakup. Just to be sure, though, quit fapping, perhaps get on a zinc/arginine/yohimbe stack, lol. If it's still happening a month from now, see a psychologist.
    I started training alot more and dieting hard and have felt pretty good about myself..... but as said it could be a subconscious thing

    Originally Posted by PowerD View Post
    OP, what turned you on so much with your ex was your emotional connection, and knowing each others bodies. This girl you just dont have that deep of a connection with, try getting to know her on a deeper level, and hold off on sex until neither of you can contain yourselves anymore.

    The first time with my ex i never had an issues. Im trying to get to know this girl we hang out each week and do date stuff but she will be going away for 1 month soon so i guess we both kinda 'in it to hit it'

    I appreciate all replies. Is there anything i can do at all to get myself over the nerves in the mean time ?
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    Question

    Please answer this question before I give my advice.

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    I get like this at times. When things were good with my last dude, my sex drive was at an all time high. Then when he got weird and I started thinking about the possibility of never seeing him again, I just lost it. I couldn't even get off solo. Zero interest in sex with anyone other than him.

    Even now, after not seeing him for 8+ months, I still have moments where I just can't get into it, no matter how hard I try. (Talking about flying solo, have not actually been with anyone else. Got close once or twice, and then decided against it or couldn't quite go through with it.) I'll be going to town and everything, and then just... nothing. I get distracted or start thinking about him, or just can't finish. I haven't really found a solution, and it's annoying.
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    Just damn. I mean - JUST DAMN.

    See a therapist you guys. And stop sharing this with us. Okay, share with us but put a warning in the title or something.
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    Originally Posted by TomTank77 View Post
    Please answer this question before I give my advice.

    Why is your ex, your ex? (Why did you 2 seperate?)
    I was such a white knight, she was to spoilt by everyone in her life and didnt apprecaite those close to her.


    Things were great, but would easily go of track if something did not go her way so i always kept her happy.

    I eventually lost it and spoke up all that i had kept my mouth shut about and she came to realise the only way she could appreicate me is to go without.

    Its not a break tho... break up. But she said if the future brings us together she would be happy etc..
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    **** man.. your story is EXACTLY like mine. Broke up with my ex of 4 years and hooked up with this girl i've known for at least a decade. Came back to my place and couldn't get it up if my life depended on it, after what seemed like hours of foreplay I finally handled business. I can definitely relate to that "feeling" you have, just something in your gut that doesn't feel right, and it didn't help that I fapped earlier that day in anticipation of the night.
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    Originally Posted by EasternHammer View Post
    I agree. I can say that this has happened to me before as well, but I think with time it will pass. Our libido is governed by chemical levels and our self-confidence (these two are interrelated), and it's tough to think of anything more damaging to the ego than a bad breakup. Just to be sure, though, quit fapping, perhaps get on a zinc/arginine/yohimbe stack, lol. If it's still happening a month from now, see a psychologist.
    Self confidence is also a determining factor in said chemical balance. Cortisol, released during periods of stress, is the penor's worst nightmare.
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    Originally Posted by gc86 View Post
    **** man.. your story is EXACTLY like mine. Broke up with my ex of 4 years and hooked up with this girl i've known for at least a decade. Came back to my place and couldn't get it up if my life depended on it, after what seemed like hours of foreplay I finally handled business. I can definitely relate to that "feeling" you have, just something in your gut that doesn't feel right, and it didn't help that I fapped earlier that day in anticipation of the night.

    So what did you do ?



    Originally Posted by Govithoy View Post
    Self confidence is also a determining factor in said chemical balance. Cortisol, released during periods of stress, is the penor's worst nightmare.
    Im stressed on other issues not relating to girls. Finished uni and keep getting rejected for every single job i apply for although I don't think about that to much on a conscious level just like my ex.
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    Originally Posted by Ricky_k View Post
    So what did you do ?
    I haven't done anything, tbh now that I think back maybe I was having issues because this girl was almost like a sister to me? we go way way back and I always felt weird thinking about having sex with her or maybe it was because I was in a relationship for 4 years? regardless it's only been a couple months since that incident and I haven't had another opportunity since than with another girl.. don't know what to tell ya. I'd follow the advice previously given about not fapping for a few weeks and than seeing her, that should help a ton with your sex drive. I went months without fapping after I broke up with my ex, the urge just wasn't there.
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    Originally Posted by gc86 View Post
    I went months without fapping after I broke up with my ex, the urge just wasn't there.

    That sh*t scares me because for us at this age that sh*t just aint normal or right
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    Ok-most people in misc are going to disagree with me...don't care.

    Dude-you're just not ready to move on yet.

    Don't force it.

    Don't rush it.

    What are you trying to prove?

    Just relax and grieve. If the above is all true, it's just not time yet.

    Goodluck.
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    your prob nervous or stressed, that will do it. the more you think about it the more your going to be down about it. so dont stress bout it, just give it time.
    it happened to me before and it was because i was overly stressed and high blood pressure and crap, i try not to stress to much and now i cant get enough of it..
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    Originally Posted by Ricky_k View Post
    So what did you do ?





    Im stressed on other issues not relating to girls. Finished uni and keep getting rejected for every single job i apply for although I don't think about that to much on a conscious level just like my ex.
    Dude you need to think about that kind of **** on a concious level. Ignoring it and repressing that stuff is what's screwing with you and your dick, get your head straight and the nuts will follow. Stress is stress, and this is only creating more for you. Focus less on your love life and more on the other 95% of it all.
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