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    She changed the date, I had to cancel, please advise...

    I confirmed the date last night (second date) already had sex first date, and today she texts me and says "I would still love to see you but a girlfriend of mine I haven't seen in ages wants me to go to the club with her, I want to see you and have drinks and dinner but if it's ok I'm just gonna leave after to meet up with her".

    I said "Hi, listen, why don't we do it some other time, maybe we can get together and catch up then, just let me know what day you're free".

    I feel like I had no choice, cause this shows very low interest.

    I have no idea what happened here, our first date was last Friday night, did I wait too long to make the next date? I texted her once during the week to ask how she was doing and confirmed it last night, that's the only communication I had with her.

    Did I do the right thing? Is she testing? Another dude? Let me know what you think, fellas...Thanks...
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    You did good by cancelling, but then you said, "let me know when you're free." You never say "Let me know". You let her know. You made it sound like you're a puppy dog waiting by the door for her to get home and give you attention. Hit her up in a few days and ask her how's she's doing, don't bring up the cancelled date, or her club date, or anything from the past. If you feel like asking her out again do it. But don't have sex the next time you see her. Act like you're friendzoning her. Trust me on this, you need to be in control.
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    do dinner and drinks with her and then "go to the bathroom" (climb out the window and lose her number)
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    Originally Posted by akujiki13 View Post
    You did good by cancelling, but then you said, "let me know when you're free." You never say "Let me know". You let her know. You made it sound like you're a puppy dog waiting by the door for her to get home and give you attention. Hit her up in a few days and ask her how's she's doing, don't bring up the cancelled date, or her club date, or anything from the past. If you feel like asking her out again do it. But don't have sex the next time you see her. Act like you're friendzoning her. Trust me on this, you need to be in control.
    Hey bro, sorry, what i said was "let me know what DAY you're free". Not tonight or anything. What happened here? Is is just too long in between dates? She had very high interest last Saturday. She even texted me first after sex that night.
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    Originally Posted by tdmc25 View Post
    Hey bro, sorry, what i said was "let me know what DAY you're free". Not tonight or anything. What happened here? Is is just too long in between dates? She had very high interest last Saturday. She even texted me first after sex that night.
    I know, you never say, "Let me know", period. Never say those words again. It makes you sound like you got nothing going on and you will move your whole life around her. Better is, "Are you free this wknd?", "Come chill tonight.", something to that effect. Also, no you are not moving too slow, you are moving too fast, damn you sound thirsty, don't even talk to this chick again until you been on 2 other dates with 2 other women. Women want the guy who is IN DEMAND, not the guy looking thirsty and needy.
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    Anyone else have any opinions? I've never had this happen. Is this no interest? Should I have gone with her on the date even though she wanted to leave at the end of the night?
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    Originally Posted by akujiki13 View Post
    You did good by cancelling, but then you said, "let me know when you're free." You never say "Let me know". You let her know. You made it sound like you're a puppy dog waiting by the door for her to get home and give you attention. Hit her up in a few days and ask her how's she's doing, don't bring up the cancelled date, or her club date, or anything from the past. If you feel like asking her out again do it. But don't have sex the next time you see her. Act like you're friendzoning her. Trust me on this, you need to be in control.
    Lmao, oh stfu with all these gay ass rules. OP, relax. Just meet up with her when you guys are both free.

    Stop over thinking, and stop reading the interwebz for rules.
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    She's had one date with you, whereas this girlfriend of hers could have been in her life for years. Of course she's going to want to see her. She tried to compromise with you by suggesting she sees both of you that night.

    Stop overthinking, I bet she texts you again.
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    Not too big of a deal. But since you already had plans with her she is kind of blowing you off. Gotta knock her socks off next time having sex and don't seem eager to see her.
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    Originally Posted by tdmc25 View Post
    Anyone else have any opinions? I've never had this happen. Is this no interest? Should I have gone with her on the date even though she wanted to leave at the end of the night?
    I think you handled it well. It is like her pretty much saying, " I will take the free meal, but then I'm going go and find another guy to fuk me tonight." You are not at a place of non recovery it's way too early, just don't care about it. You had sex the first date, so don't take her seriously.
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    I have to disagree on that last part. His job as a man on a date is to have sex with her. Why play the game of acting like his friendzoning her when there's sex on the table. If OP wants sex then I say let him sex!!! After he sexs her he can then do the withdrawl technique to pull her in more. By doing this it's showing she is replacable cause op has options 😉
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    Originally Posted by azakdan2682 View Post
    I think you handled it well. It is like her pretty much saying, " I will take the free meal, but then I'm going go and find another guy to fuk me tonight." You are not at a place of non recovery it's way too early, just don't care about it. You had sex the first date, so don't take her seriously.
    Thanks for your reply, bruh, but this thing is pretty much over in my opinion. I don't think I will ever hear from her again. Maybe I should have been more stern in my reply. All I said was "hey listen, why don't we do it some other time when you're free, just let me know when you're free next and even put a smiley face on there". It's over, man...I think I made two big mistakes here, ONE, not scheduling a date a few days later rather than six days, and sending a "thinking about you hope your well" text at midweek total of 2 texts before the confirmation on the date. I will delete her number and move on, severe mistakes were made here, it's over, bruh.....She wouldn't have cancelled if she was interested....I will be VERY surprised if I hear from her again. I will not contact anymore.
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