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    Gf to FWB to platonic Friends.. is it possible?

    Sup bros. I need some input. This may be a bit long but here goes..

    A few years ago I met a Korean girl here, she is a dentist and is about 34. We dated for about 7 months but se broke up with me 3 times. Once a month in because she said that she didnít think we were a good fit. I was pretty hurt, but we got back together a few days later. 7 months in and she breaks up with me again while I was in the hospital because she was on my butt about washing my face, and I didnít want to eat spicy Kimchi at 6 am while recovering from surgery and stuff like that ( I could barely move because I was recovering from a ruptured appendix and I nearly died ) . She was basically OCD to the max and expected everything to be perfect. She broke up with me while I was in the hospital. Yet again we got back together and broke up with me because she said I had a bad attitude when we went to shop for towels together. All I did was kept quiet because honestly how excited can I really get about towel shopping?

    Her father left her when she was young and her mother is super demanding. Her sister is a doctor, and her brother owns a business so their mother pushed them to the breaking point and now she is emotionally immature. So much so that my ex has tons of trauma from not having both parents and has been seeing a shrink for a while and is on meds.

    I knew it wasnít going to work out so I turned the relationship into FWB. She seemed cool with that. I would go to her place and have fun and life was good. She told me that I should find a girl that speaks English better than her and joked with me about seeing other girls. She also told me that she would find a Korean guy to marry. We were friends, but still boned esentially. I started seeing my current gf and then she kept pressing me for info about her and I eventually caved and told her. She flipped her s*it and said we cannot be friends anymore. I miss having her as a friend. I have no desire to start the sexual relationship back up but I miss just chilling with her. She was ba%**** crazy but had such a cool personality when she wasnít depressed.

    You guys think there is any way to get the friendship back? I have ZERO desire to enter into a romantic or physical relationship with her anymore. I just liked hanging out with her as a friend because she was interesting.

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    Met a korean girl
    Said girl is crazy as fuk
    Broke up 3 times because I'm a glutton for punishment
    Transformed said relationship to fwb relationship
    Met new gf and want to transform relationship again to platonic friends.
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    If she's crazy, nope. Good luck.
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    lmao why are u trying to be friends with an ex when you have a new girlfriend. Don't think you're over her, she broke up with you more than once yet you go back to her, you're also going round her place when meeting. You have a new girlfriend for all your attention needs and you STILL need her attention, where is your pride? You're acting like a woman.

    Remove her from your life and focus on your new girlfriend.
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    I guess I would have to ask.... Why?

    Why the fk would you want to be friends with some kunt that is 1) Crazy & B) kicked your a$$ to the curb 3 times and LOL @ letting it hurt you after 7 months... bruh...


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    lol at you torpedoing your current GF for this absolutely crazy woman. You just miss the drama with the ex. nothing more.

    Your present gf should have already dumped you.... and, yeah, mhannibal nailed it-- you sound like one of the women on here who is cucking their current bf 'cause they are hung up on the ex who treated them terribly. traumatic bonding, dude.
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    A. No

    and B. Why would you want to ?




    I'm sure it 0.000001% of cases it is possible for sexually active men and women to legitimately be friends, but it's definitely not with someone you have or had feels for, ever. And it makes me so angried when this logic is used as a force for 'good'.


    I never thought I'd get in that situation again, but there I was catching supreme feels making out with this girl I had an unusual connection with. She stopped and said 'there's no way this can end well' and laughed it off. Obviously as hard as I try now there's nothing but resentment there, and it's all down to her trying to keep us together. Like doing anything more would obviously ruin it. I fukking hate females sometimes.
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    Originally Posted by fred2367 View Post

    Cliffs:

    Met a korean girl
    Said girl is crazy as fuk
    Broke up 3 times because I'm a glutton for punishment
    Transformed said relationship to fwb relationship
    Met new gf and want to transform relationship again to platonic friends.
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    sux op, found a dentist but that bish is straight crazy. lol if some bish was wilding out on me while I was recovering from surgery, i would never speak to her again.

    not worth the trouble for crazy. would only work if the bish was both non crazy and you never had any feels. so almost impossible.
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    Unless all feelings are completely moved from it then no. 99% of the time it just keeps you attached and potential new girls will not wanna deal with a crazy ex. Move on OP. Once you are intimate it is very difficult to become just friends.
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    just go NC with dentisit. theres too many red flags and she has an arsenal of dentistry weapons to kill you
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    Was going to say maybe but what's the point as when you get a new gf you're going to have to cut her off, but you've already got a gf and she's bothered by it so the answer seems clear.
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