My girl has been saying for the past week or so about how I dont appreciate her & take her on romantic dates, then after I wouldnt come over today she calls me up & tells me she wants a 2 week break.
Truth is Im selfish & just dont really give a fu** about putting in alot of effort into the relationship, but I do like the girl. We've been seeing each other for bout a year btw. She tells me she is "doing this for herself because she thinks she deserves to be treated better"..
She's a super good girl so I dont think she's gonna be banging other guys, but I get the feeling shes trying to scout out other guys during this lame "break", but i'll be doing the same thing (no homo, ill be scouting girls) so my question is: Am I wrong for thinking she has other intentions or should I say fu** this girl & move on? & if its the second option, do I let this break run its course or just tell her now that I want to break up?
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11-04-2011, 12:26 AM #1Registered User
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GF wants a 2 week break... what now?
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11-04-2011, 12:36 AM #2Registered User
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You already make your choice. Just man up and do it.
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11-04-2011, 12:36 AM #3Registered User
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Breaks never work, she's going to end up dumping you.
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11-04-2011, 12:38 AM #4Registered User
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She probably already has in her mind, she probably just wants to see how those 2 weeks go without you lol
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11-04-2011, 12:41 AM #5Registered User
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This girl is super insecure & tells me Im her "dream boy", so part of me is thinkin she really does wanna make it work but just wants me to put in more effort. Plus we've had a week break during the summer & **** was picture perfect after that. The other part of me is sayin "**** this bitch, shes messing with you".. bitches playing with my head smh
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11-04-2011, 12:47 AM #6
get out of there motherphucker don't waste a single other minute with this c(_)nt
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11-04-2011, 01:36 AM #7Registered User
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So she took a week break from you, and now a 2 week break from you. Obviously it's not perfect if its gone back to another break. And ya she's going to be scouting guys while expecting you to come groveling back. Bish needs to learn she cant just toss you to the side when it's convenient and expect to have you running back arms open.Originally Posted by theairness23
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11-04-2011, 01:37 AM #8Vegas King
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I think it's time for a permanent break
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11-04-2011, 01:46 AM #9Hehe TY Men
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lol at breaks.
either you are broken up for good, or you're not.
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11-04-2011, 01:50 AM #10Registered User
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breaks are for 15 year olds. Either she is fully committed to the relationship or isnt. Same with you. If you are serious why jerk her around? end it
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11-04-2011, 01:59 AM #11green on the inside
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She just wants to do someone else.
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11-04-2011, 02:00 AM #12Banned
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Break is just a kunt way of saying breakup. You deserve better bro.
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11-04-2011, 02:28 AM #13Registered User
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Fukking Christ, is this real life?
Let me put it into perspective for you: breaks are ways for a person in a relationship to do the following:
1. Fcuk other people without technically cheating
2. Get validation from others or shop the "market"
3. Pursue others while monkey branching and if it fails, the person can always go back to the retard who accepted going on a break
4. Pressure the other person into doing something (ex., possibly in your case manipulating you into putting more of an effort into the relationship) with the threat of losing him/her
Here are your two options and no others exist:
1. Tell her "its either relationship or break off forever, no breaks."
2. Just break off with her. The fact that she needs time to determine if the relationship is worth keeping is a red flag altogether - the two of you will not last.~Will kill for pussy crew~
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11-04-2011, 02:47 AM #14Physicist in Training
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Something is wrong with the relationship, you two aren't meant for each other.
However, this is what will occur. You two will take a break. Then get back together and everything will be awesome for a while. You will also believe ever word she says and misconstrue the bad things just to feel better about yourself.
Then **** will flare up again and it will be "I don't know if i feel the same about us"
Then either multiple more breaks will occur or she will just eventually cheat on you.
Women are masters of placing blame on others.
What I would do? Just end it. Walk away. You two aren't going to change as people and chances are you are too young and selfish to serve each other's needs.
Spend time focusing on yourself and with time the right girl will never want to let you go.
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11-04-2011, 02:53 AM #15Loyal to my blood.
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Next her, she's being a *******.
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11-04-2011, 03:04 AM #16مجاهد Str8 Ball€r™©
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OP you're an as$hole boyfriend in any case,you admitted not giving a **** about her enough to make an effort with her.I dont see why she put up with your sh!t for a whole year.She should take a lifetime break and move on to somone who can treat her better if she is a super good girl like you said.You will learn the hard way that the good ones are hard to find.[no wk]
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11-04-2011, 03:07 AM #17Registered User
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Put more effort you figgit, or even better, let her go - she deserves better.
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11-04-2011, 03:39 AM #18Registered User
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If you have feelings for her and legitimately want it to work, then cut contact and see if she comes running back in a few days. If it doesn't seem to affect her, it's over, take a permanent break. (With her reason being a potential excuse) As long as you're calling the shots, there's really no wrong answer.
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11-04-2011, 03:42 AM #19Banned
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Did not read. Sounds like she wants to be apart. Which means your single again. Is that such a bad thing? Faping freely, eating what ever the hell you want whenever the hell you want, and peace and quiet. Boo hoo hoo
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11-04-2011, 04:09 AM #20Registered User
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how utterly ridiculous
your not a man if you allow for this ****
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11-04-2011, 04:29 AM #21Mrs. Dwayne Johnson
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dump her before she dumps you.
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11-04-2011, 05:16 AM #22Registered User
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Originally Posted by theairness23
Accept the break. Delete number and never contact again.
98% of the time a break is brought up because there is a new guy in the picture and she is going to let you down slowly. Delete number and don't contact. Wait 3 weeks, watch her come crawling back.
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11-04-2011, 07:08 AM #23Registered User
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X2Originally Posted by b0yer2
I have never heard a male or female say they want a break to "hang out at home by themselves".
If I wanted a break, it would be to try and bang another woman that I have already been talking to and then come back if it doesn't work.
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11-04-2011, 07:10 AM #24Banned
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break = banging someone else
delete her from your life
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11-04-2011, 07:14 AM #25Registered User
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There is no such thing as a break in a relationship. You have one option and one option only: move on and do not have her as your gf.
Of course, you won't listen and 6 months from now you'll be posting a whining thread about how she's cheated on you........
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11-04-2011, 07:28 AM #26Registered User
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She wants to test drive a few cocks and you can't be bothered putting effort into the relationship. End it.
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11-04-2011, 07:31 AM #27bonerfart
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Relationship is already dead, she's starting to not give a fuark and you already don't. Move on.
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11-04-2011, 07:32 AM #28Mod Neg Survivor
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she is a good girl and you aren't going to find better OP
propose to her. she will be so overcome with joy she will forget about the break and you guys will be happily marriedMisc Med Crew
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11-04-2011, 07:38 AM #29Registered User
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No OP, she is not "going to use the next two weeks to scout out other guys". If you think that then you don't understand how women's minds work when it comes to "breaks".
Women do NOT ask for the break until they have already scouted out the guy in question. She's found someone who has caught her interest and now she wants to go off and ride his c*ck for a while and take him for a test drive so to speak before she decides which one of you she wants to be with. She thinks so little of you that she actually thinks you might agree to it.
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11-04-2011, 07:46 AM #30Diamond Account
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She is monkey branching with another guy.....100% serious.
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