I think my wife is cheating/cheated on me..

[theDuke77]

Also, see if it's possible for you to open a new account and transfer the whole checking account and savings over to the new one. Close out the old account. Don't tell wifey anything. Let her get fawkd when she goes somewhere and fills up her gas tank or tries to buy something or a meal. I did that. Also, she learned it from her mom. My ex wifey's mom was same way. Third, if you care about what her famm thinks of you, call them right after last contact with bish and tell them what is happening straight up because she'll call right after and give her own story to make it look like you did the cheating. I did that and the shiz backfired on her when she tried to stay the night with them. Her whole famm took my side. Sorry brah. Sluts' gonna slut.

Luckily, we still have completely seperate banking accounts. I'm going to call this spa to see if it's legit. If it's not, then her mom is on her side...

This is going to sound really politically incorrect, but if I saw action while in the military (wanted to join marines as infantry/front line) and came home to a cheating hoe. I'd probably end up beating the living **** out of her. I know I might get negged for this, however I could completely understand if a soldier ended up doing this. Especially after putting up with ptsd and many other problems that you get from service if you are actively in the front lines.

This is my first time seeing action. I help treat amputee's and various other traumas right when they come off the front line. It's definitely been some eye opening ****, and then to have to deal with this drama. I might actually talk to a chaplin here in the next few days.

[calbaisey]

This.. just read over his post

the evidence is overwhelming, 'trip' pictures where shes not wearing a wedding ring? lol not sure if dumb..

this

[whitepaper]

Shame to hear it, OP. Mind slapping a picture on this bad boy?






























































By bad boy, I mean this thread.

[endurancell]

I say keep her around until you get back, then you will initiate some secks, bust off all over her face and take some pics of it, get on her FB and upload the pics. you must do this as revenge

[bodynyc]

BETA OP, post nood pics of wife to redeem urself

[BodyBuildingGo]

ITT: Never underestimate the power of denial.

[theDuke77]

Unable to post pics...Would love to post up the sunglasses reflection...

[theDuke77]

ITT: Never underestimate the power of denial.

So true.

[El Fuerte]

like they say in the military


make her famous

[bodynyc]

Unable to post pics...Would love to post up the sunglasses reflection...

just hyperlink it brah

[ibringtheheat]

OP is a ****ing WK beta *******.

Srs? Glass house, brah. Glass house.

[kingreyez]

Sorry to hear to hear OP but you know what you have to do

[Derek817]

Will try to save you from a wall of text.

-I'm currently in Afghanistan with 4 months left, already been her for 2 so there isn't too much that I can really do at the moment.

-We've been together for 7 years, dating for 3 and married for 4. I've been faithful all 7 years. No kids in the picture luckily.

-We haven't had s3x in over two years.

-I'm fairly certain that I've caught her once before. After returning from a 6 month deployment ( we were only dating), I innocently glanced at her cell phone bill and saw that she was talking for hours to some random number. I called it and some dude answered. A " friend "she never told me about. I broke it up for a few weeks then we got back together.

- This is the kicker..We lived overseas together for 3 years. All was well for the first year then the s3x seemed to slow down. Neither of us would really initiate it. She took a few weekend trips with one of her girlfriends which I didn't mind. As I'm sitting here now looking through the pictures of "their" trip, a few things are really odd come to mind which I didn't realize at the time. Her friend isn't in any of the pics, my wife isn't wearing her wedding ring in any pics, and there is picture of her taken by some dude in the reflection of her sunglasses....orly?

- Lastly, she was suppose to go to her mom's place today. She usually emails me every night, but I haven't heard anything from her since Friday afternoon. I tried to call her and it goes right to voice mail. I finally get in-touch with her mom thinking that they are hanging out together, and she mentions that she sent her to a spa today which my wife never mentioned anything about. She said that she'll be there for around 8 hours. Oo.

What does the always wise Misc. think of the situation??

Cliffs-
-Currently in Afghanistan
-Married 4 years
-No s3x for last 2 years+
-Found some questionable photos
-Think her mom is even covering up for her

OBVIOUS CHEATING is obvious. you can't not have sex with her for two years and expect her to just be cool with that. Plus you don''t have kids so their is no anchor for you or her. Id guess about 4 guys shes cheated on you with. Don't take it to harsh, not aiming to be douche just voicing my opinion.

[TerrorAP2]

Srs? Glass house, brah. Glass house.

Oh look, an Aviless ******* appears.

U mad I was stylin' on you at 17 years old?!

[relaxigotthis]

i don't understand why guys in the military get married when are going to be away from home for long periods of time. It's almost inevitable, that it will end bad. I know there's exceptions but most women will cheat on you the first opportunity they get. In the op's case, you suspected her cheating on you even before you got married, and then you thought it was gonna be alright when you are in Afghanistan for months at a time? LOL

[MyAvatar]

yah, she is cheating, the trip pics of the guy in the reflection and no ring is enough to tell.

do not confront her though. get more evidence. emails, phone records, text messages, etc

you will need them as evidence when you do divorce. if you do not, then she will rape you for all that you are worth.

Dem equal rights for women.....


brb taking all the success and money from husband

[4ea]

hey op, if you really wanted to embarrass her and get the proof shes cheating, you could call the show cheaters and have them sic their PI's on her. then everyone would know what a disloyal b*tch she is.

[OtisBDriftwood]

Hemo-Rage is your friend, OP. Take it along with Jack3d.

[ibringtheheat]

Oh look, an Aviless ******* appears.

U mad I was stylin' on you at 17 years old?!

Oh lawd. GTFO and go to TEEN MISC.

[Gunz007]

I don't even feel sorry for you OP, I mean you took her back after she already cheated on you and didn't have sex for 2 years. Wtf did you expect to happen. Cut all contact with her until you get back, then proceed with the divorce.

[ronpaul3046]

oh lawd

good luck with the divorce

[TeddySchorr]

this thread makes me rage !!
You need to get her out, out of the house YOU are paying for, the bills YOU pay, the food YOU bring...
Srsly, you need to shoot her

[ajs8140]

1. Act like all is well with said wife while gathering evidence
2. Divorce rape her so she doesn't divorce rape you
3. Have sex with every woman she knows
4. ??????
5. Profit

[jaySWAG]

You got what you deserved after the first time you caught her and took her back.

brutal but the truth

u military guys have it the worst, u get deployed and face life and death situations while your women are getting banged by other dudes

[Parallelism]

You know what's up, bro. You caught her before and had high suspicions. Why did you take her back? If I were you, I'd call you and confront her, maybe it's all a misunderstanding, maybe she's cheating on you. Be upfront and lay it all on the table.

Doesn't look good though...

[m.djemal]

Once you have doubts even if true or not İ believe its time to move on because there is a high probability that its true...

[therocuno]

She's cheating OP. good luck with whatever decision you take brah!

[NorthTexasBB]

wtf did u expect? you think any women would go two years without sex once they got a taste of dick

[Tabarnakz]

-We haven't had s3x in over two years.

... and you want to split because you think she's cheating?

Cheating isn't the only good reason to end a relationship brah, you should have put an end that a long time ago

I would have a lot to say but yeah, let's just keep it short and respectful and say that it pisses me off to see people staying in miserable relationships. If you're with someone and he/she doesn't make you happy, get the **** out.

Srsly, you need to shoot her

FBI inc on your ass after he does
I know this is the internet and some of you think you can do and say all kinds of stupid stuff without having it traced back to you but there are limits and this breaks these limits.

You know what's up, bro. You caught her before and had high suspicions. Why did you take her back? If I were you, I'd call you and confront her, maybe it's all a misunderstanding, maybe she's cheating on you. Be upfront and lay it all on the table.

Maybe she's an angel and hasn't cheated on him. Maybe the simple thought of cheating on him disgusts her. That's not the point, they haven't had sex for two years and the relationship seems miserable. Get the **** out.

[Anthony.b]

Unable to post pics...Would love to post up the sunglasses reflection...

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