Older guys and young girls....I find men up to age 26 still quite immature.

[kickblake]

Seems that even older women can still be in that whore phase and never wanna grow up. Goto the bar all the time and just wanna party whenever they can. Invested alot of time in one I was with who is 29 and hell all she did was break my heart. Im not much younger than her Im 27. Had kid with her and married the girl, so it really sucks. She works as a server around a buncha younger girls and I think that is a big part of it. All she has ever worked as is a server or in some bar. While I work what I consider a real job and provided insurance and everything. I didnt get to go work a fun job where I get to meet people constantly and be out all nite or whatever. Think if **** was reversed and she worked something real then maybe shed get it. To me I feel she needs to grow up and wanna make something of her self. When Id bitch about her going out and drinking she would say she is still young so going out and partying is fine. Sure I agree you still should have fun and such, but there comes a point when you should grow up and do it in moderation atleast (especially when you have a family). Maybe my opinions on the bar scene are different, but I just feel most people go to hookup or meet people. Not all, but alot. My fault for sticking with her though and not seeing things before having a child and all that, but you live and learn. Just pissed because I was trying to keep my family together and all the blame has been put on me while she just goes and does whatever. She is the one who wanted to get married and she was awesome at first then slowly changed. Guess she got scared of getting older and missing out on life idk. Yeah taking my daughter away from seeing her father every day is so much better for her. The gal makes me out to be crazy and psycho and like she has done nothing wrong. Meh that whole relationship has fd me up.

Anyway my bad for getting off topic. Op to answer your question alot of older guys will just want to smash unless you really have something to offer them and they are looking to settle down. Like alot have said though most younger girls are not the type try to build a long relationship with. The girl may feel she wants that and is all in love, but at that age I just dont think you know what love or having a real relationship is. Im not saying all girls, but alot your age. Basically I just wanna smash younger women (hell older too) and not give a **** because love just ****s you up. Seems like no matter what age they are they can all be crazy, so Im more than likely just gonna break hearts for awhile unless I happen to meet someone ****ing amazing. I get you wanting an older mature man and all, but just know that they can play you all the same and be alot better at it. **** you need to be working on you and making the life you want for yourself. Go better yourself and do whatever you want before you worry about getting involved in something serious. You have plenty of time for that and you will regret it later if go getting into some long serious relationship now.

About being older and still in that whore phase: What I have seen is that girls that went through the whore phase at ~21-25 get done with it, and settle down. However, when you go out you do see older girls still whoring, and you assume that its just girls who had an extended whore phase. In my expereince, its not the same girls. The 26+ girls that are in their whore phase are the girls who attempted to engage in a serious relationship during would SHOULD have been their whore phase, failed at it, and are now going out and having it later in life. The odd thing about this is: the longer they attempted to be stable/monogamous.....and the older tehy are when they quit, the more depraved the resulting whore phase becomes.

[exo5]

And as a "Older man", I wouldnt bother myself with a woman under the age of 24.... MAYBE 23 on an exception. A 21 year old girl is not on the same level as a 27 year old man. Go out to the bars for a while, get some more of that partying out of the way, and give me a call when you're done getting s**tfaced more than once a month.

[Boffothe]

Once you hit like 27-28, all you have to do is tell 20 year olds "wow, you're so mature for your age, you have such an old soul" and enjoy the blowjob

[exo5]

Once you hit like 27-28, all you have to do is tell 20 year olds "wow, you're so mature for your age, you have such an old soul" and enjoy the blowjob

LOL. Here is my favorite pick up line for ANY girl under 25: "I own a condo". Guaranteed lay.

[jamestown0101]

( by older I mean 27-35)

If you’re 27 and + would you consider getting in to a long term relationship with a 21/22 year old if you thought she was mature enough and you could
bond with her? If not, why?

Women are much more mature on average, than men their age, it’s one of the reasons in the past why I’ve avoided ( and continue to avoid) relationships with guys my age and I find that guys that are a few years older are just the same as guys my age ( on the maturity level) but a little more confident and understanding.

I like having meaningful conversations which quite a few guys around that age can’t have or get bored of easily.

I’m starting to see no point in dating guys around my age for the long term…especially since I’m becoming more and more attracted to older guys. I think older men can be far more interesting and attractive than the guys my age. I don’t want to get with anyone just for fun anymore, but look for a long term partner, and from what I’ve come across most young guys don’t have that intention. Most older guys know what they want…where as the young just kind of ‘go with the flow’. I’m not saying that I want to settle down right now, but I think that I would want to settle down a lot earlier than guys just a few years older.

This isn’t just about finding someone who’d maybe want to settle down at the same time. But I really appreciate and find older men attractive. I love that they’ve had more experience, not especially in relationships but other worldly things. I like that they often open up to me and honestly share their feelings, desire and secrets with me. They’re more able to carry on thought provoking conversations without judging you or your feelings.

I know that there aren’t a lot of girls my age that would be classed as mature…but there are quite a few.

The best relationship I’ve had was with an older guy and since then nothing really compares, especially on the maturity level. Recently I’ve been rejecting guys because of this or just keeping them as friends :/

A misunderstanding that could arise: Yes, I like men who are older, but that does not automatically mean that because you are older, I like you…

Lies. Miss, you started it from 27 ^ up cause you seen my stats, age, and want some jamestown0101 cock in and around your mouth.

Out before!

[Errorist]

( by older I mean 27-35)

If you’re 27 and + would you consider getting in to a long term relationship with a 21/22 year old if you thought she was mature enough and you could
bond with her? If not, why?

Women are much more mature on average

lol I quit reading here.

[Austere]

I ain't sayin' she a gold digger...

[jamestown0101]

( by older I mean 27-35)

If you’re 27 and + would you consider getting in to a long term relationship with a 21/22 year old if you thought she was mature enough and you could
bond with her? If not, why?

Women are much more mature on average

If aesthetic, fit, worksout, I would beat up that coochie but, commitment? LULZ Nope!

[brenden87]

You only think 27+ are more mature because your social circle comprises mostly of people your own age. You'll realise when you get older that nothing much will change. My friend is 27, good looking, has a good job, has his own apartment in the city, but he still goes clubbing every weekend and is seeing multiple girls. He's also probably more superficial than your average girl. What he wants in a girl is this: a good looking girl that works, cooks and clean.

Depends entirely on the person.

[Tyr616]

In a way I agree with OP somewhat. I'm 25 and my gf is 21, if I met her when I was 21 there would be a ****storm between egos probably. My gf is still young but the reason we get along together is I don't get butthurt about little things like I would when I was younger. I'm alot more emotionally stable at 25 etc. But also life experiences with health problems etc caused me to mature a bit. I know plenty of dudes like 30 who are immature and wreckless, srs.

[tbone73]

Then why are you even posting?

I like my vagina A LOT.

Stop pretending i'm on your ignore list please

ooh..ooh..i like your vagina too!

[brenden87]

In a way I agree with OP somewhat. I'm 25 and my gf is 21, if I met her when I was 21 there would be a ****storm between egos probably. My gf is still young but the reason we get along together is I don't get butthurt about little things like I would when I was younger. I'm alot more emotionally stable at 25 etc. But also life experiences with health problems etc caused me to mature a bit. I know plenty of dudes like 30 who are immature and wreckless, srs.

She's 21, she's not that young.

[NIguy]

I might know OP, mind = blown, friends of one E Bar or no?

[lskandar]

im 21 I smoke alotta weed and like to talk about the universe. Am I mature enough for you OP, please respond

[Bettabez]

You guys disgust me. Stop ****ing giving in to these dirty skanks on our boards. This is a forum about BODYBUILDING not ****ing kitchen remodeling, makeup, or beauty products.

To OP: Bitch pls go. You have just about as much business here as I have on a Clinique forum.

Seek male-attention elsewhere please.

[Amoral]

I think a lot of people chock up stupidity as immaturity.

[Imonlydancing]

Well this thread's been resurrected... and I still like older men.

I might know OP, mind = blown, friends of one E Bar or no?

I'm confused, so i guess that means no?

..but please expand on how you think you might know me?

[diddydooo]

ay baybay im a mature chocolate daddy perfect for u, i got the dirty goods u cravin baby holla at me

[Scotytri]

Im 35 and am curentley seeing a 26 year old, gf before that was 28.

I think a lot depends on relitive maturirty, a lot of girls are more mature and sensible than guys their own age especially <30. Though I think the fact that I'm resonabley well off, have my own flat and a decent life style definitley helps.

[Barteh]

Girls usally take things more serious, have less sense of humour and are more stuck up. If you want to define those as 'mature' to make yourself feel better, go ahead. Most of us know better.

[KRNEKIM]

"just keeping them as friends."

what a kunt.

[MetalliNattyCa]

The older i get (being 30 now), the more i like young girls, hooking up in the regular with 20/22 yo girls, but i would never dare to get in a relationship with one of those "so mature for their age" girls. I love the spark, the innocence and the carefree attitude of the young gals, but i can´t stand drama nor games. The day i feel like i want a gf again, i will look between 25/30 girls.

[SuperShamou]

i wouldn't get emotionally involved with anyone younger than me. the 20ish generation has zero hope (srs), dont know how they will handle it when older generations die.

[W8sB4dates]

I'm 31 my GF is 26 and it all good. Would I date a 21-22 year old, yeah but I would have to date them a really long time before moving forward to getting married or anything. Reason is all people change alot from 21 to 30. I found this out, I got married when I was 23 she was 21 we stayed married for 6 years and everything was great, but after 6 years we changed so much that we were not really interested in the same things and more and were more of just friends, so we decideed to go separate ways. So taking that into consieration I'd have to date a 21 year old real long time before making any big committments.

[RC17]

( by older I mean 27-35)

If you’re 27 and + would you consider getting in to a long term relationship with a 21/22 year old if you thought she was mature enough and you could
bond with her? If not, why?

Women are much more mature on average

lol I quit reading here.

lol this. Where do these sloots get this sense of entitlement nowadays.

This is my opinion of you

[kickblake]

zombie thread

[Messiahtype]

I'm almost 32, girlfriend just turned 24 a few weeks ago.
We don't have any problems. I bought an engagement ring last week.
Started dating at 30/22. She was still in college.

Just depends on the person. I know when I was 25-30 I hooked up with a million 20-22 year olds I would NEVER consider dating. We had nothing in common but sex. But if you find a mature younger girl, then go for it. She will still be good looking when you're in your 40's.

[nzgs]

My gf will turn 20 soon, I wouldn't consider seeing someone over 25. Maturity is nice, but in many people maturity means being career/family-oriented and boring. I'm not into girls who spend more time reading marriage magazines whilst eating ice cream than doing something constructive. Also older women value everything in terms of financial value; every decision is weighed on whether it benefits her future plans. Can't buy a nice coupe because she wants something big and slow. Can't go on holiday with your mates because she demands all of your free time. Guys only agree to this because they think it's what society expects from them. I've lost touch with too many friends whose lives are now dominated by a late-20's demanding bitch.

I think whenever my relationship ends (it won't last forever) I will hopefully still be in good enough shape to stick to girls under 25. Yeah most of them are stupid and immature but if you can find one with a decent personality you will have way more fun than with an older woman.

[TeKappa]

Ofc we all want younger women.

[steve234]

Can you imagine what a vacuous, useless, dried up old **** the op will be when she's in her 30s? Please god nobody marry this bitch.

What entitles you to instant access to older mens money accumulated through experience, education, and work?

OP is a whore and sounds like she will never be anything else because she thinks she's mature because she whores herself out to more well off clients.

Let's decode shall we:
"More mature man" =A man who has more disposable income through the advantage of experience and has a willingness to throw it at me. Also a man who has the experience to know women dont enjoy objective discussions and therefore only says what I want to hear.

For gods sake nobody give this "piece of ass and tits w a torso attached" any of your money. Stop spoiling the kiddies older guys.