In on this.
Hadn't fapped for a week (wasn't intentionally abstaining, just didn't have the chance) and was wanting to rail this chick I have been after hard. Said to myself that I wouldn't fap to keep up the arousal for her. Fapped twice today, feltbadman.jpeg
Watched the ted talk this evening and this has been the turning point for me, I am going to go for 90 days without fapping.
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04-07-2012, 03:06 PM #8641
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04-07-2012, 03:39 PM #8642
Relapsed after 13 days. Feels bad. Anyway, lets do this **** again!
Come at me brah.
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04-07-2012, 03:44 PM #8643
You're probably frustrated because you won't allow yourself to fap. I'd be frustrated to.
There will always be progress the first month you lift, lol.
And why are you staring at bishes? brb, aspergers.
Tempted to neg.
It's ok bruh I relapse every other day.
I consider it a victory if I last through a weekend brah (my weekends are three days long).
You're in Ohio so it must be extra tough for you.
GJDM.
Tempted to rep.
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04-07-2012, 04:03 PM #8644
In.
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04-07-2012, 04:37 PM #8645
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04-07-2012, 04:54 PM #8646
This thread has more pseudo science (bro science) than you can shake a freshly fapped dick at.
Masturbation (or sex, your body doesn't know the difference) actually increases testosterone. Hasn't the myth of abstinence increasing athletic performance been beaten into a horsy pulp?Last edited by steve234; 04-07-2012 at 05:19 PM.
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04-07-2012, 05:15 PM #8647
It was tough, REALLY tough today, and I almost did, but only some drops came out and I held it in. I hope that counts, but I'm not gonna lie to myself, so damn it, I'm starting again. And I was at day 14... man, it's NOT worth it!!!
Because so much time is spent debating the semantics of this "god" fellow, that the essence has been lost for so many.
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04-07-2012, 05:31 PM #8648
woha
likely repost but...
"Ominous News for Porn Users: Internet Addiction Atrophies Brains"
w.w.w.psychologytoday.com/blog/cupids-poisoned-arrow/201106/ominous-news-porn-users-internet-addiction-atrophies-brains
(cant post direct links yet)
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04-07-2012, 05:48 PM #8649
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http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...rophies-brains
Fixed will read now.live.laugh.lift
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04-07-2012, 06:44 PM #8650
You mad fap-satan?
Just week 1 of many.
I think schoolwork + caffeine + sleepless nights have took a toll on my test as my urges aren't even that bad
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04-07-2012, 07:13 PM #8651
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Day 2 done
- was harder than expected
- random semi boners whilst asleep
- think I've got blue balls as my tool hurts slightly and I could feel it all day long for some reason
- been aggressive all day, caused arguments etc etc, feel like a cnut now and feel bad
- mood has been off for some reason
- severe brain fog today, today I could actually feel it
-forgot to even smoke today, only remembered a few hours ago I ain't had a cigarette all day lol
- weird day, but was a success apart from me acting a bit crazyرضيت بالله رباً وبالسلام ديناً و بمحمدٍ نبياً
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04-07-2012, 07:39 PM #8652
i just had sex after around 2 weeks of no fap and i cummed after like 20 pumps. the chick gave me the biggest bert face
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04-07-2012, 10:07 PM #8653
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I completed a 100 days of no fap which was pretty much a mark I set for myself. Decided I deserved a fap so I did the deed and I still feel good mentally. Big ass grin because many people report depression after they have fapped and I don't feel that way. Before when I would fap regular (5-6 times a week) I could feel a difference from before and after and the days that proceeded (the build up). I'll report back on that but as for now I feel good, still feel balanced mentally.
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04-07-2012, 10:52 PM #8654
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04-07-2012, 11:02 PM #8655
@7 days again, feelsgoodman gonna keep the streak alive breeeeeeeeeeeeehs
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04-07-2012, 11:42 PM #8656
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04-07-2012, 11:51 PM #8657
Been extremely antsy the past couple days. Like almost driven madly insane. Found that watching lifting videos on youtube helped a bit (thank you antoine vaillant), but the urges would come back once I finished watching.
Feeling much better today, since I was out the whole day. The change in environment (novel stimuli) really helped me. Was hanging with the guys and really felt like the alpha dog of the pack, so that was neat. Also, the need to engage in conversation is pretty amazing. This is coming from a guy used to prefer listening over talking. But now, it just seems that I am more willing to take control of conversations; love hearing the sound of my voice... haha.
Enjoying the challenge and reaping the many rewards. Wish me luck on completing Week 3 (personal best).
This is really interesting. We could be onto something.
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04-07-2012, 11:55 PM #8658
Day 6-7 I think lol. Still nofapping like a mofo. Actually had to fight off some urges today but I didn't find myself wanting the porn part of it with the fapping I just had a wicked random right hook of fapping try to knock me out lol. Stay strong guys.
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04-08-2012, 01:03 AM #8659
Day 8 here. I moonlight as a bartender Fri/Sat in a small town. There's this crowd of regulars, mid-20sh, mostly couples ... anyway, one of the wives I've always thought is super cute/hot but usually it's just like she's any other customer. Well tonight ... damn ... she was seriously vibing me. She's married and the husband is a cool dude, so nothing's going to happen there, but still ... IOIs feelgoodman.
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04-08-2012, 01:17 AM #8660
Ok, I let myself get out of hand some time ago and started fapping at certain intervals like once a week. Then the last time I fapped on day 4, which was yesterday, I binged. And now I do not feel good at all. Whenever I closed my eyes, I saw porn... no thanks. Gonna take no-fap seriously now. Fapping once a week will eventually make me wanna fap even more often, so I'll go all-out now again. Day 90 here I come bitch.
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04-08-2012, 01:20 AM #8661
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Fuk dunno how you guys do it...
I went for like 4 days once, but it was in Hawaii and there was way too much hnnnngggggg to be seen on the beaches, i couldnt fking take it anymore.Join KIVA - Donate to those in need around the world! Free $25 for signing up!
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04-08-2012, 03:18 AM #8662
I think I'll give up once I reach day 30, it's just not worth it.
I don't have the confidence to even try with women anyway, neither physically nor personality-wise attractive, so what good is it to not fap? Why would I care about having ED, being addicted to porn/fapping or not being able to ejaculate from real sex? On top of that losing interest in real women seems to be something positive rather than something negative if you can't get laid.
I just can't find any motivation or an argument for keeping this up.++Positive Crew++
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04-08-2012, 03:43 AM #8663
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04-08-2012, 05:39 AM #8664
Never thought id post in this thread. But gonna try it for atleast 7 days, then 2 weeks, and hopefully 31days...
This shall be hard though as i am a regular and have recently been using chatroulette/omegle alot and scoring some hot bishes lately which leads to dat dere messy keyboard.
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04-08-2012, 05:45 AM #8665
Anyone else needs to fap the day after having sex? I always have this urge of fapping the day after I have sex w/ my g/f. I see her on weekends only.
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04-08-2012, 05:53 AM #8666
Day 4 for me today, went out and felt extremely alpha. I'm pretty sure right now its just psychological as I've abstained for 1-2 weeks while on vacation and haven't felt anything. But I seriously felt like it affected me positively.. Guess its the placebo effect working its wonders! Felt like reading about the confidence boosting from nofapping actually did boost my confidence in the real world.. Hmm..
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04-08-2012, 08:01 AM #8667
Guys you've got to transmute that sexual energy into something positive. No fap doesn't just mean sit there staring at the wall wishing you could fap, or staring at chicks on the beach ...
the point is to take the energy and use it to improve your life so that you can actually meet and smash these real life women.
Fuzzee --- talk to the beach babes.
xb28k --- improve yourself first and the bishes will follow.
icanwank --- change your username first of all, no need to tease yourself unnecessarily, might seem just a lul but your brain is affected by subtle cues like that ... secondly, good luck with no fap, forget the hot omegle chicks and realize you will be able to pull live ones if you work on yourself.
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04-08-2012, 08:53 AM #8668
2 weeks today, personal record. thats whats good
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04-08-2012, 09:30 AM #8669
In on this. Been fapping since I was 12 years old and the longest streak I've done of No Fap is 3 months. Its soo difficult to beat, I mean i've given up alcohol for 1 year 1/2 with ease but this is in a different league. I haven't actually been in a serious relationship ever, and at 23 that's pretty sad. I'm certain its to do with this, every time I quit I tend to find i'm socially much better and confident. My plan is to quit for 6 months so I can reboot my brain and then keep going forever.
A helpful tool I would recommend is this. Download K9 Web Protection for free and install it. Make the settings to filter pornography only, then make an email address that you will never use. In the program change the email address (you may have a confirmation email to do this) to one you just made and then make a password that you will never guess or know. (To do this make a text document and type randomly about 10-20 characters and copy paste as the password for the program and then delete the text document).
Finally after that do the same technique for the email address you just made and change that password to something you will never guess or know. You now have a porn filter that cannot be removed unless you format your computer.
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04-08-2012, 09:53 AM #8670
Sorry, but this plain doesn't work. Women don't just come, if you don't have the confidence to even make a move you'll end up alone.
"Improving" oneself is something that is generally given out as advice, but it boils down to mustering up the courage to hit on some women because, as I said above, if you don't make the move you're bound to be alone. I lack the confidence to do that right now, which is why I started doing NoFap. NoFap doesn't help with confidence problems. The other porn/fap related problems and benefits are void if you don't get laid in the first place.
So why should I continue with it? I can't see any reason. Currently i'm trying to convince myself that the confidence boost will set in if I hold out just a few more days, but after hoping for that and getting disappointed over and over again it's not that convincing anymore.++Positive Crew++
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