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03-22-2012, 11:32 AM #7651
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03-22-2012, 11:46 AM #7652
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03-22-2012, 11:50 AM #7653
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03-22-2012, 11:51 AM #7654
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03-22-2012, 11:52 AM #7655
In on NO FAP.
MY GF was like
WTF u trying to DROWN ME???
AFter I blew a load down her throat...she started choking and sputtering...
I chukled...thus the life of no fabI REP BACK...REP Back....I REP BACK
8======)) 500+ 100%
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03-22-2012, 12:03 PM #7656
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03-22-2012, 12:10 PM #7657
I found this on reddit guys. That forum annoys the fk out of me... its like the opposite of the misc. However, their nofap section has some very motivating posts made by people who just joined for that section. Not totally related to the nofap challenge itself, but rather the whole mindset of self improvement that has been created around the whole nofap community (including ours right here)
It seems to me like the masturbatory lifestyle we all know and love is a symptom of the contempory human culture/lifestyle. On the surface we've given up class structures, and we like to think we've got equal opportunities and have a right to free speech and full participation in society. But actually in our overcrowded, media-sedated, materialistic, and ultra-competetive world, that 'land of the free' is in many ways a kindergarten myth.
Basically, just to stay afloat and have anything resembling a 'real life' with freedom and happiness, you need to man up, work like a mule, and suffer with a smile on your face. We all have a sense of what a real adult is, and in our more reflective moments we sense how far away from that ideal our present condition is. This 'growing up' is what our natural survival instincts - the ones we develop during puberty - are for: to help us reach full manhood. All those hormones and chemicals that mature us give us a drive, a feeling of longing that basically amounts to the double edged sword of instinctive/sexual motivation: "here's your secret energy - it's powerful, deadly stuff, could get you into trouble, but you can use it to strive towards achieving your goals and reaching your potential".
But we've grown up sheltered by messages telling us life isn't a struggle, and adult life is a big baywatch/hollywood party where you do a little work - nothing too serious - and the wads of cash and supermodels in bikinis start falling out of the sky. We don't want to face the truth that human life is a struggle whose basic principles haven't changed much in hundreds of years. Here are a couple of those principles: 'if you want something you gotta work hard for it', and 'if you want something that's out of the ordinary for a guy of your background - you better work 100 times as hard'. One difference is that in the past resources were typically so limited you had to work hard just to survive. Instead of simply starving, or maybe earning the status of 'village idiot' or 'vagrant', being a kidult today means you're allowed the external illusion of a normal life... but will it last? What's underneath that thin veneer of contentment?
So what about all those chemicals floating around our bodies - all that instinctual/sexual energy? If it doesn't get used to drive us towards our goals, and instead stays in our system, it feels uncomfortable. Something just doesn't fit, doesn't feel right, after a while you feel like to explode. The energy has to go somewhere, and if it's to make something useful or creative then you'll need to apply effort. But that's what we're trying to avoid because of our whole fear-ignorance complex. So then conveniently enter the clever little suppression mechanisms - the ones that let us stay in our childhood cocoon, coast along and just about get by (in our fantasy... while in reality we fail slowly and bitterly). One of those sly mechanisms is masturbation and porn fantasy. It's a way of spending the sexual energy, using a fantasy world construction that others have cynically made for you, and hey you can feel good as long as you don't think too deep about it.
The result? You neatly get put in your place in society, a place determined by externalities rather than your wishes and dreams, the place of a coaster. Coasters sink and continue to sink. This works for the society as a whole: you're just a consumer, a beta-male, inconsequential. You won't rock the boat and you won't use up alpha-males' valuable resources (jobs, fame, attention, women, money). And the tragic part is that it also works for you, or at least part of you, the part that doesn't want to poke his head out of his burrow hole, that wants a nice cosy life, being cared for and sustained by others' work, just like being at home with mama.
The moral of the story: if you want a real adult life, don't fap. Face your instincts and deeper feelings that you've been ignoring since puberty. They are like a double-edged sword, it can really hurt you, but you will learn to use it if you decide to accept the challenge and strive towards real life.
Anyway, on Day 22. Glad I don't feel depressed as fk. Have a lot of plans for this weekend.Goals D/S/B = 405/315/225
Strength training only crew
Currently cutting
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03-22-2012, 12:21 PM #7658
but brahs...isn't going a long time without busting nuts bad for you? assuming you're not getting laid. seems to me that blue balls and lack of focus and sleep would be concerns
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03-22-2012, 12:31 PM #7659
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03-22-2012, 01:33 PM #7660
Once I get to day 90, I'm going to write something similar to this. Basically about the "system" that has been set up in this life and we're supposed to follow it or become failures. I want to write about not following the system and coming out on top.
btw, looking aesthetic brah. (no homo)
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03-22-2012, 03:07 PM #7661
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03-22-2012, 04:42 PM #7662
day 82 here fellers, 8 more days til i reach my goal
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03-22-2012, 04:45 PM #7663
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03-22-2012, 04:48 PM #7664
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03-22-2012, 04:48 PM #7665
not really any difference to tell you the truth but atleast i aint spending time each day watching porn
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03-22-2012, 04:51 PM #7666
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03-22-2012, 04:56 PM #7667
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03-22-2012, 04:58 PM #7668
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03-22-2012, 05:02 PM #7669
It starts now.
23/03/2012 - midnight.
And.....here.....we......go.
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03-22-2012, 05:07 PM #7670
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03-22-2012, 05:18 PM #7671
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03-22-2012, 06:44 PM #7672
So I failed on day 62. Fapped with porn twice. I don't feel bad, but I'm back on this now permanently. I will never visit a porn site again. This challenge/lifestyle has made me realise how detrimental porn can be to vulnerable young men. Things I noticed in that time:
- Amazing gains and workouts (gained ~8kg in 7 weeks)
- Overall positive outlook
- Increased sex drive (action downstairs when I'm just looking at a girl irl - can't remember the last time I felt this, if ever)
- Perfect health
Even though I didn't feel like I was on day 0 again, I decided to start again. So I'm on day 5 now and I've just got a cold, coincidence? Probably not.
I have been having a lot of thoughts about how ****ed up our society is lately and am keen to discuss them with anyone who is interested. I will try to write them up when I have some spare time.
This time I will make it to 90 days. Come at me life.
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03-22-2012, 07:22 PM #7673
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03-22-2012, 07:40 PM #7674
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03-22-2012, 08:55 PM #7675
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03-22-2012, 09:41 PM #7676
- Join Date: Dec 2011
- Location: Northridge, California, United States
- Age: 30
- Posts: 755
- Rep Power: 3027
Ok guys hope this isnt annyoing but I've been realizing that checking in with the thread has kept me motivated to keep going
a few hours away from completing day4 and feels f****ing great man!!! No desire to fap what so ever and feeling like a total bad ass haha
when I walk into my high school every morning I look at all the guys and tell my self these guys probably all fap their lives away and I can resist the ultimate temptation.......
Life is good!!!!"It became very clear to me sitting out there today, that every decision I've ever made, in my entire life, has been wrong. My life is the opposite of everything I want it to be. Every instinct I have, in every of life, be it something to wear, something to eat ... It's all been wrong." George Costanza
*Clipper fan since '99*
*Livin' Life Fap Free Since March 2012*
*sXe*
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03-22-2012, 10:09 PM #7677
starting 3/22/2012-4/22/2012
god help me...i'm on Triazole and Prometheus risingFLAT: 225x11 INCLINE DB 100x9 incline bench 225x8 deadlift: [RETIRED!! OUTTA HERE] FS: 225X8
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03-22-2012, 10:31 PM #7678
Day 2
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03-22-2012, 11:14 PM #7679
- Join Date: Nov 2011
- Location: Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
- Age: 28
- Posts: 865
- Rep Power: 466
Day 8 today
New record so far, fuark finallyGo hard
In the gym,
On the books
Throughout life
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03-23-2012, 01:52 AM #7680
day 7, very irratable and energetic this morning.
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