**The NO FAP thread to end ALL No Fap threads**

[millatyme23]

had my first sex dream of no fap last night and woke up to me humping my pillow. i shut that one down fast! day 25 here...so close to achieving my first short-term goal of 30 days (longterm goal is at least New Years, but I'm definitely going for longer)...not gonna let anything stop me now.

[GrimRep_er]

40 days!

Not fapping has been easy as hell, but the desire to look at porn is stronger.

It was smooth sailing up till the last few days. I've been in a flatline, which actually made everything effortless.

Then I couldn't get a few porn scenes out of my mind. I was REALLY tempted to find one scene and watch it...a compromise. Not an hour of jumping around looking at different things....just one scene then call it a night.

I fought off the urge, but did engage in fantasy. This only made the urge to look at porn stronger, and the urge to M was strong as well. Again, I didn't cave.

Maybe my flatline is nearing it's end. I'm slowly feeling my sex drive creep back to life. Prior to this situation, I really hadn't had any urges (for porn or sex) for a few weeks.

My advice for other non-fappers. I'd try to push out fantasy the same way you do porn and fapping. While fantasizing, it's hard not to draw on porn scenes which is obviously counter productive.

This was as close as I've come to failure since I started. I need to refocus a bit. I'm aiming for 90 days (but obviously would have real sex) without PMO.

Good luck everyone!

[16107345]

Also did you ever notice anything about sleeping/dreaming? I've noticed that it's a lot easier to fall asleep and that I have dreams every night now. (Didn't have any dreams while fapping)

Didn't really notice anything about sleep besides seeming to need less of it. Getting up was still a pain, but I had a ton more energy throughout the day even on 5-6 hours of sleep and had way less moments of feeling like time was crawling by. You're prob in high school, so that feeling should resonate with you a lot - I know it was the case for me.

Not much to report about dreams either, I take melatonin before bed and usually have vivid dreams from that. It's worth checking out if some of you are having a difficult time sleeping.

[ocarinanoob]

This whole no-fap experience has been a bit of an eye opener for me.

For some reason this thought popped in my head today- What am I even doing with my life? Every minute I spend being lazy is a minute I could have used to lessen my school work load, talk to a friend, educate myself, read a book, master a skill, fulfill religious obligations (yes I know), learn something new or even just think about an abstract concept.

This thought sprung from the fact that I wasted this whole weekend not doing anything too productive in particular. I just noticed it this weekend because when I used to fap I was a lot like a zombie for some reason. I simply didn't care about anything. As I mentioned before I only socialized as to not look weird.

I have been thinking about my life over for the last day or so.

I've started reading Think and Grow Rich and it's a very interesting book. I'm going to set goals for myself. I'll practice hobbies in my alone time. I'll definitely try to socialize more, and in a good way. I'm going to get my weekend homework done as soon as possible rather than leaving it on the evening before school (and I almost NEVER finish it all because of this- yet I do it again the next time around. It's been like this for a year or two)

Good job OP, keep motivating people. Thanks. In the meantime I'll have a read of your other thread. BTW Is there any good reading material that would help me out?

I'll have to ponder over this some more. I also need a place to collect my thoughts. Perhaps I should start a journal. That might be a good idea.

[Flareness]

Its like I have wet dreams and barely remmeber them.

I only find out later when I check my boxers in the day and I can see stains.

Because having wet dreams seems to me to take away the benefits of no fap, because I don't feel the same benefits I felt when I didn't wet dream honestly.

How do I stop wet dreams ?

[Mickles]

after 4 or 5 days its easy slices

LOLS

day 45 , cum at me its just routine now

can't wait to hit 60 then 90 then 120 days etc.

good luck misc don't give up

[xCody]

This whole no-fap experience has been a bit of an eye opener for me.

For some reason this thought popped in my head today- What am I even doing with my life? Every minute I spend being lazy is a minute I could have used to lessen my school work load, talk to a friend, educate myself, read a book, master a skill, fulfill religious obligations (yes I know), learn something new or even just think about an abstract concept.

This thought sprung from the fact that I wasted this whole weekend not doing anything too productive in particular. I just noticed it this weekend because when I used to fap I was a lot like a zombie for some reason. I simply didn't care about anything. As I mentioned before I only socialized as to not look weird.

I have been thinking about my life over for the last day or so.

I've started reading Think and Grow Rich and it's a very interesting book. I'm going to set goals for myself. I'll practice hobbies in my alone time. I'll definitely try to socialize more, and in a good way. I'm going to get my weekend homework done as soon as possible rather than leaving it on the evening before school (and I almost NEVER finish it all because of this- yet I do it again the next time around. It's been like this for a year or two)

Good job OP, keep motivating people. Thanks. In the meantime I'll have a read of your other thread. BTW Is there any good reading material that would help me out?

I'll have to ponder over this some more. I also need a place to collect my thoughts. Perhaps I should start a journal. That might be a good idea.

Son, I am appoint.

But yeah, I've been thinking about the same thing recently even while fapping. Definitely going to try to start doing something productive in order to make money. Would rather write/invent/make something than work a boring job for 7$ an hour.

[Aestheticzs]

Having sex is the same **** as fapping... Wat.

Its just that you are pleasuring yourself. Personally for me, it was the other way around. I hadn't fapped in a year and then when I broke up with my GF I started doing it again. This has been going on for 6 months and holy fuark I have been getting so many girls its not even funny. I feel more confident, I don't feel as if I need women that much (e.g Pussy no longer on pedestal), etc. I make my own rules. I have more control over my life. Why NOT fap? It feels good.

[Preparation]

This whole no-fap experience has been a bit of an eye opener for me.

For some reason this thought popped in my head today- What am I even doing with my life? Every minute I spend being lazy is a minute I could have used to lessen my school work load, talk to a friend, educate myself, read a book, master a skill, fulfill religious obligations (yes I know), learn something new or even just think about an abstract concept.

This thought sprung from the fact that I wasted this whole weekend not doing anything too productive in particular. I just noticed it this weekend because when I used to fap I was a lot like a zombie for some reason. I simply didn't care about anything. As I mentioned before I only socialized as to not look weird.

I have been thinking about my life over for the last day or so.

I've started reading Think and Grow Rich and it's a very interesting book. I'm going to set goals for myself. I'll practice hobbies in my alone time. I'll definitely try to socialize more, and in a good way. I'm going to get my weekend homework done as soon as possible rather than leaving it on the evening before school (and I almost NEVER finish it all because of this- yet I do it again the next time around. It's been like this for a year or two)

Good job OP, keep motivating people. Thanks. In the meantime I'll have a read of your other thread. BTW Is there any good reading material that would help me out?

I'll have to ponder over this some more. I also need a place to collect my thoughts. Perhaps I should start a journal. That might be a good idea.

Fuarkkk, I wish I had that figured out at 16.

You will have days where your motivation and will power will drop, or you will just forget about setting goals etc. Read that chapter in Laws of Success about setting goals. Write yourself a definite chief aim, and read it to yourself every morning.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Law_of_Success

This was Bruce Lee's

My Definite Chief Aim

I, Bruce Lee, will be the first highest paid Oriental super star in the United States. In return I will give the most exciting performances and render the best of quality in the capacity of an actor. Starting 1970 I will achieve world fame and from then onward till the end of 1980 I will have in my possession $10,000,000. I will live the way I please and achieve inner harmony and happiness.

Bruce Lee
1969

I personally have written my own recently, and reading it every morning reminds me of what I need to do to get to my goals.

When you have long term goals where you've inching towards every day, you find yourself less stressed about short term failures. For me, when I'm doing well in school, nothing else can really get me down. If I'm on a semester where I'm heading towards 3 or more As, everything else could be on the low side and it wouldn't matter as much for me. Because part of reaching my goals has to start with getting good grades. On the other hand, times when I'm not doing well at school, when I'm faced with a lack of social life and other shortcomings, I feel like complete ****.

I REALLY REALLY believe in the power of the mind. How your conscious thoughts programs your subconscious thoughts, and if you truly believe (STRONG STRONG emphasis on truly) you could do something, you REALLY can. You have to be ridiculously and maybe delusionally obsessive about achieving your goals. You know what you have to do to get there, it's just about doing it now. Sometimes we let days or weeks go by meaninglessly, because we dont even know wtf we want with our lives. By having SET goals where it means something to you to achieve it, you remind yourself why it's absolutely detrimental to let days go by without any progress. You shall write yourself a definite chief aim when you're ready. Be SPECIFIC and really put some thought into it.

My own definite chief aim is a relatively short term goal (achievable within 3-4 years), but once I do, I will post proof of my note to self, and proof that I achieved my goals.


Also, read some of the articles on this site www.kratosguide.com
It's very interesting and motivating.

[csbrah]

Day 21
My brain tried to trick me last night. I dreamt that I fapped and, Im not even joking, I was absolutely crushed. The entire time I felt like I betrayed myself.
Then I woke up and realized it was just a dream. I felt so relieved... even though I couldnt go back to sleep after that

[diddydoo1]

i kno all ya aint fappin but this how a reel ***** do, bitches luv ma big ol hairy blak bootyhole http://www.zshare.net/video/776640289d5dc2bb/

[NakedBrah]

just read this, day one meow

[xCody]

Fuarkkk, I wish I had that figured out at 16.

Figured it out at 15. You mad? lol

Also, I too believe in the power of the mind. I look up to Bruce Lee a lot and I want to do stuff similar to him, but in order to do that, I need to do something else first to make money so I can focus on what I really want.

watdo?

Do I write a Definite Chief Aim and then once I complete it do I write another one?

[deltsmuch]

fuark this is hard! good thing I blocked my favorite websites or I would be fapping right now.

[ForCereal44]

fuark this is hard! good thing I blocked my favorite websites or I would be fapping right now.

is there a firefox app for blocking websites?

[deltsmuch]

is there a firefox app for blocking websites?

I'm using Avast's(antivirus) website blocker. I generate a random password from http://www.pctools.com/guides/password/ and then email me the password later with http://emailfuture.com/

This is the best way to really ensure you can't access the websites because you can't even open or uninstall avast without the password.

[xCody]

I'm using Avast's(antivirus) website blocker. I generate a random password from http://www.pctools.com/guides/password/ and then email me the password later with http://emailfuture.com/

This is the best way to really ensure you can't access the websites because you can't even open or uninstall avast without the password.

You sir, are a genius. I'm sure this would help a lot of people in on this thread.

[schabowy90]

for you guys saying that you notice girls making eye contact with you more...


i think its actually you subconsciously being more dominant/alpha in your mannerisms. you're more confident to keep eye contact longer and once they look at you they see it.


im on like day 3 and looked at some milf on the escalator today until she smiled.
usually i probably would have just not even made eye contact

[ImDepressed]

Fuarkkk, I wish I had that figured out at 16.


It's very interesting and motivating.

Fukkin wish i figured this out when i was 14. BRB wouldnt have porn ED @ 16. BRB could get a full erection

[xCody]

for you guys saying that you notice girls making eye contact with you more...


i think its actually you subconsciously being more dominant/alpha in your mannerisms. you're more confident to keep eye contact longer and once they look at you they see it.


im on like day 3 and looked at some milf on the escalator today until she smiled.
usually i probably would have just not even made eye contact

I've read something that when you fap a lot, you actually repel girls on a subconcious level. Sounds pretty weird and I'm not sure if it's true, but... it could be.

[YesWayNoWeigh]

Fukkin wish i figured this out when i was 14. BRB wouldnt have porn ED @ 16. BRB could get a full erection

imdepressed here to make me lol again.. on day 6 not to hard so far, i have been looking at old nudes girls have sent me tho lol but no PMO

[ImDepressed]

imdepressed here to make me lol again.. on day 6 not to hard so far, i have been looking at old nudes girls have sent me tho lol but no PMO

same day 6. no ejaculation but a bit of precum. dont give a fuk though not restarting

[DartBoard]

Day 21
My brain tried to trick me last night. I dreamt that I fapped and, Im not even joking, I was absolutely crushed. The entire time I felt like I betrayed myself.
Then I woke up and realized it was just a dream. I felt so relieved... even though I couldnt go back to sleep after that

hah this happened to me to the other night, holy crap was i devastated

[xCody]

Day 21
My brain tried to trick me last night. I dreamt that I fapped and, Im not even joking, I was absolutely crushed. The entire time I felt like I betrayed myself.
Then I woke up and realized it was just a dream. I felt so relieved... even though I couldnt go back to sleep after that

This actually happened to me too, but like two weeks ago.

[upt88]

day 20

-got strong urge to fap
-used to have anxiety about going to mall by myself, today i spend a good 2 hours at a mall killing time by myself, and not a care was given
-would probably rape a female if i was in their presense hanging out . srs
-energy thru the roof.

[YesWayNoWeigh]

results of no fapping =2:30- 2:50

[muscell]

day 6! woooo

porn/pics of girls don't seem to arouse me that much anymore. probably cuz i've seen too much of it and it got boring. there is some desire to fap when i see pics of girls on misc, but im taking control of myself. it feels good to not have that guilt/disgusting feeling of fapping. i

f i get really horny i'll just go to a strip club to release some tension instead of watch porn. at least id get to see the real thing.

[xCody]

Day 10 - Got my first boner in 10 days lulz. No desire to fap, but I have a burning desire to do something creative.

[infidel4life]

I have to say this thread is the only thing motivating me to go with the no fap thing. Everytime I get urges I just read all the success stories ITT. ILY brahs.

[trappi53]

day 6! woooo

porn/pics of girls don't seem to arouse me that much anymore. probably cuz i've seen too much of it and it got boring. there is some desire to fap when i see pics of girls on misc, but im taking control of myself. it feels good to not have that guilt/disgusting feeling of fapping. i

f i get really horny i'll just go to a strip club to release some tension instead of watch porn. at least id get to see the real thing.

DONT DO IT!!
PLEASE DON'T DO IT! The first 1-2 week is the hardest, you crave porn because you are used to getting that stimulation just to function in your everyday life. After that time you will no longer think about and it will be easy as ****. Just get through that hard time and you will thank me.

Many of us has edged, looked at porn at the beginning thinking it would help but it just makes thinks worst. Bro if u go there you will have the worst blue balls of your life and you will be in pain and agony for 2 days. Unless you give in in which case you will feel like **** and realize you have no self control at all and start again from day 1.
Think about it.

on my situation: around 1 month in. Feel fuking amazing. Not craving porn, do not want to fap but I crave the real thing a lot. I feel very confident in myself and I feel more alive then I every did in my entire life. Im texting with a girl right know, she seems really interested I really hope something turns out from it. I really want this to go the way I want, however I would absolutely not give a **** if it failed.

stay strong guys