You should not let anyone or anything hold you back. Forget your social insecurities, forget your physical flaws, forget every barrier between you and success.
Make no excuses, cast no blame, and don't dwell in negativity.
Have a positive outlook on life all the time, take hits and keep moving forward.
Become what everyone wants to make you believe that you cannot be.
Do not try to gain worthless material things.
Do not try to become an 'alpha', being alpha has nothing to do with wanting or trying to be alpha.
Even if you're socially awkward you always have a chance, even when you think you have no chance, you have a chance.
Believe in yourself. Get out there and get what's yours.