what do i do? If i call her out for cheating, she will know that im sterile and prob leave me. I love her so much. What would you guys do? RIsk losing the love of your life and possibly a new family for admitting that you have been lying for past 18 months??
FML!
edit - We have been "trying" to get pregnant for past 3 months. I have always known i was sterile from a childhood accident, I just didnt want to tell her cause i love her and i know she wanted kids.
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09-09-2011, 12:40 PM #1
GF is pregnant. Im sterile. She doesnt know
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09-09-2011, 12:42 PM #2
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09-09-2011, 12:44 PM #3
if you are a real man, you'd stay with her to support her through tough times. Imagine how hard it is to carry another human being with you everywhere and share food with it
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09-09-2011, 12:45 PM #4
Why didn't you tell her you were sterile? Dump her, probably not yours.
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09-09-2011, 12:46 PM #5
wtf so proof she has cheated on you but your worried about leaving her???????????
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09-09-2011, 12:46 PM #6
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09-09-2011, 12:47 PM #8
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honestly, this is just the first real test of your devotion to her. sure, she may have cheated, and the baby isn't yours. but everyone makes mistakes. love forgives all. if u love her u will stay and support your gf and her baby regardless of what she's done. gl i hope u make the right choice
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09-09-2011, 12:47 PM #9
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yup, that's a bummer for sure.
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09-09-2011, 12:48 PM #10
If true, that blows
She cheated on you..
She cheated on you without protection, thus expose you to diseases without knowing..
She cheated on you and got pregnant..
She wants you to raise the child of an other man..
You lied about being sterile..
You should not have done this, but if you hadn't, you wouldn't have known what you know now..
I don't see her as someone you would like to share a life with cause of the above though, where is the trust?
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09-09-2011, 12:51 PM #11
Are you actually sterile? Or were you told after your childhood accident that you would be sterile? If you haven't been in for a fertility test, it might be worth going to do that, just to make sure. Maybe your baby making plumbing regenerated itself, stranger things have happened.
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09-09-2011, 12:58 PM #12
OP is the biggest homo. Why the hell would you wanna stay with her.
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09-09-2011, 12:58 PM #13
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Be certain you are shooting blanks, and if you are, leave. Noone who "loves" you will sleep with other people. You lied and you are paying for it.
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09-09-2011, 12:59 PM #14
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09-09-2011, 01:06 PM #15
Stay with her OP.
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09-09-2011, 01:07 PM #16
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09-09-2011, 01:10 PM #17
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09-09-2011, 01:13 PM #18
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So, what if the baby is black. He's gonna be a mother fcuking all-star.
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09-09-2011, 01:15 PM #19
Here is the obvious TRUTH.
YOU AND HER WANTED A CHILD.
3 MONTHS OF TRYING - NOTHING.
SHE FIGURED OUT ON HER OWN THAT YOU'RE STERILE BUT DIDNT WANNA HURT YOUR FEELINGS.
CHEATED ON YOU TO HAVE A KID, BUT WANTS YOU TO BE APART OF THE FAMILY.
PROB THE MOST OBVIOUS REASON. NO BS.
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09-09-2011, 01:17 PM #20
Are you serious? Tell her you're sterile.
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09-09-2011, 01:20 PM #21
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id go to the doctor and make 100% sure you are shooting blanks. I'd never stay with a girl that cheated; period. People make mistakes, but that one is an Unforgivable mistake IMO.
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09-09-2011, 01:31 PM #22
my devotion for her isnt being tested bro. I dont want to leave her AT ALL. Im worried i will lose he if she finds out the kid isnt mine and i have been lying to her for 3 months about my ability to give her a family.
i am 100% sure that im sterile. I guess i could go get checked again, but it would literally take a miracle.
what? have u never been in love? why wouldnt i?
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09-09-2011, 01:33 PM #23
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09-09-2011, 01:34 PM #24
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09-09-2011, 01:38 PM #26
maybe double check to see if you actually are sterile or not op. if you are leave her.
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09-09-2011, 01:38 PM #27
are you srs man?
would you honestly leave the only girl you ever loved cause you lied to her and forced her to cheat?
id be so ****ed if the kid came out black. she will know i lied to her. I didnt even think of that. I doubt the kid is black though. Dont freak me out anymore than i already am bro.
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09-09-2011, 01:39 PM #28
is this real life? Dump that bitch. She cheated on you, she cheated on you without protection.
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09-09-2011, 01:40 PM #29
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Is this thread real ****ing life??
You're saying you wanna stay with a woman who had some other guy's dick in her mouth, had him bust his load in her pussy (and probably mouth too) various times, come home, kiss you on the lips, and lie to you about it all? This has to be a troll thread. If not.. fúck Im disgusted.
edit: jesus ****ing christ I kinda believe this cause I was the "other guy" who got the bitch pregnant just recently, and did exactly what I said above lol (dead srs). And the idiot wanted to stay with her knowing this.
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09-09-2011, 01:40 PM #30
Troll is successful. No srs tag......
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