How did you all get over a strong oneitis for a woman?

[BornagaininUES]

It's like.....I am smashing a new girl every other week and it seems like they are even hotter physically than the woman I have a oneitis for (but know that due to circumstances cannot be with). Something about this woman hits me though and it hits me hard, it's like she brings up such powerful emotions from me and I fear not seeing her sometimes.

For any of you who had these kinds of strong feelings for a woman, even if you never dated her or got intimate with her, how did you lose them towards that one girl in your life?

[cannon300]

Probably not the answer you want to hear but; time. You will eventually realise you don’t need her at all. You’re hooking up with other girls which is good, it’s all about that abundance mindset. Also I’m not sure on your circumstances but delete her number/social media, out of sight out of mind

[GayCumLord]

by not being a retard

[Jasonw1178]

At some point you realize she's not the one for you, she's already determined you aren't the one for her, and you move on.

[AlexxVann]

Sounds gay but you'll start getting over here pretty quickly when you start trying to establish emotional connections with new women instead of physical.

That being said it's fun just pumping and dumping for a while to get it out of your system.

[skinnyfat88]

Time.
Don't creep her social media or stay in contact with her.

If you have no problem hooking up with attractive women and can attain that validation accordingly it might actually help to not prioritize that scene and invest in hobbies/family/friends/career/etc in the near future to build longterm happiness outside of dating.

[CirezD]

No contact at all + no social media + time + other girls + new hobbies + gym + getting shredded + being a sikkunt + building abundance mindset + making money + obsess over goals and purpose + protein shakes

[xbluexhawkx]

when you find another women you actually like

I went thru the same chit last month, then found another girl I liked and now idc for the other sloot

edit: I didn't have "strong" feelings but just find yourself another women that you like

[irmocool]

The only time a oneitis makes sense is if you have been dating a girl for several years and it ends. That's purely due to the emotional connection based on the memories you've shared; it's literally like a drug. Even then you just move on. Otherwise, I don't get having oneitis over a random sloot or a chick you've dated for a short while. Hard to imagine you are banging hotties if you are getting caught up with one chick that you don't have an extensive history with. The way you get over any chick is by being selfish and investing in yourself; workout, read, start hobbies, hang with your bros oh yeah and stop being a pha ggot.

[Zorminator]

if you went to her and tried to tell her how you feel she would probably struggle to keep herself from laughing before you even finished and subconsciously she would be saying "what a beta", so forget about her as others have said already, if she wanted you in the same way she would break up with Chad and be with you in a heartbeat

[MattyMiscer]

[Kev1972]

She was not the best, mane.

[HotlineBling]

Ain’t no way you smashing a girl every weekend and still have oneits. Unless they were all 4s with no personality.