It's like.....I am smashing a new girl every other week and it seems like they are even hotter physically than the woman I have a oneitis for (but know that due to circumstances cannot be with). Something about this woman hits me though and it hits me hard, it's like she brings up such powerful emotions from me and I fear not seeing her sometimes.
For any of you who had these kinds of strong feelings for a woman, even if you never dated her or got intimate with her, how did you lose them towards that one girl in your life?
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07-28-2021, 08:36 PM #1
How did you all get over a strong oneitis for a woman?
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08-02-2021, 02:26 PM #2
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08-02-2021, 02:59 PM #3
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08-02-2021, 05:13 PM #4
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08-02-2021, 08:15 PM #5
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08-03-2021, 10:11 AM #6
Time.
Don't creep her social media or stay in contact with her.
If you have no problem hooking up with attractive women and can attain that validation accordingly it might actually help to not prioritize that scene and invest in hobbies/family/friends/career/etc in the near future to build longterm happiness outside of dating.
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08-03-2021, 05:29 PM #7
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08-04-2021, 01:55 PM #8
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08-30-2021, 09:13 PM #9
The only time a oneitis makes sense is if you have been dating a girl for several years and it ends. That's purely due to the emotional connection based on the memories you've shared; it's literally like a drug. Even then you just move on. Otherwise, I don't get having oneitis over a random sloot or a chick you've dated for a short while. Hard to imagine you are banging hotties if you are getting caught up with one chick that you don't have an extensive history with. The way you get over any chick is by being selfish and investing in yourself; workout, read, start hobbies, hang with your bros oh yeah and stop being a pha ggot.
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09-01-2021, 03:24 AM #10
if you went to her and tried to tell her how you feel she would probably struggle to keep herself from laughing before you even finished and subconsciously she would be saying "what a beta", so forget about her as others have said already, if she wanted you in the same way she would break up with Chad and be with you in a heartbeat
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09-13-2021, 06:23 PM #11
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09-15-2021, 06:56 AM #12
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09-16-2021, 11:01 AM #13
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