Last night i came home from a trip, where i went 10 hours away to do training
while i was there i messed up and made out/got a bj from a bar slut
After i was done I got up and cried the whole way home
I still love my gf but i think everythings ruined
As soon as I got off the plane I told her (it sounds easy to keep it a secret but if you love someone its impossible)
She cried and stuff, we talked all night and she says mistakes happen and she forgives me
Today we just are not the same, she left the house and then came back crying and now she left again.
Can things imporove with time or are we done? I feel terrible and keep thinking that we are doomed.
I wanted to marry this chick but then again im 20 what did i know
Is it time to cut it off? Her whole family and friends would hate me and not talk to me if they knew.
We both put so much into this relationship and she even moved in with me, and i chose to fk it all up in 1 night
goodnight sweet relationship?
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08-22-2011, 12:30 PM #1
Confessed to my gf of 1.5 years that i cheated and didnt mean it and love her
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08-22-2011, 12:31 PM #2
OP is a *******
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08-22-2011, 12:32 PM #3Registered User
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OP is a *******
EDIT: shes probably cheating on you or has cheated on you before (srs)أشهد أن لا إله إلاَّ الله و أشهد أن محمد رسول الله
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08-22-2011, 12:32 PM #4Loading....
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inb4 beta *******
srs, yall are prob done“Stay hungry, stay healthy, be a gentleman, believe strongly in yourself and go beyond limitations.”
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08-22-2011, 12:32 PM #5Registered User
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08-22-2011, 12:32 PM #6brb getting jacked
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op is fukd, just give it 2 months.. if no change then yes you are doomed
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08-22-2011, 12:32 PM #7Ricebrah
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Things will never be the same.........she will bring it up later down the road for every single phukking situation. GL with that.
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08-22-2011, 12:33 PM #8Registered User
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You can't push yourself forward by patting yourself on the back.
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08-22-2011, 12:33 PM #9Thread Grader
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shoudlnt have told her
you should read this
https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=179438063
negs for using "of" where it should be "have"
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08-22-2011, 12:33 PM #10Registered User
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Should have kept it a secret, you only told her so you wouldn't feel guilty, you beta *******, it's ruined.
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08-22-2011, 12:33 PM #11Sup?
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Not sure if srs but regardless,
OP is a *******.
Don't you realize she has probably done the same thing 10x more than you could ever imagine? Phucking MORAN
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08-22-2011, 12:33 PM #12Registered User
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Major error. "Confessions may be good for the soul, but they're a hot lead enema to a relationship."
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08-22-2011, 12:34 PM #13Banned
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same thing happened to me.. turns out we didnt stay together but not because of that.. because we just didnt work out anymore
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08-22-2011, 12:34 PM #14Registered User
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You did the right thing by telling her OP, but you also messed up by getting that BJ. I don't think this will get fixed to be honest
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08-22-2011, 12:34 PM #15Registered User
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one blowjob.. from a stranger you'll never see again...
i'd rather endure the pain of keeping the secret in than hurting my gf/ruining relationship over a stupid thing that meant nothing, and will never become anything.. not only did u ruin ur trust (since shes still crying today and disappearing) but hopefully she doesnt go telling everybody, or her family.. long road to recovery it sounds like.. weigh your pro's and con's.. probably be in the doghouse for a while and have to prove you're able to be trusted again.. is it worth it?
i had an ex cheat on me, we got over it cause i cared a lot for her and we were always around each other so i didnt have much time away from her to "wonder" about anything, but she ended up cheating again.. so in my view, once a cheater always a cheater. hope your girl doesnt think the same way.
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08-22-2011, 12:34 PM #16Registered User
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your first mistake was cheating
your second mistake was telling her
your third mistake will be not ending it nowReps when Green: BlakShirts,
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08-22-2011, 12:34 PM #17keepin it right and tight
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Why'd you do it? Things will never be the same.
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08-22-2011, 12:35 PM #18High Calorie Human
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She will definitely cheat on you now... This is the perfect excuse.
take care misc, it's been fun
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08-22-2011, 12:36 PM #19DINK (not the penor kind)
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Tell her the other girl was a lot more attractive than she is, it'll help her get over it faster.
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08-22-2011, 12:36 PM #20Banned
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You should have kept it inside for life, all you have done is transfered that horrible feeling inside you...to her. *******.
Its over too. If you stay, she will hold it over you for the next 25+ years.
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08-22-2011, 12:36 PM #21Remember the Alamo!
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OP is a ******* and dumb as ****
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08-22-2011, 12:37 PM #22Up the punx!
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This.Originally Posted by gtrce
You'll never win an argument again and it will come up every time you least want it to. Plus you pretty much forfeit any legitimate right to get pissed if she ever cheats.
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08-22-2011, 12:37 PM #23Potato mode
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I have only one question op
You cheated and then ruined your own relationship by confessing,you are a dumbass.keep rep trading out of your sig line
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08-22-2011, 12:38 PM #24Registered User
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ur 20.
Anything is possible but you're probably trying to hold on too hard to something that shouldn't be fixed.
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08-22-2011, 12:38 PM #25keepin it right and tight
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Ya'll acting like she's the bitch. He's the bitch for ruining a good thing.
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08-22-2011, 12:38 PM #26Sorry OP but this^^^^^^Originally Posted by gtrce
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08-22-2011, 12:38 PM #27
i planned on not telling her, unless your in my position you dont know how hard it is
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08-22-2011, 12:38 PM #28
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08-22-2011, 12:39 PM #29that trunk
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dear diary...
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08-22-2011, 12:40 PM #30Registered User
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Women forgive but they never forget....
Men forget but never forgive...
You're phucked.
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