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    How do you grind on a girl?

    Alright, so, bit of a backstory. I was in a relationship with a fairly reserved girl for about three and a half years. I myself was a fairly reserved guy, we never really went out dancing or anything like that. Six months ago, that ended. I just turned 23 and I've recently started trying to get into the clubbing scene, something that's probably long overdue.

    Point is, I'm a very inexperienced guy and I'm setting out to fix that. So:

    1. When at a club, how do you approach a girl you find attractive?
    2. What are the general motions and movements of a grind?
    3. Does the guy always lead?
    4. Hand placement? Head placement?
    5. What do you do in the situation of a hard-on?
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    Are you fukking serious?

    1. You go up to them and spit some game.

    2. You fukking grind you cawk on their ass phaggot.

    3. Lead? It ain't a fukking waltz, Nancy.

    4. Hips. Stomach. Thighs.

    5. You whip it out and tell her to suck it.
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    My girlfriend taught me how to dance, so I dont have problems.

    Heres what not to do: Do not go up behind them and grind on them from behind without letting them see your face. I am not club expert, but I did that a couple nights ago and it got me rejected pretty fast. They want to know who is trying to phuck them.

    I go up and dance right next to them, and if they dont turn around or walk away I will grind on them. The worst thing that has happened to me in the club is being pushed, so dont be afraid. I was grinding on the girl, and then I went for her tits right away, and she turned around and pushed me. I guess she got creeped out. Then later in the night a mexican dude was just dancing by her and she turned around and just pushed him in the chest. So she was probably just being bitchy, I atleast got to grind on her before she pushed me.


    I allways start with my hands at her hip level, if I go for the ass or tits to fast I get rejected so the hips is a good starting point. There is not really much leading, its just kind of getting a rhytm going, kind of like having sex. One person doesn't really lead, you just get a rhythm going, and go with it. Pretty much you're dancing, and then you're dry phucking. The hardon thing, if you are dancing maybe its a problem, but if I was grinding I rub that right up againest her. No shame. Just do it man. I'd go clubbing with you if you were in my area, have fun bro.
    Originally posted by beaucephus:

    honestly guys really need to start treating women like pets. not dogs though because they are loyal. like a pet gerbil that will eat food from anyone that offers it and doesnt care where it sleeps at night but is still fun to play with here and there and requires minimal attention
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    Originally Posted by FunkDaddy View Post
    Are you fukking serious?

    1. You go up to them and spit some game.

    2. You fukking grind you cawk on their ass phaggot.

    3. Lead? It ain't a fukking waltz, Nancy.

    4. Hips. Stomach. Thighs.

    5. You whip it out and tell her to suck it.
    ^ LOL.*

    If u want a srs answer although this guy hit the nail on the head.. doubt your satisfied

    1. You could say hey or whatever or just hop on it if you see other guys did without talking i guess, girls expect to get raped at clubs.
    2. Hips side to side almost little circles sort of... you can't mess it up, it just works move with her, if you got an exp girl back on wall, she does everything else, bending ect.
    3. K honestly see above answer its pretty much do what you want to her. No leading involved go with the flow. So i guess to answer it no.
    4. Above answer.. OR if your a bawss and shes wearing a skirt, hands on thighs and slowly move them up her skirt, if she doesn't stop you, prepare to smash.
    5. You really shouldn't get more than a semi unless shes smoking hot and is pressing up on it hard. Either hop off or enjoy it, its her prob, not like shes gonna mention it or anything.*
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    Yeah, I never try talking to girls on the dance floor. I just go up and do it, why do you want to talk to them? Just dance until I find a girl thats dancing without someone, and dance with her. Its that simple.
    Originally posted by beaucephus:

    honestly guys really need to start treating women like pets. not dogs though because they are loyal. like a pet gerbil that will eat food from anyone that offers it and doesnt care where it sleeps at night but is still fun to play with here and there and requires minimal attention
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    I never approach girls on the dance floor or initiate dancing with them.

    Go out and do your own thing and don't give a ****. Have fun. Try to be as gay as possible. I wear short shorts and some crazy ****.

    Girls will come to you if they want to dance.
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    Then as she's grinding on you for a little..take her and spin her and dance with her like that. More grabbing/touching and make-out with that bish. Sht's easy sonn
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    Grinding at clubs....pretty lame IMO. If you want a slutty type of girl, go for it. The ones that have some class will not. You can still dance with a girl without grinding. And how do you approach them? Just go up and introduce yourself, simple.*
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    Wouldn't the music be too loud to go "HI MY NAME IS NELSON I'M A SOFTWARE ENGINEER HOW ARE YOU DOING?" I thought it's all about the action.
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