So, I'm afraid I'm about to sound shallow.
Almost every guy I've ever dated has always been super athletic and just as into fitness as I am. My Boyfriend now isn't, and yeah it shows. It is a bit pf a problem in our relationship. He wasn't into it when we got together, but he was always willing to listen to my advice and was working out with me. (his eating has always been awful, but is finally starting to get ready) Now I feel like I have to nag him everyday to work out.
Some of the major problems it's causing is:
He is insecure about the way he looks compared to how I look. Always saying he doesn't deserve me, people don't understand why I'm with him, etc etc etc and he gets jealous
I worry about his health. He has a family history of diabetes, and he has high blood pressure even though he is 8 years younger than me.
and (as much as I hate to say it) I do worry about what colleagues think, since I work in fitness, and my bf is not what you would call fit.
Anyone else have this issue with a significant other?