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    Do girls like shy guys?

    What do girls think about shy betas? Is there any chance srs.......

    poll up in this bish
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    No.

    They like mysterious guys.
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    Some will and some won't. It needs to be shy with confidence if that makes sense

    A lot are worthless boring creatures though that constantly need to be entertained
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    If he is good looking: yes
    If he is not good looking: no
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    there's a difference between shy and beta. shy i can do, beta fuk no.
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    girls like entertainment... if you dont do nothing, then theres no entertainment. You gotta buck up and entertain brah
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    some do. the majority of women (and men) like confidence, so being shy gives off a sense of insecurity. however, some find it 'cute' so i guess that's something.
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    girls arent attracted to shy,..
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    There are so many variables to this question.

    Maturity level plays a big role.

    Younger girls will sometimes initally have intrest in a "shy" guy just for the sake of curiosity. Generally speaking though this backfires because they're looking for something deep or mysterious there that probably isn't. Another reason, younger girls are insecure. They dont understand why your holding back so they're more willing to put themselves out there just to see what the deal is.

    Once women mature they dont have the same kind of hang ups and insecurities. At that point they're not as willing to chase a guy. They exspect to be sought after by a man.

    Shy or not if you're intrested in a quality woman you're going to have to put yourself out there because she's not likely to chase you. She might show intrest but your going to have to take the lead at some point because she's not going to wait around for you to work it out.

    Others might have a diffrent perspective but that's my two cents on it...
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    if youre shy for a guy OR a girl, it places a heavier importance on looks. If you had read any of that lame stuff PUA's do, its obvious that saying alot of crap to girls is alot better than say little to nothing.
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    Originally Posted by Radio_Silence View Post
    There are so many variables to this question.

    Maturity level plays a big role.

    Younger girls will sometimes initally have intrest in a "shy" guy just for the sake of curiosity. Generally speaking though this backfires because they're looking for something deep or mysterious there that probably isn't. Another reason, younger girls are insecure. They dont understand why your holding back so they're more willing to put themselves out there just to see what the deal is.

    Once women mature they dont have the same kind of hang ups and insecurities. At that point they're not as willing to chase a guy. They exspect to be sought after by a man.

    Shy or not if you're intrested in a quality woman you're going to have to put yourself out there because she's not likely to chase you. She might show intrest but your going to have to take the lead at some point because she's not going to wait around for you to work it out.

    Others might have a diffrent perspective but that's my two cents on it...
    totally true...i have been shy all my life...

    had most of my success with girls in middle school/ early high school...lol
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    Originally Posted by endofdays89 View Post
    What do girls think about shy betas? Is there any chance srs.......



    bahahaha

    A guy who's had his face ripped off by an ape has a better chance of attracting wimminz than someone who is shy..
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    LOL^^ that gif always cracks me up!

    Shyness is a load of BS. You're not ''shy'' around your family are you? You act like yourself, but when you're out and about with new people all of a sudden your shyness creeps out.. its basically insecurity of being rejected. Say whats on your mind and SPEAK UP and put yourself there and use a notasinglefckwasgiven attitude.
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    We as a species are programed to ignore the shy ones. You literally become invisible. So do you have a "chance." Well no.....not if she doesn't know you exist.
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    Originally Posted by ditsy911 View Post
    If he is good looking: yes
    If he is not good looking: no
    this.
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    Originally Posted by sincity88 View Post
    there's a difference between shy and beta. shy i can do, beta fuk no.
    Generally shy =/= beta
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    girls are attracted to qualities in guys for a myriad of reasons, more than ill ever give a fukk about. e.g if their father is a "shy" person, they may be inclined towards that type of guy.

    just be the best possible person u can be - and stop worrying about it.
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    If he has money/status...girls will like him. He will be referred to as a good listener, respectful, respectable, strong/silent type, etc.

    If he does NOT have money/status...girls will not like him. He will be referred to as weird/creep/strange.
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    Originally Posted by ditsy911 View Post
    If he is good looking: yes
    If he is not good looking: no
    This and that is to an extent. It's upon first appearances. If the guy doesn't talk to her and she finds him cute, handsome, sexy, attractive and he doesn't say much to her, then she'll be interested. However, if he is continuously shy after getting to know one another, it will be a turn off and she'll just pay less attention and not care as much.

    Here's an example. Several months back I met a girl, friend wanted to get with her, never did anything before and somewhat attempted (in his mind) but not really. I didn't say much to her, thought she was pretty, did my own thing. I'll cut through the specifics and just say we ended up talking, I was a bit shy at first and we did start talking, I was less shy, not shy at all rather...and she told me that the first time she saw me, she thought "daaamn, who's this guy, he's cute." She also went on to mention she likes manly men, men with confidence.

    Basically, initial attraction is based mainly on looks and then on how you are around them. Afterwards, it's all about how you are around/towards them. If you act like a beta, good luck. Women want a man. A man is viewed as someone tough, we all know this. They don't want a sissy prissy..if they did, they'd be looking into women. So step up and be confident, or you'll lose the interest of the girl.
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    Nope.
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    Originally Posted by Radio_Silence View Post
    There are so many variables to this question.

    Maturity level plays a big role.

    Younger girls will sometimes initally have intrest in a "shy" guy just for the sake of curiosity. Generally speaking though this backfires because they're looking for something deep or mysterious there that probably isn't. Another reason, younger girls are insecure. They dont understand why your holding back so they're more willing to put themselves out there just to see what the deal is.

    Once women mature they dont have the same kind of hang ups and insecurities. At that point they're not as willing to chase a guy. They exspect to be sought after by a man.

    Shy or not if you're intrested in a quality woman you're going to have to put yourself out there because she's not likely to chase you. She might show intrest but your going to have to take the lead at some point because she's not going to wait around for you to work it out.

    Others might have a diffrent perspective but that's my two cents on it...
    Most women in general are insecure! Doesn't matter the age! I think the shy thing goes both ways though. I don't want a hard azz girl. I want someone feminine with an edge. Best way to describe it. Women want the confident "man".. Somewhere in between, the insecurities click on and even if they find that, they back off even if they like the guy with a bs excuse lol
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    it's probably gonna kill the relationship quickly
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    I would like to think some do but to be honest, it hasn't ever been that way. I'll put myself as an example.
    I was once a very shy guy in high school and only managed to have one GF then (way before my recent ex I just broke up) but she end up dumped me 2-3 before the prom.

    Meanwhile, my outgoing pals had a bunch of GF's and definitely way more experience.

    I don't think my shyness completely dissapeared. At times I can revert back to the shy guy. I'm currently working on myself and trying to change that as it's part of the main cause I haven't been very successful with women.
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