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    Can't finish during sex

    I've been with my girlfriend for 5 months now, and we just recently started having sex (she was a virgin, I was not.) The problem I'm encountering is I'm not able to finish. When we fooled around before for a couple months only doing oral I never finished once.

    Now that we are having full out sex, I can still go for literally over an hour or longer without finishing. I don't even hold it back. I just never get that stimulated. I do love her, and am physically attracted to her. I make her have multiple orgasms, and she enjoys that, but she wants to be able to get me to finish. And it's frustrating her.

    I suppose it's better than finishing early, but the main reason this upsets me is because my girlfriend is thinking that I'm not turned on enough by her.

    Anyone have anys thought or advice on this problem?

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    I had this problem with my ex girlfriend, i went out with her for over a year and i used to go until i couldnt go no more and i still didnt finish. Not once did i cum inside her, it saddens me thinking about it to be honest....
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    I have had similar problems but not exactly the same.
    watch lees or no porn bro
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    stop watching porn completely
    minimize jacking off(or stop completely)

    I can't finish from a bj

    how attracted are you to her?
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    Ive read that people with high levels of L-Histidine in their system are more prone to Premature Ejaculation. Needless to say, I had the same problem as you so I purchased some L-Histidine. It worked for me and I finally busted with my GF one night but it could have just been a placebo effect. I kept taking them for about a month and I had no problem cumming. I believe that getting over that slump of not busting is what made me break the curse. Now I cum every time even with BJs but I don't supplement the L-Histidine anymore.
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    Originally Posted by LikeAMachine View Post
    Been there, done this.

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    I don't watch much porn at all TBH. 1-2 a week. I do fap every other day though... who doesnt in the shower haha

    Originally Posted by nevster123 View Post
    I had this problem with my ex girlfriend, i went out with her for over a year and i used to go until i couldnt go no more and i still didnt finish. Not once did i cum inside her, it saddens me thinking about it to be honest....
    Yeah, it isnt making me upset, but she is getting frustrated because she tries so hard

    Originally Posted by probeefcake View Post
    I have had similar problems but not exactly the same.
    watch lees or no porn bro
    See above

    Originally Posted by Smykowski View Post
    stop watching porn completely
    minimize jacking off(or stop completely)

    I can't finish from a bj

    how attracted are you to her?
    I barely watch porn, but could probably cut down on fapping. I'll do my best. And I am attracted to her. I'll be honest, I gave her 7-7.5/10 before I started going out with her.
    But I do care about her a lot, and am very attracted to her.

    Originally Posted by R3vel4tion View Post
    Ive read that people with high levels of L-Histidine in their system are more prone to Premature Ejaculation. Needless to say, I had the same problem as you so I purchased some L-Histidine. It worked for me and I finally busted with my GF one night but it could have just been a placebo effect. I kept taking them for about a month and I had no problem cumming. I believe that getting over that slump of not busting is what made me break the curse. Now I cum every time even with BJs but I don't supplement the L-Histidine anymore.
    Interesting. I'll look it up but I'll have to check prices. Don't really want to be spending tons of money on something that will just help me cum.



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    Have you EVER? You mention that you're not a virgin... So is this a new problem, with her? Or a general one?

    You hear about anorgasmia in women, but it happens to men, too... Could be a subconscious thing, or something you need therapy for.
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    It happens, you have to just get past the first time and you'll be able to do it more regularly. Doggy with no rubber did the trick for me when I had this problem in the past.
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    I was in the exact same position as you, mine was a virgin too once we started sex I stopped porn and fapping, Slowly it worked I wouldn't recommend the medication I think it's got more to do with you fapping every morning stop that you should be sweet brah
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    Originally Posted by usethejitz View Post
    I make her have multiple orgasms, and she enjoys that, but she wants to be able to get me to finish.
    Hand her over, son! You're not man enough to finish like a REAL man should! I'll do the dirty work, finish inside her.

































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    Originally Posted by BlkDrgn06 View Post
    Hand her over, son! You're not man enough to finish like a REAL man should! I'll do the dirty work, finish inside her.


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    Originally Posted by MatTheCur View Post
    Have you EVER? You mention that you're not a virgin... So is this a new problem, with her? Or a general one?

    You hear about anorgasmia in women, but it happens to men, too... Could be a subconscious thing, or something you need therapy for.
    Previous experiences I still lasted a while but I did eventually finish. Maybe I just built up resilience?
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    Originally Posted by usethejitz View Post
    LOL. Ummm, ok. You're gonna have to explain that one to me, OP!
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