I usually just go for coffee and sometimes hookah on the first date. It depends on the chicks level of income, if she is middle/lower class then most of the time they want to help out and feel bad. The richer/hotter chicks dont really care since they dont think 25-35 bucks isnt much to bother.
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06-28-2011, 03:13 PM #68
I've always split the tab, I wasn't aware that guys paying for the date was still a thing.
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06-28-2011, 03:24 PM #69
I dart in from time to time and don't add much, but I feel a huge generational gap when stuff like this comes up.
Of course I would pay for a date whether I got along with her on that date or not, whether I wanted to hang out with her again or not, and I especially don't want her to put out until much later, when we know each other. Human relationships are shallow and empty without time getting to know each other - especially sex without emotional connection.
If she doesn't seem amenable to some contact after a first date, just cut your losses and move on. Who cares if you lose $30? These threads kind of make everyone sound like a money grubber, when you are supposedly dating to have a good time with the other person, right? Nothing wrong with paying for a date and never calling or talking to her again heh heh.
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06-28-2011, 03:32 PM #71
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06-28-2011, 03:43 PM #77
I would never buy a woman dinner on a date unless i was with her. Fair enough treating your gf/wife to dinner though and it should also work vice/versa.
If your on a first date and do anything with money and she expects you to pay she can gtfo unless your just looking to bump uglies.
They want fair treatment, fair enough, but it works both ways. Fair would be splitting the price of something you were both involved in.
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06-28-2011, 03:46 PM #81
So? Who fuking cares? Every time myself and other miscers advocate splitting everything a few white knight *******s (usually older) come in with how it makes them feel like a man to pay for everything and how it is just being cheap to split everything etc. Well they deserve women like this.
I can understand how later on in an actual relationship you may want to spend more less on each other etc, but there are *******s out there wining and dining women on their first dates because it makes them feel alpha. Really they are just chumps being taken advantage of.You deserve what you settle for.
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06-28-2011, 03:58 PM #89
1.Find the guys she's going out with on ********.
2. Let them know whats up, and tell them to go on the date, encourage her to get as much **** as possible (would you like some 1643 champagne, Yoko?), and get whatever they want for themselves (lobster, steak).
3. Right after asking for the check, excuse themselves to the bathroom and ditch her.
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06-28-2011, 04:01 PM #90
To me if you don't pay for a broad its telling her that you don't really care and sometimes thats what women are attracted to especially in the years of high school and college. I mean if your so cheap that you can't pay for food for one night of being with a broad to show her your "alpha" when in reality your a broke **** who has nothing going on in his life then power to you. On the flipside, if you've got an extremely aesthetic physique and thats what she's after than she won't give a **** about who pays for dinner they just wanna have fun. When you grow older and you realize that money makes the world go around, in order to attract a serious women for a serious relationship you will need to show her your serious by paying which is understandable. It has nothing to do with courting really, its just an excuse to mask the fact that your broke by not paying and thats what smart women see. Reality is masked during college when that mask comes off women realize they want someone who is secure and successful. If not paying for a first date can show that to a woman, let alone anyone then my argument is invalid.
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