Go!
|
Thread: Ask an Advanced PUA anything
-
06-27-2011, 08:55 PM #1
-
06-27-2011, 08:56 PM #2
-
06-27-2011, 08:59 PM #3
-
06-27-2011, 09:08 PM #4
-
-
06-27-2011, 09:11 PM #5
-
06-27-2011, 09:13 PM #6
-
06-27-2011, 09:13 PM #7
-
06-27-2011, 09:25 PM #8
Mystery Method is hard to learn, i'm not going to lie. But this is the best method out there. Pretty much every coach in this industry is doing something related to the mystery method.
You have to read the book like 3 times before you start to really understand.
Newbs have alot of problems with the "negs". They go out and insults the girls. This is not the way it works, at all.
A neg is actually a disqualifier. Not the same thing.
Usually, the newbs have more results by doing Whatever the fu** they want. Havinh in head the model " Attraction, qualification,comfort, seduction" in head. Then they can observe what was the problem with their set. Not enough attraction? not anough comfort ? ect.
Oh, and yes, Been Laid alot with Mystery Method. But these days I pretty much only do Semi-Direct Game.
-
-
06-27-2011, 09:30 PM #9
-
06-27-2011, 09:32 PM #10
-
06-27-2011, 09:35 PM #11
-
06-27-2011, 09:35 PM #12
-
-
06-27-2011, 09:36 PM #13
-
06-27-2011, 09:37 PM #14
-
06-27-2011, 09:43 PM #15
It doesn't matter.
I've seen PUA that looks like model, and i've seen PUA that are really ugly.
What is the same between the two, is that both know the theory behind courtship and they know how to flip the attraction switches in women, ect.
Anybody that tells you that the PUA that is ugly will have more succes than another PUA that looks like a model is sadly wrong.
Looks matters. It's a fact.
But the fact is that an ugly guys with amazing Game will take the girls of your random douche bag with a V-neck that looks good at the best club in yout city.
The same as an amateur boxer that's been boxing for two years. He'll beat preatty much everybody in the club.
Now take TWO PRO BOXERS. This is the weight that's going to make the difference. ( good look analogy).
-
06-27-2011, 09:43 PM #16
-
-
06-27-2011, 09:43 PM #17
-
06-27-2011, 09:48 PM #18
The Way I deal with Amog is pretty simple!
I just ignore the guy and continue to talk to the girl. If the girl doesn't give attention to the other guy, it means that he's not really high-value to her eyes. Then why would I talk to this guy? By doing so, I would loose my value.
So if the girl give no attention to the guy, I just continue to talk to the girl as normal.
If the guys try really hard. I look at the guy and say " cool bro" , and then continu to talk to the girl.
This way I show the girl that i'm high value. And the guy looks try-hard ans loose all his value.
Now, If the girl gives attention to the guy, it means i'll have to calibrate and give some attention to the guy. But I try to just ignore him.
There is no point of trying to verbally destroy him.
Doing it the other way is more powerful.
-
06-27-2011, 09:49 PM #19
-
06-27-2011, 09:52 PM #20
-
-
06-27-2011, 09:54 PM #21
-
06-27-2011, 09:56 PM #22
-
06-27-2011, 09:57 PM #23
You Overcome AA by doing Exposition.
You have to open sets!
Start with small steps : Ask for the time, directions ect.
Then Take bigger stepd : " hey I love your shirt" , Then you continue to walk.
Then you'll be able to open with whatever you want. It takes time and practice. There is no shortcut with people with AA.
There are some NLP exercices that are good to pout you in state though.
My Story:
Always been interested in social psychology. Read the mystery method, then the game. Then pretty much every product on the market.
Been Going out for years! Been going out with fews big name in the industry. Coached lots of students. Currently writting a book!
-
06-27-2011, 10:01 PM #24
-
-
06-27-2011, 10:01 PM #25
Hard to say!
But you have to keep in mind that I slept with the same girl lots of time. I don't count it in the number!
When people start in the game, they are like : " **** man, I want to **** a new girl everyday".
When you get good at this, You become more like " Wow, I actually want to build a profound relationship with people I meet".
At first I had to approach alot to have a ****-close!
Now everytime I go out, I have at least one girl that I can **** if the logistic is there.
Hope it helps,
-
06-27-2011, 10:07 PM #26
What is pretty big?
If asking for the time to a women is to scary to you, Try to ask the time to a guy that is with a women. don't talk with the girl. Just talk to the guy. When he gives you the times, say thx and walk away.
The bottom line is that you'll have to take a step. I don't care if it's a really small step. but you have to take a step!
Biggest factor of succes in Pick-up is the same as in any other areas of life;
Learn how to do it,
Consistency,
Learn from your mistakes,
Repeat.
-
06-27-2011, 10:10 PM #27
-
06-27-2011, 10:13 PM #28
post a pic of your girlfriend, it will makes me save some time
But seriouslly though,
I'm trying to help people here.
If you don't believe me and what i teach, What are you still in this thread?
If it can makes you feel better;
NO, PUA don't **** 9 and 10 all the times. 9 and 10 get ****ed by guys with amazing social value usually. Really hard to build by going in a club only one time.
If you go always at the same place , It can be done though.
But yeah, Don't believe all the " Use this pick-up line and bang a 10". It's all marketing bro.
-
-
06-27-2011, 10:14 PM #29
-
06-27-2011, 10:16 PM #30
Similar Threads
-
Ask a retired PUA anything
By Mad Dog162 in forum Misc.Replies: 128Last Post: 12-29-2009, 07:50 PM -
Ask a gay guy ANYTHING!!!!!!!
By N_nam in forum Misc.Replies: 275Last Post: 11-18-2006, 10:18 PM -
Ask the Myth Destroyer anything!
By Myth Destroyer in forum Teen BodybuildingReplies: 114Last Post: 11-19-2004, 08:12 PM
Bookmarks