tell the saddest truth about yourself.

[afrobrah]

I'm still afraid of approaching women. I don't know exactly why I'm afraid, but I still am. I still find myself getting more nervous than I should be around attractive girls. I've only ever gotten one girl's number (a few just managed to get mine...but still no success). I've never been on a date. I've only kissed one girl once and that's it.

You're 17. Relax

I've had gf's, i have no problem going up to girls in clubs and asking for numbers, I can dance good, I have a good car, im with a gorgeous 19 yr old asian gf right nw, everything would seem all good but i have ****ing sweaty hands pretty much any time its not cold.
Alone, with people, in bed, whatever it makes no difference.
It sucks so much balls. When u meet someone new and they shake your hand and your just like phuck
I honestly have no fear of meeting people but i just can't stop my damn hands from sweating unless its cold.
I hate it so much

[northnorth35]

Damn same here bro. You think it is something like narcissitic personality disorder? I think I may have that but same fuking thing for me. It's part of what keeps me from going out with groups of people.

oh damn i have this real bad

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/PMH0001930/

[endofdays89]

I have HORRIBLE anxiety problems.. I'd say i'm probably anxious/nervous 95% of the day (pretty much non stop mental suffering). The only time I feel comfort is if I'm playing video games or lifting.

I'm socially awkward and whenever a girl tries to approach me I give her the cold shoulder because I'm aftraid to get intimate or on a personal level with another person. I also lack confidence and I find it hard to even look people in the eye sometimes.

I know that feel. I just don't know how people get close to one another. It's one of the great mysteries that ravels my mind. To me being intimate is awkward.

[pazzy]

the saddest truth about myself is none of your damn business.

[HughMyron]

Jelly as hell of all you guys who turn down invitations to hang with friends. I would kill to be invited places.

[pandaemon666]

I'm 19, not bad looking, decently built, confident, outgoing and with a good personality but have only ever made out with one girl who was trying to make her ex jealous.

[Train_Harder]

I was just reminded by an empathetic poster of this thread. A lot of good posters with good hearts here. Stay strong and never forget the good times that you had with those you've lost, or the valuable lessons and wisdom you've learned from them.

Dad would have been 58 tomorrow, his time passed way too soon, but I'll cherish every memory, lesson, thought, picture, video, momento ever passed down. Love ya dad! Happy B'day, can't wait to see you in the next world!

[wayne53]

I was just reminded by an empathetic poster of this thread. A lot of good posters with good hearts here. Stay strong and never forget the good times that you had with those you've lost, or the valuable lessons and wisdom you've learned from them.

Dad would have been 58 tomorrow, his time passed way too soon, but I'll cherish every memory, lesson, thought, picture, video, momento ever passed down. Love ya dad! Happy B'day, can't wait to see you in the next world!

Good post right there. My dad passed away last year. He was the greatest man I ever knew and I'll never forget him.

[createdlol]

i could be the most social mofo here if it werent for my skin.... maybe its all in my head because im still told im good looking and all that but i think i look like ****...

this scenerio actually happened

i was at work walking with my head down depressed about my flushed cheeks from accutane thinking i look like **** when a woman comes up to me and says i shouldnt be working there and should be a model or try to get in some movies. srs

still feel like ****.

oh and.

when i figure out a girl is into me (which takes me forever to realize) i get all scared and sabatoge it some how,...

[0680496]

sometimes im socially awkward, im too naive and nice at the same time i try to be alpha but fail most of the time

[anonymous]

I'm going through a pretty lonely stage of my life right now. Trying not to let it get me down though because I know it'll pass by eventually. Also I lots of times push away girls that show interest in me because I have too many other things on my mind. And I always ask myself why later.

[SuburbanRuski]

i get attached to girls too quickly, i try to be alpha and ignore them, but i develop feelings way too fast and become beta despite my concious actions. still getting over a girl ive recently been seeing because of this. feelsbadman.

[anonymous]

i get attached to girls too quickly, i try to be alpha and ignore them, but i develop feelings way too fast and become beta despite my concious actions. still getting over a girl ive recently been seeing because of this. feelsbadman.

i know this feel

[SethID]

im pretty naive and am always honest and look out for others best interest, even though it continually bites me in the ass

[nbedoya]

i get attached to girls too quickly, i try to be alpha and ignore them, but i develop feelings way too fast and become beta despite my concious actions. still getting over a girl ive recently been seeing because of this. feelsbadman.

same here and it takes me a while to get over her

[ATT82121]

no homo

in kindergarten me and a black kid would take turns tickling eachothers butts during movie time in school
it felt good

no homo

(srs)

strong no homo
way no homo
super no homo
i might be gay

[zacharytucker]

1. i can be really smart, but never EVER apply myself to my full potential, dont know why.
2. i dont think i look bad at all, but always seem to be friend zoned. until i **** that up by trying to get out of friend zone.
3. dont care about life too much. love things, but if they go away i am apathetic (loved my dog so damn much, but once he died notasingle****wasgiven)
4. Lie to alot of people about random ****. mostly my parents. i just cant be honest with them.
5. Some sort of anger issues towards women. bishes. may come from being cheated on by 2 out of 2 gf's
6. The one girl i would date has a ******* PHUCKING BOYFRIEND who treats her like **** and is a beta ****.
7. phucked a fat chick last weekend, feeling disgusted with myself everytime i go to bed. (i was blackout drunk when i did it)

(EDIT)

8. and i'm red now

[hai2dehfolks]

I'm depressed bc of my back which makes it hard to do anything at all (school, work, coaching)

I have never felt 100% comfortable around anyone before... not even my little sister.

I tell my friends I'm ready to "get back into the dating world" but really I'd rather just stay at home and not deal with the stress of dating or men.

I have a weird defense mechanism that allows me to cut off emotions when I am leaving/being left by a guy. I'm not sure it's healthy.

I'm too nice for my own good. I tend to get trample on and taken advantage of. I don't know how to make it all stop. I don't want to be mean.

I have severe "former-fat girl" syndrome... I feel like I will never be small enough. I was quite overweight K-12.

I wish I was invisible most days, so ppl would just leave me the fuk alone and let me do what I will.

[ironstrife]

feelsuglyman.jpeg

[ArchDukeTalohn]

i try not to get to know other ppl, sooner or later they all leave me

[YUsmilin]

I haven't had a genuine friend throughout college. I had a mental illness and was put in a mental ward for a week. I have a 2.78 GPA (even though I got a 1410 on my SATs). I haven't had the company of a woman for 3 years.

[warrenf123]

sorry bros, good times await

[HeyItsJordan]

Hang in there, bros.

[terry1001]

saddest truth? Probably that I could do so much better socially if I wasn't such a nerd sitting on the computer all the time. srs, computer broke for a week and in that week I joined a sport, got more social and did schoolwork for once, and actually wanted to "hangout" or go out randomly.

O well.

[BENNAYBOY]

forget females, i havent had a friend in 6 or 7 years

[Judgment]

I'm never happy with my gains. No matter how high my lifts get and how filled in my muscles are, I always feel scrawny, weak and small. I constantly look in the mirror with disgust.

[ntsureifsrs]

[hammond88]

No will power.

[stj3000]

I only put about 70% effort into anything i do (besides lifting).

I feel bad about this, but at the same time im pretty content. I know by only putting that much effort in, i can have the most fun at all times of the day while still getting average grades that are acceptable.

I also feel the need for constant companionship. No suprise though. My dad left at an early age, so i feel like a lot of my problems are caused by that.

[Dr_Dolan]

I have the potential to be successful but I can't motivate myself to buckle down and work hard. It's just meaningless for me (academically)