Oral sex can be a touchy subject for many couples in marriage, but in reality it is a natural part of intimacy. Couples often don't like to talk about oral sex because they may get embarrassed about it but, it is part of love making for many husbands and wife's, so why not take the time to know how to do it. When talking about oral sex for a man it is important for a woman to find out how to properly perform oral sex on her husband and understand what he likes. Not only is it important to know how to engage in oral sex with your husband, but to know about a man’s penis and what to do with it.
"I personally wrote this article for women, who are to embarrassed to talk about oral sex with their husbands, but what to know what to do, so if you do not want to read about this subject, please just move on to another article, for the women that do want to know, this article is for you. As a marriage counselor and sexologist, I feel it is my job to pass on relevant information to other women, and this happens to be one subject that women want to know but will not ask."
The first and most important step about a wife giving her husband oral sex is the fact that she wants to do it, and to please him. This is a selfless sexual act done by a wife that wants to bring pleasure to her husband for the sole purpose of bringing him pleasure. This is a very powerful statement and needs to be understood by both husband and wife.
He also has to entrust his wife to take the upmost care of his delicate body part while placing it in her care. There is nothing sexier than for a wife to want to please her husband in this manner and there is no quicker way to bring a man to orgasm. When a woman is giving her husband oral sex she is in complete control over him, deciding on when to give him pleasure and when to take it away.
The act of oral sex for a wife giving this to her husband is out of love, desire and pleasing him while empowering herself. Many women may see this as a submissive act, but that is far from the truth, again this is about a husband and a wife enjoying the intimacy between them and a man trusting his wife enough to be careful with him and her wanting to bring him pleasure in this way.
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A man's penis and what you need to know
Glans( head) this is the top of the penis and is designed for penetration
Corona ridge the tender ridge that encircles the base of the head where it meets the shaft.
Frenulum this is considered the mans “V” spot which is ultra sensitive and between the head and the shaft.
Meatus(urethra opening) these are like two tiny lips at the head, not a place to poke around in.
Shaft the length of the penis.
Scrotum (ball sack) the soft part that holds the testies.
Prostate (male g-spot) the muscle that creates the semen and can be a point of great pleasure if stimulated properly.
Pubococcygeus Muscle the muscle that encircles the base of the penis and the anus.
Perineum (slang is taint) the nerve ending area of skin between the anus and rectum, which can be very pleasurable for a man if stimulated properly.
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How to stimulate the penis
Now that we know the names of the man’s penis we can understand better how to stimulate it and to help him achieve orgasm. The man has two very sensitive spots on his penis that are rich in nerve endings and that is the "V" spot and the taint, when stimulated properly, with the right pressure, this can add to the pleasurable and sensation of a mans orgasm and the length of time to climax, between 4-10 minutes on average.
A man should be able to achieve an orgasm from oral sex in less than ten minutes, sorry to add a timer to it , but done properly most men will have an orgasm in less than ten minutes and be completely satisfied and worship his lovely beautiful wife who took the time to do it!
How to get the process started and what a woman can do to give her some sexual aids for oral sex. The best product for a woman to use while giving oral sex to her husband is a numbing throat spray for the gauge reflux. This is no joke, after a woman has had a child for some unknown reason her gag reflex may become compromised, and a quick spray of desensitizing gel will solve the problem. One other problem that can occur with a man is the taste of him and the thickness especially if he has had a vasectomy. When a man has had a vasectomy, it can make his sperm more thick. The resolution is a large glass of pineapple juice the night before. Lastly if a woman wants a little help a stroker and some great lubrication can do the job. Place the lubrication on the penis place the stroker to the base of the penis and insert the head in your mouth while moving the stroker up and down. The pressure and release is orgasmic for a man!
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Last but not least is a remember to stimulate the "V" spot and if a man will allow you to stimulate the prostate, some little vibrating frisky fingers will add to the overall pleasure. For a wife, knowing how to please her husband with oral sex is a great gift for her!
One important and last thing on the list of oral sex, if your husband ever pushes you head down then politely let him know that you do not like it, if he does it again remove yourself from the room and explain to him that it is not acceptable by any means. For a man if you are smart you will never push a women's head down it is a huge turn off, when I say never I mean never. Lastly, one of the most frequently asked question by women is about swallowing and that is up to the woman to make that decision, the climax has already happened the end result is her choice.