Is deleting a girl from Facebook too obvious and emmotional

[Alcibiades1212]

In other words when you delete a girl you've been dating and talking to from your facebook friends list shes obviously going to know this. Does that show that a phuck was given and does it make you seem emotional and beta? Does it show that she "got to you" and does it give her satisfaction. Does it make you seem "whiney"

Is it better just to leave them on there but to put them on the "do not show" list and not look at their page or contact them.

What happens if you do leave them on and they delete you first? Doesn't that give them the upper hand?

Whats the proper Alpha protocol for this?

[Zillis]

The "Alpha" thing would be to do whatever makes yourself feel best and completely disregard any thoughts of how it would affect her or make you look. After all who cares how you look to her if you're getting her out of your life anyway.

[kellaaay]

yes

[Bracket199]

In other words when you delete a girl you've been dating and talking to from your facebook friends list shes obviously going to know this. Does that show that a phuck was given and does it make you seem emotional and beta? Does it show that she "got to you" and does it give her satisfaction. Does it make you seem "whiney"

Is it better just to leave them on there but to put them on the "do not show" list and not look at their page or contact them.

What happens if you do leave them on and they delete you first? Doesn't give them the upper hand.

Whats the proper Alpha protocol for this?

If I broke up with my GF, her and her friends are off my FB immediately. Easily can stalk my profile and check up on me whenever. They will understand why. If worst comes to worst, just ignore them if they try and message you.

[CamelJockey]

you're 31 and worrying about facebook?? if you're never going to talk to her again, just delete her and go on with your life

[SquallFF8]

In other words when you delete a girl you've been dating and talking to from your facebook friends list shes obviously going to know this. Does that show that a phuck was given and does it make you seem emotional and beta? Does it show that she "got to you" and does it give her satisfaction. Does it make you seem "whiney"

Is it better just to leave them on there but to put them on the "do not show" list and not look at their page or contact them.

What happens if you do leave them on and they delete you first? Doesn't give them the upper hand.

Whats the proper Alpha protocol for this?

No, nothing wrong with doing that. And who gives a fuk what she or anyone might think of that?

[Alcibiades1212]

I'm asking because my SOP is when a chick over steps the clear boundaries that I lay out with flaking/disrespect/inmature shat/mind games the first thing I do is delete her from facebook, then I delete her number. A day or two later I delete the emails and the pictures from my phone. *And then depending on the girl I send them an email telling them why they have been "next-ed"

*This is only with girls whom I've been seriously talking to or dating/smashing.

Everyone else just gets ignored, unless they contact me wanting to know why. At which point I let them know what the skrew-up was that got them put on the curb. And then no further contact.

[Alcibiades1212]

you're 31 and worrying about facebook?? if you're never going to talk to her again, just delete her and go on with your life

Look bro, Facebook is a bona fide institution of modern life. There is no getting around it esp when it comes to relationships. And girls/women pull the same crap whither they are 18 or 48, so until you decide that one is at an acceptable level of crazy, cuz they are all crazy" and marry her, then your going to be dealing with the same crap over and over again in the dating/ hooking up world.

Its sad but true. So I'm just curious if my approach to the deleting stuff was good or could be improved on in order to stay Alpha.

I'm not interested in wk solutions.

[vocalists]

burn all bridges

whatever makes you feel better

[jamestown0101]

In other words when you delete a girl you've been dating and talking to from your facebook friends list shes obviously going to know this. Does that show that a phuck was given and does it make you seem emotional and beta? Does it show that she "got to you" and does it give her satisfaction. Does it make you seem "whiney"

Is it better just to leave them on there but to put them on the "do not show" list and not look at their page or contact them.

What happens if you do leave them on and they delete you first? Doesn't give them the upper hand.

Whats the proper Alpha protocol for this?

Who gives a ****? If she is not on my ****ing level, she is out. If she is a attention whore, I disregard her. She is ****ing dead to me. I freeze her out. If you feel this is the necessary action, then take care of business but, don't vent or say poor you in your fb status and cry what women had wronged you. LOL I hate these phaggots or bitches that complain about men. LOL

[poolshark472]

do what you gotta do to move on but make sure you do just that-move on.

[CamelJockey]

Its sad but true. So I'm just curious if my approach to the deleting stuff was good or could be improved on in order to stay Alpha.

This thread is far from Alpha LOL

I understand what you mean by saying Facebook is bona fide institution of modern life, but still, it's really just a place for attention whores. There are women out there that refuse to get on FB, and those are the ones are prefer to be with. There's nothing alpha about worrying what a girl will think if you delete her from your friends list

[Nutmusk]

The "Alpha" thing would be to do whatever makes yourself feel best and completely disregard any thoughts of how it would affect her or make you look. After all who cares how you look to her if you're getting her out of your life anyway.

It's not even "alpha" really.

You have to look out for yourself in this world man. Noone else is going to do it for you. So you do what YOU have to do to be happy, don't put anyone else first unless they absolutely deserve it.

[mh22]

Damn op i'm in the same situation. Saw this girl 2 times over the weekend..went to her place both times..chilled drank a lot and then made out..and then she said she was going to sleep............wtf right?
I got up and went home even though she wanted me to sleep over----but I still had a lot of energy and didn't want to go to sleep. she basically fukd up the whole night with her "i'm going to sleep" bs---- it wasn't even late..and i was drunk so i got kinda mad.

anyways I went home and deleted her on fb. she calls me in the morning,texts me --- i ignore.. later in the day she writes something like "you deleted me off facbeook?mature...blah balh blahh i dont understand why you're so upset" and I just ignore her and delete her number

so this girl thought that me deleting her on fb was "immature"......the "you deleted me off facebook?mature" part was sarcasm

[Alcibiades1212]

This thread is far from Alpha LOL

Alpha enough for you..Old man.

[CamelJockey]

Alpha enough for you..Old man.

haha, dude, we're the same age!

[tential]

I'm asking because my SOP is when a chick over steps the clear boundaries that I lay out with flaking/disrespect/inmature shat/mind games the first thing I do is delete her from facebook, then I delete her number. A day or two later I delete the emails and the pictures from my phone. *And then depending on the girl I send them an email telling them why they have been "next-ed"

*This is only with girls whom I've been seriously talking to or dating/smashing.

Everyone else just gets ignored, unless they contact me wanting to know why. At which point I let them know what the skrew-up was that got them put on the curb. And then no further contact.

Extend this to girls you dumped then.

[Alcibiades1212]

haha, dude, we're the same age!

Yep , and your old enough that you should have gotten that one. Even family guy or SNL should have helped with the uptake.

[Family_Guy]

Look bro, Facebook is a bona fide institution of modern life. There is no getting around it esp when it comes to relationships. And girls/women pull the same crap whither they are 18 or 48, so until you decide that one is at an acceptable level of crazy, cuz they are all crazy" and marry her, then your going to be dealing with the same crap over and over again in the dating/ hooking up world.

True. To be honest I think social networking has turned women for the worse. I mean they were bad before, but its reached a new level. I hate Facebook. What gets me are the chicks who say they are too busy yet if you login to Facebook you see they are on it posting about the most retarded crap.

[Alcibiades1212]

The other reason I ask is just because you next a girl doesn't mean you won't put on her on a smash list. It just means you've all lost respect for her potential as GF/wife material or even dating material.

Doesn't mean you just have to freeze her out forever. I'd think you miss out on a lot of attempts to re-impress you if you did. Now if the girl cheated or did some intolerable disrespecting stuff then yeah, just put her on the froze out forever list.

The point is if you want to still smash it a few times but you have no interest in her as a GF/friend/date should you still keep her facebook?

[Alcibiades1212]

True. To be honest I think social networking has turned women for the worse. I mean they were bad before, but its reached a new level. I hate Facebook. What gets me are the chicks who say they are too busy yet if you login to Facebook you see they are on it posting about the most retarded crap.

Truth.

I had to next my last chick because of that very same shat.

[the700level]

good question, was wondering myself.


could be taken as either:

1) He couldn't give a fuk about me that he deleted me off facebook
2) He couldn't stand to see what i was up to or even look at my pictures because it would hurt him too bad


obviously we know which one is better, but i think it would be better to just leave and ignore. show that you can have her on there and notasinglefukwasgiven

[Brahesthetics]

Her and all her friends, GONE forever with no contact attempts or responses whatsoever is the ideal.

Not knowing hurts more than knowing/makes them think/go crazy.
PLUS, they can't fuk up your business.




Then, a few years later, when you're better looking (you're a man, we only get better with age), and she is less good looking, enjoy the entertainment when she feverishly tries to get back with "the one that got away"

At that point you can decide to demean her while boning her, or completely mindfuk her and hit on one of her friends.

[mh22]

Her and all her friends, GONE forever with no contact attempts or responses whatsoever is the ideal.

Not knowing hurts more than knowing/makes them think/go crazy.
PLUS, they can't fuk up your business.




Then, a few years later, when you're better looking (you're a man, we only get better with age), and she is less good looking, enjoy the entertainment when she feverishly tries to get back with "the one that got away"

At that point you can decide to demean her while boning her, or completely mindfuk her and hit on one of her friends.

furkkk so true..so fkn true

[jamestown0101]

This thread is far from Alpha LOL

I understand what you mean by saying Facebook is bona fide institution of modern life, but still, it's really just a place for attention whores. There are women out there that refuse to get on FB, and those are the ones are prefer to be with. There's nothing alpha about worrying what a girl will think if you delete her from your friends list

What if girl deletes you off fb? (not srs)

[midniteOG]

well bro, from my expereince, it hasnt worked.... i was talking to this chic, kept setting **** up, but she would always flake out. finally, i was done with it. deleted her off FB, #, etc... to make a statement. well, she didnt notice, a friend of mine said "what did you think when he deleted you off FB?" and she said "wtf, he did!?" so ya.... she txted the next day asking if we could talk.. again, attempted to set something up so i could lay it on the line and tell her how i felt... but she flaked out again... im done with her. yet still have feelings for her.. crushing hard on her.... we have mutual friends, so hang out from time to time, and its awkward... unfortunatley tho, im waiting on her to confrotn me about it.. i know its not the best stragtegy, but im just oer her and her BS and want it out of my life... this is what im feeling right now: