I believe I don't have bad verbal skills when talking to women, I can make them laugh and maintain conversation etc, however I really believe my achilles heel for lack of success with the ladies is the fact that I'm ugly. I consider my self to be really ugly because of the way I've been treated in the past. In my 20 years of trying to get with girls, none has ever shown any interest in me. No flirting, no smiles...nothing. Just rejection, rejection, rejection. I've also been told flat out that I'm ugly, or girls saying "I don't find you attractive". So there's the poof.
Is there a way for ugly guys like my self to get girls above 5/10?
Pics of said ugliness. Am I ugly? Be honest... I don't care if your mean. I'm still working on my body. IS there anything else I can do?
06-11-2011, 11:53 AM #1
How can a ugly guy like me get with girls?
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I want to write a longer account but i need to collect my thoughts because i have a lot to say. Fellow uk brah, i have a similar problem but the problem is that i don't think i'm ugly, i'm actually above average looking according to many on here and even though i don't think so myself because girls have rejected me so easily there is some idea of logic behind what miscers say, i know i'm somewhat good looking.
And this applies to you, because at the minute, you're pussying around and not hitting anywhere near your real potential in terms of looks. Get down to 10% bodyfat and i guarantee your jawline will change completely and your whole look. You can do this mate, its them that have the problem, not you. Don't ever let them make you believe you're not worth ****.
British women are notoriously bitchy and stuck up btw. You have to improve mate, and style on them before they take you seriously because they are so insecure, thats the consensus here and i've seen enough evidence to believe so myself.
PM me if you want, we're on the same journey.
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Not a quick fix, but lose the weight and your face should thin out. A lot of guys, as well as girls, look much better with a thinned out face. Plus your confidence will grow and you'll attract based on that, as well.
short-term: approach girls and expect to fail that way you won't be phased when it happens later.guys i not afriad 2 show my boobs cuz they r just boobs but i aint a slut yall so sorry i aint showing cuz i have respect for my self
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06-11-2011, 12:03 PM #7
You're not ugly. You're just fat and have tits. Sorry, but those are going to be dealbreakers 99% of the time. But the good news is that you can fix those while you can't fix ugly. So keep at it and you'll see how different your face looks and the attention you'll get.
It's almost kind of ridiculous. Before I had to work so hard to be funny to get girls interested in me and smiling. Now after losing some weight, especially in the face, I get girls coming up to me everywhere starting conversation and all I really do is smile occasionally. Don't even run any game.
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$120k/yr might impress a 21yo girl who works at starbucks, but not a real gold digger.
My ex boss was 36, really fat and really bald and he had a really hot GF, but he also drove a Porche 911 Twin Turbo and had a million dollar house in Laguna Beach.
U can't roll that lifestyle on $120k/yr lol.
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1) Look in a mirror
2) Appreciate yourself and what you have
3) Stop caring about what everyone else will think or thinks, you do you.
4) Listen to this song everytime you go out. Your confidence will boost
5) Acquire girls that will join you in your journey that is life, if they don't want to follow, they are useless. Remember not all girls are whores and sluts but some are.
6) Enjoy lifeTudo vale a pena quando a alma não é pequena
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You look average, do you really expect random girls to find an average guy attractive? Average guys get girls due to personality and status. You can easily improve though if you stop being a lazy kunt and get in shape. You are carrying a lot of fat in your face which means a lot of room for improvement in facial aesthetics.
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