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    Apparently I'm "intimidating" to girls... wut?

    Kinda blew my mind, lately girls I been around have told my friends, and myself, that I intimidated them at first, and that they are shy because I'm "too good looking" or "am too good for them".... I don't even...

    I was hanging out with some friends at a bar, just sitting there doing nothing, when this attractive girl starts talking to one of the guys I was with. He invited her over, but she told him she didn't know if that would be ok "because your friend (me) looked too good for us".... she told me that later after we had talked a bit and I was like WTF.. I was just sitting there doing absolutely nothing. Similar stories just like this have happened before. Girls telling me that they were shy around me at first because I looked too intimidating or like I was too good for them. I don't act arrogant at all, usually I just sit queitly and do nothing but have a small, boring, conversation. Girls from work told me they we're afraid too invite me too hang out because I probably had better things to do.

    There was this girl that I hit it off pretty good with, and then randomly she got distant, stopped talking to me as much. Later she told my friend that she stopped flirting and hanging out with me because "she thought I was out of her league." This blew my mind. She was cute as hell.


    I'd say I was handsome, but I'm no 10/10. I'm not jacked or "alpha," but I do work out and take care of myself. My personality sucks. People sometimes tell me I look too serious, it's true that I dont smile a lot, I think it's an ugly smile, but I don't see how any of this would push girls away. I always thought of myself as a nice guy, too nice in some cases.

    What can I do to be more friendly and approachable? I feel 'trapped' tbh, I don't exactly know what I'm doing wrong, if anything.
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    I got the same problem.
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    Originally Posted by iFine View Post
    Kinda blew my mind, lately girls I been around have told my friends, and myself, that I intimidated them at first, and that they are shy because I'm "too good looking" or "am too good for them".... I don't even...

    I was hanging out with some friends at a bar, just sitting there doing nothing, when this attractive girl starts talking to one of the guys I was with. He invited her over, but she told him she didn't know if that would be ok "because your friend (me) looked too good for us".... she told me that later after we had talked a bit and I was like WTF.. I was just sitting there doing absolutely nothing. Similar stories just like this have happened before. Girls telling me that they were shy around me at first because I looked too intimidating or like I was too good for them. I don't act arrogant at all, usually I just sit queitly and do nothing but have a small, boring, conversation. Girls from work told me they we're afraid too invite me too hang out because I probably had better things to do.

    There was this girl that I hit it off pretty good with, and then randomly she got distant, stopped talking to me as much. Later she told my friend that she stopped flirting and hanging out with me because "she thought I was out of her league." This blew my mind. She was cute as hell.


    I'd say I was handsome, but I'm no 10/10. I'm not jacked or "alpha," but I do work out and take care of myself. My personality sucks. People sometimes tell me I look too serious, it's true that I dont smile a lot, I think it's an ugly smile, but I don't see how any of this would push girls away. I always thought of myself as a nice guy, too nice in some cases.

    What can I do to be more friendly and approachable? I feel 'trapped' tbh, I don't exactly know what I'm doing wrong, if anything.
    Had to overcome this with women and work colleagues brah. I know that feel....

    It sucks, but you just need to work on approaching people and having conversations, a smile never hurts... the more you project you're happy and funny the more likely they'll feel comfortable around you.

    It really sucks from a people management point of view, my staff thought I was a hard case before getting to know me... had to really work on always smiling and not looking like im going to stab someone / hungover look.

    Eventually it starts coming naturally brah, just need to constantly focus on being friendly. Often just "sitting there" with a blank look on your face can seem intimidating to others.
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    If girls are saying all that **** to you, then that mean you are golden. You just need to lead at that point. "Hey, I am going to x party...or me and my friends are hanging out over here." Just make sure the ultimate ending place is your ****ing bedroom.
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    yeah being too goodlooking is curse (jks bro).

    its kinda how us guys would find approaching a 2/10 whale easier than a 10/10. if you're goodlooking i imagine you'd find girls sneaking glances at you every now and again. Try to catch em' slippin lol and go in for the kill.

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    That just happened

    Girl just texted me this...

    Her: "Yes I creeped, and yes you pass the test. From what I've seen of you...you're sort of intimidating"

    Me: haha what does that even mean?

    Her: "I mean like you are very very handsome and seem to be pretty cool and funny. It's just intimidating"


    What do now?
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    bro, your problem is that you just sit there and do nothing. it may seem like not a big deal to you but when girls see a good looking brah just sitting there, not smiling, not looking like hes having a good time, they think that you are bored and are too good for whatever place your at. like as if you could be somewhere way better, with way better/more successful people around.

    just lighten up.. crack a smile at people, dont look so boring/mad, initiate conversation with people. you dont even have to be trying to get at girls, just have a normal conversation about their/your day. when other girls see your easy to talk to, they will be more interested.
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    I am 6'3 mixed , have deep voice. I try to smile a lot more then usual , It helps put people at ease.
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    Originally Posted by mikeyg23 View Post
    bro, your problem is that you just sit there and do nothing. it may seem like not a big deal to you but when girls see a good looking brah just sitting there, not smiling, not looking like hes having a good time, they think that you are bored and are too good for whatever place your at. like as if you could be somewhere way better, with way better/more successful people around.

    just lighten up.. crack a smile at people, dont look so boring/mad, initiate conversation with people. you dont even have to be trying to get at girls, just have a normal conversation about their/your day. when other girls see your easy to talk to, they will be more interested.
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    I don't care if you think you have an ugly smile, a smile is always preferred over a neutral face or a scowl. So just joke around more and try to look happy, it will make people more willing to approach and talk to you.
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    i'm sort of like this, but my problem is that im pretty big for my age and look like im 20 or something. (been told i looked like i was 24 once)

    sucks when im trying to get with girls they always think that im old, then i say my age and give me some weird look like im a freak.
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    this whole thread requires pics, no homo
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    Funny how you never see pics in these threads. If a girl thought you were intimidating because of your looks, you would never hear about it. In the same way that you wouldn't tell any of your friends that a girl made you crap your pants. I call bull. But, if you are telling the truth:

    What can I do to be more friendly and approachable?
    Body language. Don't cover up your mouth with anything, lower your hands, and look around a room when you walk into it. You could simply approach them - that's the easier option.

    As for your 'nice guy' problems, this is a pretty good explanation of why 'nice guys finish last.'
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    Originally Posted by Gallowglass View Post
    Funny how you never see pics in these threads. '
    too good looking for pics man, camera gets intimidated
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    they are probably embarrassed by your face
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    i've been told I am intimidating to some girls also. But I always laugh, smile, fun personality and i got my life on point.

    I aint mad if a girl is intimidated, if you have a lack of confidence/self esteem it won't end up working anyway with me, i have a low tolerance for that, and i'm not going to spoon feed you compliments so you can feel good. That should com naturally. I think women recognize that by my "saying whats on my mind" outgoing nature.

    Isn't it funny though, that women "want a man's man" yet once they get one in front of them, they haven't the slightest clue what to do with them? or how to act?
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    Originally Posted by ThePann1907 View Post
    Girl just texted me this...

    Her: "Yes I creeped, and yes you pass the test. From what I've seen of you...you're sort of intimidating"

    Me: haha what does that even mean?

    Her: "I mean like you are very very handsome and seem to be pretty cool and funny. It's just intimidating"


    What do now?
    I'd post pics but what, I have like 7 posts. And I met the girl on OKCupid using this copypasta, lol;

    "I came across your profile and was quite enamored by such an articulate and heavenly blessed beauty. I would be kicking myself if I didn't ask, so I was wondering if you would accept an engagement of witty banter between two intellectuals? Of course this "engagement" may start off as purely platonic but my sensual desires will most likely guide our cohesive unity down more erotic, lascivious, and sexual paths that will include but are not limited to passionate make out sessions under the star lit sky, dry humping, fondling each other’s naughty parts inducing orgasms, and an abundance of new unchartered sexual positions where I assert my pure dominance in establishing a realm of absolute sovereignty in your nether regions.

    Is this something you would be interested in pursuing?"

    Yea she ate it up. The texts were after she looked at my facebook, which gave me more credibility of who I was.
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    Originally Posted by ThePann1907 View Post
    I'd post pics but what, I have like 7 posts. And I met the girl on OKCupid using this copypasta, lol;

    "I came across your profile and was quite enamored by such an articulate and heavenly blessed beauty. I would be kicking myself if I didn't ask, so I was wondering if you would accept an engagement of witty banter between two intellectuals? Of course this "engagement" may start off as purely platonic but my sensual desires will most likely guide our cohesive unity down more erotic, lascivious, and sexual paths that will include but are not limited to passionate make out sessions under the star lit sky, dry humping, fondling each other’s naughty parts inducing orgasms, and an abundance of new unchartered sexual positions where I assert my pure dominance in establishing a realm of absolute sovereignty in your nether regions.

    Is this something you would be interested in pursuing?"

    Yea she ate it up. The texts were after she looked at my facebook, which gave me more credibility of who I was.
    ^^^^Lulz
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    Women just use fact that you work out to get read of you in decent way "to good for". If you have big muscle don't mean automatically that you are good looking.
    And as above is said you fantastic looking should start post pictures in thread.
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    Originally Posted by ThePann1907 View Post
    I'd post pics but what, I have like 7 posts. And I met the girl on OKCupid using this copypasta, lol;

    "I came across your profile and was quite enamored by such an articulate and heavenly blessed beauty. I would be kicking myself if I didn't ask, so I was wondering if you would accept an engagement of witty banter between two intellectuals? Of course this "engagement" may start off as purely platonic but my sensual desires will most likely guide our cohesive unity down more erotic, lascivious, and sexual paths that will include but are not limited to passionate make out sessions under the star lit sky, dry humping, fondling each other’s naughty parts inducing orgasms, and an abundance of new unchartered sexual positions where I assert my pure dominance in establishing a realm of absolute sovereignty in your nether regions.

    Is this something you would be interested in pursuing?"

    Yea she ate it up. The texts were after she looked at my facebook, which gave me more credibility of who I was.
    Sound like scam letter from Nigeria that any one get at Myspace. Is it there “contact me at ....@yahoo.com?
    You look like a street hooligan, not like a hooty. Therefore are girls intimidated by you. Probably unbelievable good looking OP without pics same case.
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    had a girl tell me one time that I looked "unnaproachable" because she thought I was "too attractive to give her the time of day"

    made out with her in the bar within 10 minutes, got her number that same night, pounded her the next night and she never talked to me again

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    I'm sure if Jessica Alba walked in the room you'd feel intimidated too. I guess you can smile a little more but this isn't too big of a deal imo.
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    lol @ all the ugly fuks asking for pics
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    Typically "girls" will confuse lack of self-esteem on their part, for intimidation on your part.
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    For starters, stop listening to what they say, and acknowledge the contradictions they make through their actions. I got a buddy or a guy I know who is bold as ****, he is awkward, socially inept, not well liked, and he slams girls left and right. Being social and **** is not a prerequisite. He is just up in your face, right up on your gf, doesn't even acknowledge what a relationship or commitment is, and he pretty much tries to take a girl off her bf. Its entertaining. One girl will slap him or actually hit him for being so forward and the next girl sucks his dick. Its pretty funny. Stop listening to stupid bishes. If she isn't putting out, who gives a **** what they think? Even then, who cares?
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    Maybe you should boost their confidence a little bit with compliments. Dont overdo it or anything but maybe drop a few lines that make them feel like theyre good enough for you.
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