Kinda blew my mind, lately girls I been around have told my friends, and myself, that I intimidated them at first, and that they are shy because I'm "too good looking" or "am too good for them".... I don't even...
I was hanging out with some friends at a bar, just sitting there doing nothing, when this attractive girl starts talking to one of the guys I was with. He invited her over, but she told him she didn't know if that would be ok "because your friend (me) looked too good for us".... she told me that later after we had talked a bit and I was like WTF.. I was just sitting there doing absolutely nothing. Similar stories just like this have happened before. Girls telling me that they were shy around me at first because I looked too intimidating or like I was too good for them. I don't act arrogant at all, usually I just sit queitly and do nothing but have a small, boring, conversation. Girls from work told me they we're afraid too invite me too hang out because I probably had better things to do.
There was this girl that I hit it off pretty good with, and then randomly she got distant, stopped talking to me as much. Later she told my friend that she stopped flirting and hanging out with me because "she thought I was out of her league." This blew my mind. She was cute as hell.
I'd say I was handsome, but I'm no 10/10. I'm not jacked or "alpha," but I do work out and take care of myself. My personality sucks. People sometimes tell me I look too serious, it's true that I dont smile a lot, I think it's an ugly smile, but I don't see how any of this would push girls away. I always thought of myself as a nice guy, too nice in some cases.
What can I do to be more friendly and approachable? I feel 'trapped' tbh, I don't exactly know what I'm doing wrong, if anything.