So I'm sure all of you all familiar with when a girl doesn't text you back. In my case, I met this girl Saturday and flirted a lot with her and got her number at the end of the night. I texted her today at around 5. She texted me back like 10 minutes later and I responded after 20 minutes or so. Here's the conversation:
Me: Hey whats up?
Her: Not much, just got out of class you?
Me: Just some homework. I can't get over how we lost that beer pong game though (we had played beer pong together for a while and the last game was real close).
Anyway, as you can see there is nothing in those texts that could have offended her, yet its been 7 hours since I last texted her and she has yet to get back to me. I don't know when I should text her back now. I know she likes me and we definitely hit it off. I'm not too frustrated as I'm talking to another girl currently I would just like to get this situation handled. I would appreciate some feedback though, Thanks!!
Thread: When a girl doesn't text back...
05-16-2011, 10:21 PM #1
When a girl doesn't text back...
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-Girls text a ton of guys a day, and if they don't you have to believe they do. They at least have the power too. You have to stand out, something besides the usual "whats up" small talk. Something outrageous, random, mean, anything really.
-Waiting to text back is overrated. Girls have ADD. Don't wait too long to text back, it's ridiculous. Not replying back within 2 seconds is good, but waiting 20 minutes to text back 'just because' is ridiculous. After 20 minutes, she is probably texting another guy, doing something else in which she doesn't "need" to text you anymore, or something like that.
-In your response, instead of just saying that, maybe say something like "I can't believe we lost that beerpong game though... maybe next time you could make a few cups..." or something like that.
-Don't worry she didn't text you back. Maybe she is just busy and can't text or something? Don't text her again tho, at least for a couple days. Don't want to look desperate. If she doesn't respond, I'd probably just give her a text in a few days when you're going to something fun (party, bar, club) and ask if she wants to tag along. Should be easy to judge her interest then.★cVc★ 11b
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You KNOW she likes you? Obviously not as much as you think. You didn't make a big enough impression on her the night you met her. Simple as that really. Her other options are keeping her busy right now. She might hit you up out of boredom/curiosity later in the week but I wouldn't get your hopes up. If she was into you, she wouldn't let a text convo die after only 2 messages. Forget about her and acquire other pussy.
05-16-2011, 11:24 PM #10
i texted a girl today saying "hey you around after 7 or did you think i forgot?"
i just got a text right now as i typed this but i texted her at 3.
heres the kicker... i forgot about her until i read this thread. we were supposed to hang out tonight. oh well.
dont take things so personally op and realy who gives a shiiit if some foul creature doesnt text you back? their fukking loss.
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I lol'd at him counting the hours between his text messages. If she doesn't or didn't answer you who cares. Texting is lazy and beta to begin with. Call her like a real man if you want to take her out. That's why I don't text leaves too many options for them to ignore you. Puts the power in their game because your sitting there like a phaggot waiting for a text back counting hours. I'd rather be playing COD or beating it, not looking at my phone every 3seconds to get a dumb witted "tehee" "lol" or dumbass ^_^ pokemon face back from her.-R.I.P. Macho Man-
05-17-2011, 12:24 AM #18
If you have time to notice a chick hasn't text you back, then your doing it wrong..
During the day i miss several calls and unless I'm driving or taking a **** it takes me a while to reply to anyone. Maybe I'm just a busy dude, but i dont see any point in WAITING for someone's reply, let alone a chick.
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And dude, really... your 19. Don't act like your a ****in CEO getting important phone calls all day. And for the record, it wasn't like I was lying in bed staring at my phone all day crying because some girl didn't text me back. I texted her and before I went to bed noticed she had not yet texted me back, hence the reason I made this thread.
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There seems to be a generational Gap in the thinking on texts. I'm 29 and want a younger girl.
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yeh i would disregard. i would text her back something real random though to make myself laugh and show my mates the message. something about her nipples were hard as rocks during the beer pong game. ffs dating is meant to be a laugh people stopped getting so stressed out. what happened to doing dares with your mates when talking to girls and taking the piss. stop being so serious,
when i was dating back in the day i made sure i got 4 numbers and as beau says the first girl to text back was the winner.
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She didn't reply because it was a BORING FKING CONVERSATION
If a girl i'm texting is being boring then I will amp it up to some next level sh!t and she WILL follow my lead. It's up to you to lead the conversation. If you talk on some slick sh!t, she will reply on some slick sh!t. If you talk being boring, than she will reply being boring. YOU HAVE TO LEAD THE FUKING CONVERSATION YOU PHAGGOT.
Set the tone from the start, none of this "hey whats up" bullsh!t.
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