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    Thumbs up Texting Everyday.. Is It A Good Idea?

    So me and this girl have been talking for a little over a month. We just recently went on a date to the movies.. She said she had fun so we immediately set up another date. Everything is going good right now but I have one question about texting..

    Is it a good idea to do so? She ALWAYS text me first and our conversations always go smoothly and usually last like all day. Theirs really no "nice" way to avoid it. And the only reason I would avoid it is b/c I think its good to not be in communication sometimes.. It builds up interest in my opinion. But yeah.. What do you think? Should I keep up with the texting? If not. Then how?
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    just fukken do what comes natural. there are really no rules, except don't blow up her phone
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    If you're texting her all day everyday you're gonna get friendzoned. She might like you now but eventually you'll become an emotional tampon. You can't build attraction if she knows what you're always doing and it seems you're never too busy for her.
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    In b4 OP gets played. You're falling for her OP. Stop it, after she texts me first everyday for a week i texted back just as often and her attraction for me died.
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    I wouldn't.. If she texts you just say something like "i'm lifting" "i'm with some friends" etc. then wait awhile to text her. Or just ask her to hang out. Face to face is always the way to go.
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    If you want to be an emotional tampon.
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    I've always gone by less is more when it comes to texting.
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    Originally Posted by mangravy View Post
    If you're texting her all day everyday you're gonna get friendzoned. She might like you now but eventually you'll become an emotional tampon. You can't build attraction if she knows what you're always doing and it seems you're never too busy for her.
    this


    only text to set up plans and occasionally flirt
    ive seen way too many people say "oh well the convos are smooth and good" and in 3-4 days she stops responding


    unless shes yur GF/wife u shouldnt be texting here everyday
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    from MY experience, even if a girl seems super into, wanting to hang out all the time, initiating text, interest fades quick if you give her too much attention
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    Do not txt her too often/much, you will come off as clingy. Which girls utterly despise.
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    just tell her a joke then when she says ahhaahha dont respone with anything
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    Women are like cats, srs.

    If you have one then you will see.

    Pet that thing over and over and she will leave you. Give a few and she will be purring all over dat der lap of yours.

    TL;DR - Don't give too much attention, be a challenge, don't text everyday.
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    Originally Posted by Jaycee41 View Post
    In b4 OP gets played. You're falling for her OP. Stop it, after she texts me first everyday for a week i texted back just as often and her attraction for me died.
    Yeah agree with this. I've fell into this trap before.
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    No, it's cool man.

    LISTEN, texting every day is fine as long as SHE sends the first text.

    This is how it works,

    she texts you at 1pm lets say

    you won't text her back until 3pm

    she texts you at 3:30pm

    you won't text her back until 6pm


    Basically just lag a lot on the texts, I do this with all the girls i've known and it has never been a problem. They become accustomed to it, and it's not clingy at all because sometimes I even forget to text back if I do that, and convo's will always be good since with those large windows of time the convo can't die out.
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    Originally Posted by ae1555 View Post
    No, it's cool man.

    LISTEN, texting every day is fine as long as SHE sends the first text.

    This is how it works,

    she texts you at 1pm lets say

    you won't text her back until 3pm

    she texts you at 3:30pm

    you won't text her back until 6pm


    Basically just lag a lot on the texts, I do this with all the girls i've known and it has never been a problem. They become accustomed to it, and it's not clingy at all because sometimes I even forget to text back if I do that, and convo's will always be good since with those large windows of time the convo can't die out.
    I've seen some bad advice on this site, But that takes the cake.

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    Less text more sex.
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    texting everyday is grand. always wait for the reply before sending another one. i always through in a bit of filth as well.. but that comes after a couple of dates. next date you got to make a move and feel the boobs
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    I know this thread is pretty old, but I just have to respond from a woman's point of view...

    Some of these answers are absolutely riciculous. "You'll end up in the friend zone" or "She'll lose interest if you talk every day" or "You're falling for her. Stop it." or "lag a lot when you text back". WTF is wrong with you men??

    I certainly don't text my guys friends every day, and even if I did, they would be very different texts than what I would send a guy I'm interested in.

    A girl won't lose interest just because you aren't afraid to let her know that you're paying attention to her. If I text a guy first for a few days, and he never texts me first, I'll assume I'm bothering him and that he's not interested. And then I'll move on.

    What so wrong with actually falling for a girl? Eventually you're going to have to admit to yourself that you like her. It won't kill you. I promise

    Last, but certainly not least... actually probably the stupidest one up there... why on earth would you consiously choose not to text someone back until you've decided that enough time has passed for you to appear 'unattached'? Like I said before, if a guy seems too busy to text me back I'll assume he doesn't want to talk to me. And then I'll move on.

    You gentlemen need to smarten up
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    Lol works for some but I got friendzoned last time I did that.
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    Originally Posted by Acesopro View Post
    Lol works for some but I got friendzoned last time I did that.
    last time a girl texted me everyday, and she would initiate 95% of the time. She thought we got to know ourselves to well and lost the spark or some bs chick logic. pretty sure making yourself available to frequent contact like that is a big turn off because the girl went form wanting my nuts to friendzoning
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    Here's some game for you guys

    When you first meet a female, they will be in a euphoric state or a idealistic state about the guy that they're dating. You have to get her when she's in the idealistic/euphoric state. When you start texting/seeing a female too long, she's gonna start seeing flaws in you, you're gonna become more "realistic" rather then "idealistic". So I suggest you hit that before reality sets in
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    Bad idea. She will lose interest, happened to me quite a few times before with **** buddies.
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    Originally Posted by YolkedBrah View Post
    Bad idea. She will lose interest, happened to me quite a few times before with **** buddies.
    did they stop wanting to hang out or what? my current fbuddy does this alot and i worry about that. but at the same time i dont want to date her, so i dont see the problem in letting her text/skype me alot
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    I text my girlfriend for the majority of the day, and i even did it before we were officially a couple.

    But she almost always initiates the convos and they flow smoothyl since im usually bored at work and have nothing else to do.

    Sometimes it can get tedious and boring however, so its a good idea to not go overboard with it. Nothing wrong with saying "im busy right now [doing whatever], ill text you in a couple hours"
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    I've met a couple females, where if you text/talk/hand out with them everyday, they'll grow into liking you. For the most part, you have to keep your distance though.
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    I think there is a lot of good advice in this thread, but also a lot of bad advice. Every situtation is different. People fail to realize that while their are some basic guidelines to follow when talking to a girl, there is no set in stone rules to follow. Best advice in this thread was from the guy who said do "what comes natural." People don't get friendzoned because they are always available. They get friendzoned because the chick was way more interested in a different dude.
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    Originally Posted by azn3r1c View Post
    If you want to be an emotional tampon.

    I respectfully disagree.

    I've always contended that if the fundamentals of your game are spot-on, and that if you're persistent and can learn to deal with rejection, then you'll succeed, and you'll figure out a way to use whatever means possible to help you succeed. And yeah, this includes texting.

    My personal opinion is that texting is just a tool through which to communicate--I refuse to believe that a tiny handheld device makes me look more or less important in the eyes of a woman. It's the same concept when I walk into a bar. I can look around and choose to feel like a DJ or an AFC. A bar is just a tool that I can use to my advantage to approach women, but my merely walking into a bar certainly won't guarantee my success or failure in the eyes of the women. It's totally up to ME to succeed or fail with them.

    You can be a Casanova type of texter, or you can an AFC type of texter--just like you can be a Casanova nightclub approacher or an AFC nightclub approacher.

    It's what INSIDE of your head that really matters.

    If an aspiring player/guy with game is confident, then NOTHING can stop him from succeeding; doesn't matter if he conveys that confidence via text or via a person-to-person cold approach.

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