So I find this particular girl attractive and I want to talk to her. The problem is that I have never met her (she lives about an hour away, I have 2 mutual friends). How should I approach this situation? I was considering these 2 methods but please share your ideas as well. Just added her yesterday BTW
1) FB IM: "Hey ". She'll probably respond "Hi".
me; "Whatcha up to?"
Her; "either a bitchy answer if so i drop her, or she'll say NM blah blah wbu"
then i'd be set and eventually get those digits cuzzzzo.
2) Wall post;
Hey or You're cute . Seem kinda too fast of an approach
05-05-2011, 07:37 PM #1
Facebook chatting a girl you don't know.★★SoFlo Crew★★
05-05-2011, 07:40 PM #2
05-05-2011, 07:40 PM #3
If I don't know someone in real life on facebook, I don't talk to them, much less add them. Only in very rare cases would I add someone I meet through the internet on facebook.525/385/625, 280 overhead press, 325 push press, 250 weighted dip, 190 weighted pull-up, 413.8 max weighted pull-up, 440 front squat, 365 RFESS, 295 log press, 315 farmer's carry, 330 atlas stone, 30 pull-ups at 225. Semiprofessional rugby league player. National level Strongman competitor. 243. 24.
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05-06-2011, 07:03 AM #9
I have a woman on FB from highschool.
My buddy noticed her checking me out at our reunion last yr.
talked to her briefly but I hooked up with another woman from highschool the night before.
Nothing major, just had her in my arms at a concert, but she was in cock-block mode that night marking her territory. LOL!
Anyway, She popped up in my mail as a possible match for my de-activated match.com profile.
I don't feel like paying the fee (waste of money) so now i'm thinking of hitting her up next time she's on FB. I notice her on a lot Sat nights.
I got kids so i'm usually home, she doesn't have kids & can't.
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05-06-2011, 07:06 AM #10
me; whats up?
her; nm blah blah
me; ahh cool cool,
me; so can I ask you a question
me; can you tell me how much a polar bear weighs?
05-06-2011, 07:14 AM #11
Me: Can I ask you a serious question?
Her: Uhm.. okay :S (or som other negative sounding response)
Me: I write poetry, so can you just tell me what you think of this. I spent the whole day writing it.
Her: Sure, I guess.
Me: Roses are red, violets are blue.
Nice shoes, let's ****.
Her: OMG LOLZ
If that matches your personality or something you would say irl, try that. If you say that randomly and then you're not outgoing, you're gonna seem like a tryhard as it won't fit your natural style and the way you socially present yourself. It's high risk, but high reward. Either she will laugh it up and you've broken the ice easily and future conversations will be more relaxed or she'll put on a btch shield like 'wtf creep'.
Easier method would be this.
Me: How's it going?
Her: Pretty good, i'm kinda bored though. Nothing on TV Yourself?
Me: I'm great thanks, just listening to *samebandshelikes*. Never realised how awesome they are till like 2 weeks ago when I saw them at a concert.
Her: Really?! I love that band !
Continue from there.
05-06-2011, 07:25 AM #12
"Hey, youre my new facebook trophy wife, my old one got boring".
99% response rate. After this, make up some bullshat that regualr couples do, like ask wats for dinner etc, divorce her, then take her back. Roleplay it, seem interesting/fun.Ectomorphs getting swole crew
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05-06-2011, 07:46 AM #13
I once added a girl and I imed her "when you gunna let me tap dat ass"
Her reponse was simple, sorry I have a boyfriend (they broke up next day tho funny enough)
then it turns out one of my good buddies is friends with her, so now were sort of friends.
So to be on topic... just be like "yo when you gunna let me tap DAT ASS gurl" take pics of chat, k thx.Goal is 175lbs
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05-06-2011, 10:21 AM #15
oh oh or you can be like
you: Hey I love the jeans in your picture they are nice!
her: haha thanks yah!
you: what brand are they?
her: abercrombie pretty expenenvie :\.
you: oh wow, I know a play you can get them 100% off!
her: what?! where???
you: at my place.Goal is 175lbs
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05-06-2011, 11:21 AM #16
Something that will work.
you: hey, what's up?
her: Nothing much, you?
you: Can I ask you a question?
you: We're both attractive individuals. So, the big question is, why haven't we meet yet?
her: lol iduno
you: Lets make it happen. What's your number?Positivity is the key! :)
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