So question is in the title. This girl I've been talking to for a little while obviously likes me, and I'm sure she knows I like her too, in fact I think we hit a little 'break-through' where we were both unsure as to whether the other liked the other and then just a couple days ago we realized it was fairly obvious we're both into each other, made me real excited. So she went out of town this weekend, I texted her around noon said 'when you going to be back?' , she replies an hour later '6:30, why you ask?', well my phone was locked in my car with my keys and had to wait on AAA to come get them for me then I had to drive somewhere in a hurry, so it took me an 1 1/2 to text back 'I was thinking we could do something when you get back if you're up for it'... she never texts back. She playing games? Like I said unless she changed her mind about me over the weekend we definitely got something started.. but not a 'sure sounds good' or a 'I think I might be too tired'.. nothing... was she looking for a double text or you think she was pissed cause it took me 1.5 to get back to her.. like up my ante?
04-10-2011, 06:48 PM #1
Why Would A Girl That Likes You Not Text Back?
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Because she doesn't like you as much as you think. There is no other answer. You won't like this advice. You will try to rationalize it, refute it and give a long list of "but but but..." beta-ness. I don't care to hear it because it doesn't change the truth of the matter. It's time to move on. In fact, that may help you here because with many girls taking away attention is exactly what makes them come after you more.Do everything in your power to be legendary.
04-10-2011, 07:07 PM #6
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Calm down. Take it easy. You sound a bit desperate when you talk about her on here, so don't let that bleed over to your conversations with her.
Also 1 & 1/2 half hours isnt THAT long for her to wait, plus you did say that she took an hour to text you back, so its not like you did anything wrong.
Anytime a girl takes a long time to text back, you shouldn't text her back straight away anyway cos it will make you look desperate, like your not doing anything else other than hanging on her every word and she will get bored.
Buuuut as for why she didnt text back? **** knows. Could be any number of reasons. For all you know, she doesnt like you quite as much as you think she does.
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04-10-2011, 08:22 PM #8
Maybe she doesn't have her phone on her. Maybe she has it on silent. Maybe she accidentally locked her phone in her car with her keys and had to wait and hour and a half for AAA to come and get them for her.
Point being: She didn't respond to one of your texts one time. She'll probably text you again tomorrow or the next day. No need to stress out and start trying to ponder the mysteries of the female mind.
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dude stop worrying about it...lol at caring if you pissed her off by not responding for a while...1) i can assure u it didnt piss her off...2) you shouldnt give a fuk if it did
this is what u do at this point...u sent her a text asking to hang out..she didnt respond...either she isnt gonna respond at all or she will respond tomorrow or later tonight...if thats the case u answer and set something up...if she never responds...move the fuk on to someone else cause she wasnt as interested as you thought.....if a girl is interested in you..she will contact you..plain and simpleI rep back 1k+
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Take it from a girl- there are 3 possibilities that I see. 1) she is into you but doesn't want to show it because you took a while to reply & she took that as a hint that you might not be that into her. 2) She isn't into you (maybe she was when you hit the breakthrough or w/e) and that explains her short reply & also her late reply.
OR number 3) She just wasn't paying attention to her phone or something.
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Maybe she had explosive diarrhea and spent the time blowing bubbly stinking liquid out of her distended hairy arse hole at high pressure, then scraping the chunks off with TP until she was bleeding and then scrubbing out the crap fragments under her now fetid fingernails. Didn't you think of that OP? Pretty selfish if you ask me.Contrary to conspiracy theorists' hysteria, Obama is not going to declare martial law. I wager a 90-day banning with Invictus:
04-13-2011, 04:02 AM #17
anyways, not to reopen this can of worms, but so she texts me the next day around noon and apologizes for not texting me back says she fell asleep on the ride home and then passed out when she got to bed. I tell her that's fine and ask her if she wants to meet up for drinks soon and she says yes so we're going out soon...but honestly, I don't really believe she fell asleep at 2:30 when I texted her back all the way home and then went straight to bed.. I think there was some ****ed up women brain game component to it which is why I was asking.. can't help it I'm curious.. whatever.
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maybe has that 'complex', immediately thought that you're ignoring her so she does the same to you. Show your interest (dont overdo it) and if she likes you she will give you a chanceEither you don't try hard, or you don't try the right way.
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