My married friends are submissive to their wifes (man lands on moon) (no cliffs)

[ymer]

So I went out with some old friends from college and they brought their spouses and their kids. As for myself I'm married but trying to go through a civilized separation and divorce so I didn't bring her (lawyers are not involved and we are living in the same place as roomies/friends while our daughter is older).

For starters it's very hard to make a reunion because everyone is so busy and some of the wifes do not want them to go out on their own... so we had to meet for breakfast at some family restaurant.

Anyway, so we're having breakfast and one of my friends is watching and feeding two of his three kids while the wife is feeding the other one (baby), I ask him if he's going to eat and he says that he will after he's done feeding them, just like he does at home! The conversation goes on and I learn that he works 8-10hr a day while the wife stays home taking care of the baby while the other two kids are in kindergarten / school, he drives them to school everyday and takes care of them when he's back from work. This poor guy also started dating his wife who was a single mom at the time and my friend raised the boy as his own.

I could see how he has slowly been brainwashed into thinking it's totally fine for him to do 90% of the work while she calls all the shots. I felt really bad for him because he's a very good man and deserves a better woman, not some used up one that brainwashes him. The other friends were not as bad but I could see that in all the relationships the wife had the last word.

My advice to all my miscing bros, do not let a woman slowly wash away your spirit and take your balls, they are very good at that, please take care.

[dabbmw2002]

I have no compassion for simps. You made your bed you got to sleep in it

[Frank Drebin]

I always made sure my kids were fed before I ate.

I'm sure they take the divorced guy's advice seriously, though.

[DassItMan]

wives

[Stringer-Bell]

I'll never understand people like that... I know they all put on that mask of "I like this life, seeing my kids grow up, blah blah blah" but is it ever true? They all seem truly unhappy underneath it all.... I love being single, doubt I'll ever change, I'm having too much fun. I like having the option to go the family/kids route if I want, because once you're in family/kids mode you can't really go back to single mode, kids will be around for the rest of your life, divorce can hurt in many ways, etc.... let alone getting with some sloot who already has kids and raising some other guys children lol wow... I can't even comprehend it

I'm sure they take the divorced guy's advice seriously, though.

Is that a dig at OP? Yea because the sloot with kids to multiple different guys is way more noble and smarter than someone like OP who is going through a divorce

[Retoaded]

They have been nagged into submission.

[RudeKong]

Did he complain about it? Could be he just loves his kids and since he works so much he wants to spend as much time with them when he's not at work?

[ymer]

I always made sure my kids were fed before I ate.

I'm sure they take the divorced guy's advice seriously, though.

Sorry can't take a Canadian's opinion serious, your country voted Trudeu lmfao.

[meanstringbean]

Relationships with women is a war of attrition. They slowly start taking more and more until a Friday night beer with your boyos might as well be banging her sister. Most saps don’t have enough experience in this. Their wife is one of their first few relationships so they never learn to be a man and establish boundaries

I have a friend at work who pulls long hours in a stressful job while his stay at home mom wife does dick all and still talks about how women in society are oppressed. Cucks are born to cuck I guess

[Frank Drebin]

Is that a dig at OP? Yea because the sloot with kids to multiple different guys is way more noble and smarter than someone like OP who is going through a divorce

He's implying that

i) feeding your children before yourself
ii) works full time
iii) spends time with his kids before and after work

are somehow beta behavior. Yeah I'll take a dig at the divorced dude.

[dannyg1217]

Feeding your kids is a bad thing now? Taking your kids to school is bad? I guess we're doing all the wrong things.

Most fathers want to spend time with their kids and make sure they're eating right and healthy. Your friend messed up by marrying a chick with kids but not much else of your story sounds bad

[Frank Drebin]

Sorry can't take a Canadian's opinion serious, your country voted Trudeu lmfao.

#notmypm

[ymer]

He's implying that

i) feeding your children before yourself
ii) works full time
iii) spends time with his kids before and after work

are somehow beta behavior. Yeah I'll take a dig at the divorced dude.

Feeding your kids is a bad thing now? Taking your kids to school is bad? I guess we're doing all the wrong things.

Most fathers want to spend time with their kids and make sure they're eating right and healthy. Your friend messed up by marrying a chick with kids but not much else of your story sounds bad

It's not a bad thing to feed your kids.

The woman does fuk all everyday while the guy busts his ass, and the one time he gets to meet with his old friends she's not even willing of taking care of the children so he can have a good time for a couple of hours.

Cucks gonna cuck I guess.

[Frank Drebin]

It's not a bad thing to feed your kids.

The woman does fuk all everyday while the guy busts his ass, and the one time he gets to meet with his old friends she's not even willing of taking care of the children so he can have a good time for a couple of hours.

Cucks gonna cuck I guess.

I'm not sure what kind of behavior you expected at a family restaurant where you met to eat breakfast.

[ymer]

I'm not sure what kind of behavior you expected at a family restaurant where you met to eat breakfast.

You're too far gone to understand I guess.

[skeetzer]

once the woman gets used to a standard of living
its all over boyo, they become entitled

[Rojoh]

one time he gets to meet with his old friends she's not even willing of taking care of the children so he can have a good time

In the OP he said that the wife was feeding the baby. They both fed their children before eating.
You are an illiterate simpleton.

[Duckliver]

Cliffs:

OPs friends wife convinced ops friend to buy a family SUV
SUV fuked OPs wife
Op gets divorced and tries to meet up with friend where he find out it was the woman’s fault ops friend bought the suv with the dildo shifter
Op now sucks dink’s and drives a prius

[dannyg1217]

It's not a bad thing to feed your kids.

The woman does fuk all everyday while the guy busts his ass, and the one time he gets to meet with his old friends she's not even willing of taking care of the children so he can have a good time for a couple of hours.

Cucks gonna cuck I guess.

it goes back to, did he want to go solo or with the family. The only way he'd be a cuck is if he wanted to go solo and the wife made him take the family.

He's cucked because he married a slot with kids, not because he cares for his kids

[B0rntobeMild]

everytime i hear "happy wife, happy life" from these cucks i just cringe hard

[ANumber1]

What I've seen play out several times in my mid-30s is guys who were in hellacious relationships with drama-causing trainwreck women finally meet a decent one who has her chit together, and she doesn't have to browbeat him.

They're just so relieved to be away from the psycho broad, they become compliant to keep the peace with the new one because they feel lucky to have her at all. The first sloot was the marinade to beat him tender, the second sloot is the one that slowly cooks the poor bastard, spending all his money and making him do all the work while he feels grateful to have it happen.

A buddy of mine got away from a woman who was probably going to literally murder him one day, about the same time I helped him land a six-figure job. The next one, they knew each other from high school and she instantly introduced him to her two kids and convinced him to get a matching tattoo of the date they reunited. I could hardly believe how fast and deep she sunk her claws in.

My other friend - wouldn't go so far as to call him a buddy - hated his first wife so much I didn't even know he was married for years. He would just go around town like his house didn't exist. Turns out she was blackout drunk at all times. After the divorce, he met some military chick and now observes her religion's holidays and always poses with open-mouth nu-male smile in all pictures. He told me she's changed his whole outlook on spending money, to have more fun, which clearly meant taking her on vacation where she wants to go. Their wedding is next month.

I've said it before and I'll say it again, sloots are like the velociraptors in Jurassic Park, constantly testing the fences to see if the electricity is still on.

[KyleAaron]

I'm married but trying to go through a civilized separation and divorce [...]

My advice to all my miscing bros, do not let a woman slowly wash away your spirit and take your balls, they are very good at that, please take care.

What is it about having a failed marriage that makes you think your approach is worth repeating?

Next we'll have an unemployed guy give us career advice.

[ymer]

What is it about having a failed marriage that makes you think your approach is worth repeating?

Are you saying that the underlined part is bad advice?

[ymer]

Relationships with women is a war of attrition. They slowly start taking more and more until a Friday night beer with your boyos might as well be banging her sister. Most saps don’t have enough experience in this. Their wife is one of their first few relationships so they never learn to be a man and establish boundaries

Nicely put

[Adam16121]

It could just be that he does more than what should be expected of him because he loves his wife.

[hackerwacker]

Just look at Bill Burr for a prime example of what happens to men before and after marriage. Gone from a real dude who speaks his mind and chits on feminism and weak men, to a sad sack who's wife forces to go to therapy and isn't allowed to watch GoT because she thinks "white medieval" stuff is stupid

[SirBetalot]

Drove by your friends house earlier fukkin lol

https://imgur.com/a/T38uJOw

[DassItMan]

They have been negged* into submission.

ftfy

[KyleAaron]

Are you saying that the underlined part is bad advice?

In an absolute sense, no. In the sense it'll be interpreted by young single Miscers, yes.

Absolutely, it is not good for one person in a relationship to submit themselves to the other. But insecure young Miscers will interpret that as more MGTOW nonsense, and behave arrogantly and aggressively with the woman. "She wants to make me submit, I will make her submit first!" Viewing your relationship as an emotional wrestling competition is not a path to success. For example,

Relationships with women is a war of attrition.

I think it probable that meanstringbean is single, and if married, unhappily married. It's just the wrong attitude.

[A-GAME]

I have no compassion for simps. You made your bed you got to sleep in it

This. Whenever I see men getting cucked by their overbearing wives, I make sure to remind them they are men, not children. But the fact is they do it to themselves and have nobody else to blame.