I know this is an unoriginal thread, I won't deny it was inspired by the other thread of the same name, but this is something I really need to do to get over my confidence issues. I'm sure a lot of the approaches won't be interesting, just a simple hello, but for me that's a start.
I work full time in a government department with pretty much no women, so most of my approaches will be during my lunch break when I head to the local mall (always packed with HOT girls), otherwise I'll go somewhere at night like a supermarket if I don't get a chance during the day. I go out drinking most weekends (friday or saturday night) but I won't be counting any of the approaches I make when I'm out because I consider that something completely different, and not what I'm aiming for here.
I'll be starting tommorow and hope you guys can give me some support and maybe learn a thing or two from my failures
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09-06-2006, 03:58 AM #1
My own 100 approaches in 100 days.
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09-06-2006, 07:01 PM #11
good luck man, im still working on self-help so i will be confident in myself in all situations that doesnt really focus on girls...just confidence (every day body language, small talk, things im saying, etc).
But in about 4 months or so i plan to have myself where i want to be and start reading all David DeAngelo's books and videos and start focusing on girls. ill be doing my own 100 approaches in 100 days all while im reading the books and learning so that after those 100 days. Ill be good to F*cking go...
good luck over the next 100 days, and after your 100 days are over, ill be starting mine
edit - you have to update evryday too. This thread HAS to deliver. lol UPDATE OR NEGS*
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09-07-2006, 03:30 AM #12
Day #1
Well let me start by saying I'm very disappointed with myself, and the way that things turned out today. I went to the mall for lunch as planned, luckily the other guy that I usually get lunch with was having lunch with his gf, so it was just me. I spent an hour there, wandering around, in and out of shops. I said hi to one girl. One girl that worked at a shop and looked at me. It was the most pathetic conversation ever.
Me: Hi
Her: Hey
Then I lost the little nerve I had and left the shop. Not wanting to let myself or you guys down I got home and called my friends to see who would come to the local uni bar to hang out (not to get drunk), they were all "tired" so I went by myself. The place was full of guys, so I left after a bit of pool practice.
So here I am feeling pretty damn pathetic, most likely going to look at porn as usual and jerk off. I don't know why I'm finding it so hard to just start up a conversation with a random girl, it just feels wrong to me, like I'm harassing them or something...don't know. If I'm in a situation with a girl where we have something in common e.g. on a course together, I have no problem talking **** with her and getting along, but with no common ground, I just freeze up. This **** is getting me down...ah well I guess I'll see what happens tomorow...
edit: to the guy that asked...yep that's me in the photo...doesn't seem to help me with the ladies thoughLast edited by little0z; 09-07-2006 at 03:37 AM.
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09-07-2006, 03:33 AM #13
Sorry to laugh, but LOL. Reps for being honest.
Everyones been in a situation like that.
1 down 99 to go.
Try the 'hi my names mike, whats your name? Oh really, nice to meet you name. So, when are we going to ****?'
I'm going to try it 25 times this weekend, unless I get a black eye before.Last edited by animal-mother; 09-07-2006 at 03:37 AM.
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09-07-2006, 03:35 AM #14Originally Posted by animal-mother
Originally Posted by animal-motherLast edited by little0z; 09-07-2006 at 03:39 AM.
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09-07-2006, 03:45 AM #19Originally Posted by animal-mother
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09-07-2006, 03:59 AM #21Originally Posted by animal-mother
"I feel sorry for you"
"why?"
"having to ask every customer if they need help"
"yeah it sucks blah blah"
"some ****"
"blah"
"give me your phone number"
etc
but none approached me...and following one of the girls to the back of the store or wherever they were would be a bit weird...
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09-07-2006, 04:01 AM #22
I dunno about these yanks mate and what they do at the "mall" .. but seriously .. how many times have you seen anyone randomly approach a random in a ****ing shopping centre in Australia?
dead set.. it's not normal.
I see people posting in that PUA thread **** like "yeah just hang out at the mall all day .. wander up to chicks walking along"
Can you imagine walking along and some random **** comes up and is in your face with a cheesy smile and a hello? Especially when he is sweating from all sweatbox compartments and is obviously nervous?
You would be grabbing your handbag and avoiding eye contact, thinking he has a mental disorder or im about to get raped.
Stick to scenarios where meeting random people is accepted behaviour .. eg. bar, lecture, tutorial, school, book club, sport, mates of mates
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09-07-2006, 04:08 AM #25Originally Posted by Ripped_carnt
You're right...I've had random people approach me before and just start talking...who were mentally disabled. By the way it is a "mall"...get Americanized damn you
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09-07-2006, 04:27 AM #26
Shopping mall is actually a pretty good place, try the 'hey would you mind helping me find something that fits me nice" and carry it on from their, "hey I really thank you for helpin me out, we should get together sometime"
If its a random chicky, look at what shes doing, what shes wearing, whose she with? theres lots of things to spark a convo, if shes wearing something that catches ur eye, comment on that...
Good luck
Lifter,"Absorb what is useful, reject what is useless." Bruce Lee
"The pain of bodybuilding is inevitable, but whether you suffer or not is entirely up to you."
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09-07-2006, 04:38 AM #27Originally Posted by _Lifter4Life_
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09-07-2006, 05:33 AM #29
I just remembered I did chat up another girl this morning. I was waiting in line to use an ATM, she was standing behind me, next in line. A cold gust of wind blew and messed up her hair, she looked at me, a twinkle in her eye. "Pretty cold eh?" I said, she mumbled something about Winter, in her sexy Russian accent, then I used the ATM and we parted ways.
She couldn't have been much older than 80...that counts right? Ok now I need sleep...let's see how tomorrow goes...
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09-07-2006, 05:41 AM #30Originally Posted by little0z
Reps
good luck sir
edit*You have given out too much Reputation in the last 24 hours, try again later.The Answer you are looking for is SQUATS AND MILK
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