was i wrong? virgin girl?

[Mudkip]

cliffs:
- started dating girl
- first date she flaunts shes a virgin
- [this makes me believe shes a lying slut]
- i fall in love w/ her so i don't care [shes nervous around me and we bond well]
- things progress she talks about if i eat pussy [i confirm]
- i try to please her want of being eaten because i wanted to make her happy
- eat her, she orgasms, i get up just barley undoing my zipper she stops me
- she just ****in says don't get greedy now, and it ends, we leave.
- i'm ****ing enraged as **** how do you lead that on to a lover and not return it???
- afterwords she says she wants to suck me and wants me in her, but she blows the date off everytime.

this just ****ing ticks me off YOUR GONNA LEAD ME EATING U AND GIVE NOTHING BACK????

- i leave, cheat and have sex with her friend
- i ignore all her calls and don't let her know anything
- realize maybe i was rushing and i was wrong? and talk to her
- [in tears] she confesses she was raped when she was 14 and was scared to have sex
- im still ****ing pissed and think its just an excuse.
- i call her a selfish, ugly, lying, goldigging whore
- years later i find out she really was raped at 14 and never had sex after that
- i confess i cheated cause she didnt return the favor
- she now dates only women and is bi-sexual, still a "virgin" and is extremely chauvinistic
- shes pissed but still has feeling for me and i try to start over but no progress

should i fix it? or leave it.. i still have strong feelings for her but that selfish act makes me ****ing pissed as hell and i start saying hurtful **** to her and it just messes everything up

[Candees]

leave it.

she should consult therapy. It's not your fault, although it's a pretty bum move to cheat on her with her friend because she wouldn't return the favor. You should have just dumped her after she kept making promises and blowing you off.

[DreamUFC88]

If she got raped when she was 14 then she's not a virgin. Really sucks that you got ****ed like that, **** pisses me off, has happened to me a couple of times, I get so ****ing mad, but theres nothing you can do.

[Mudkip]

If she got raped when she was 14 then she's not a virgin. Really sucks that you got ****ed like that, **** pisses me off, has happened to me a couple of times, I get so ****ing mad, but theres nothing you can do.

what did you do just let it go? im still enraged as hell

[DreamUFC88]

what did you do just let it go? im still enraged as hell

Well more like having sex, and then girl thinks her parents are home and freaks out and puts on all her clothes. Or she hears something and doesn't want to have sex anymore. Starts giving me a handjob, but then stops. All have been times when I was turned on and I didn't finish, and I was pissed. Pretty much have to finish myself, and then I am just pissed off. Theres no way that you can just stop being angry, atleast for me, I get angry as hell all the time. So when something like this happens it just ****s up the mood. I feel you though, ****ing sucks.

[TheCoffinDancer]

nah, leave it. you won't be able to help her. if you have a past that affects you so negatively, it's only the individual that can help themselves and move on from it. you made some bad choices, but i guess just learn from it on not to handle a situation so harshly without knowing the full situation. but as for her...nobody can really help her unless she wants to help herself, and if she hates men because of her experiences, then speaking to a man (particularly one that gets pissed off about her not returning the favor, so to speak), then it really isn't going to help her at all. like i said, learn from the situation and move on. you can't help them all.

and you shouldn't be so pissed about it. if she really did get raped, then obviously she hasn't handled it the right way, and it's messed her up. she shouldn't have led you on, but women do that, and maybe she wanted to but backed out because she was scared. it sucks, but it's completely over now, so don't even bother feeling mad about it. but lol...you didn't please her because you wanted to make her happy. it was so you could get something from it. or at least 50/50. otherwise you wouldn't be so mad about it. i often eat out my girlfriend without expecting anything back. but i guess my relationship is different to what you're describing. either way...nothing productive will come out of you getting mad about it. and you won't be able to help her unless she knows she needs help. she'll open her eyes in her own time.

[XtotalimmortalX]

Leave it alone op, sounds like years of therapy ahead for her and tons of drama. If she was raped, its not her fault, but are you prepared to deal with her remembering the rape possibly every time you two go to have sex?

[INegUThenCry]

what did you do just let it go? im still enraged as hell

Don't go there bra, girls who are molested are just fundamentally broken for life, you have no obligation to play her therapist

No I'm seriously not being alpha miscer here, was with a girl like that, they are just unstable and no fun to be with. Do you want to walk around on eggshelves for your whole life, wondering what other minor thing will set off another freakout of her?

[Mudkip]

If she got raped when she was 14 then she's not a virgin. Really sucks that you got ****ed like that, **** pisses me off, has happened to me a couple of times, I get so ****ing mad, but theres nothing you can do.

Well more like having sex, and then girl thinks her parents are home and freaks out and puts on all her clothes. Or she hears something and doesn't want to have sex anymore. Starts giving me a handjob, but then stops. All have been times when I was turned on and I didn't finish, and I was pissed. Pretty much have to finish myself, and then I am just pissed off. Theres no way that you can just stop being angry, atleast for me, I get angry as hell all the time. So when something like this happens it just ****s up the mood. I feel you though, ****ing sucks.

nah, leave it. you won't be able to help her. if you have a past that affects you so negatively, it's only the individual that can help themselves and move on from it. you made some bad choices, but i guess just learn from it on not to handle a situation so harshly without knowing the full situation. but as for her...nobody can really help her unless she wants to help herself, and if she hates men because of her experiences, then speaking to a man (particularly one that gets pissed off about her not returning the favor, so to speak), then it really isn't going to help her at all. like i said, learn from the situation and move on. you can't help them all.

and you shouldn't be so pissed about it. if she really did get raped, then obviously she hasn't handled it the right way, and it's messed her up. she shouldn't have led you on, but women do that, and maybe she wanted to but backed out because she was scared. it sucks, but it's completely over now, so don't even bother feeling mad about it. but lol...you didn't please her because you wanted to make her happy. it was so you could get something from it. or at least 50/50. otherwise you wouldn't be so mad about it. i often eat out my girlfriend without expecting anything back. but i guess my relationship is different to what you're describing. either way...nothing productive will come out of you getting mad about it. and you won't be able to help her unless she knows she needs help. she'll open her eyes in her own time.

Leave it alone op, sounds like years of therapy ahead for her and tons of drama. If she was raped, its not her fault, but are you prepared to deal with her remembering the rape possibly every time you two go to have sex?

Don't go there bra, girls who are molested are just fundamentally broken for life, you have no obligation to play her therapist

No I'm seriously not being alpha miscer here, was with a girl like that, they are just unstable and no fun to be with. Do you want to walk around on eggshelves for your whole life, wondering what other minor thing will set off another freakout of her?

thanks alot guys i guess all i can do is leave it..... god i just want that selfish **** to suck my dick, make it even and call it a day its not that hard.... its so annoying while having sex or bj by other women i keep remembering her selfish deed and it kills my mood/erection.. im traumatized -_-

[TheCoffinDancer]

thanks alot guys i guess all i can do is leave it..... god i just want that selfish **** to suck my dick, make it even and call it a day its not that hard.... its so annoying while having sex or bj by other women i keep remembering her selfish deed and it kills my mood/erection.. im traumatized -_-

girl gets raped. guy says 'suck me off and then i'll go'. lol love indeed. you'd only end up traumatizing her even more. how can it piss you off so much that it still bothers you now? your bitterness is the only thing stopping you from moving on now, so you definitely need to learn how to deal with that, or you're just screwed.

[Mudkip]

girl gets raped. guy says 'suck me off and then i'll go'. lol love indeed. you'd only end up traumatizing her even more. how can it piss you off so much that it still bothers you now? your bitterness is the only thing stopping you from moving on now, so you definitely need to learn how to deal with that, or you're just screwed.

is it wrong to want it back??? i mean it goes both ways for men and women ...

[INegUThenCry]

is it wrong to want it back??? i mean it goes both ways for men and women ...

dude just let it go already, it has been how many years already? you're only undermining your own happyness by constantly sipping on that Hate-o-Rade

[LastRule]

Go have sex with a girl that isn't phucked up

[FortFrolic]

Wow wow wow wow wow.

Am I seriously the only guy will be put up with most bull**** just because of the far they've been raped?

I would never lose my **** on a girl just in case.... THEN AGAIN, I can normally tell. 100% serious. I almost always know if she has a dark past.

But bro, you dun goofed ****ing hard. Didn't even read replies, but this chick should not be in your life anymore. She made her choices, whatever, move on.

[jamestown0101]

leave it.

she should consult therapy. It's not your fault, although it's a pretty bum move to cheat on her with her friend because she wouldn't return the favor. You should have just dumped her after she kept making promises and blowing you off.

Some bitches are just ****ed man. One girl told me "I see ghosts/dead people." It reminded me of the 6th sense. ****ing twisted brod. I didn't even bother to hit it. I disregarded it. In future, be a little more aggressive. Don't eat pussy. Get her to suck your cock. Its funny, I've been in situations where, chicks wont put out right away, let me **** them but, they suck my cock, and swallow. Its funny too how, you go from strangers to, her sucking your dick. Its a good story but, its funny how it all works.

Disregard her man. Next girl!

[aa90b]

cliffs:
- started dating girl
- first date she flaunts shes a virgin
- [this makes me believe shes a lying slut]
- i fall in love w/ her so i don't care [shes nervous around me and we bond well]
- things progress she talks about if i eat pussy [i confirm]
- i try to please her want of being eaten because i wanted to make her happy
- eat her, she orgasms, i get up just barley undoing my zipper she stops me
- she just ****in says don't get greedy now, and it ends, we leave.
- i'm ****ing enraged as **** how do you lead that on to a lover and not return it???
- afterwords she says she wants to suck me and wants me in her, but she blows the date off everytime.

this just ****ing ticks me off YOUR GONNA LEAD ME EATING U AND GIVE NOTHING BACK????

- i leave, cheat and have sex with her friend
- i ignore all her calls and don't let her know anything
- realize maybe i was rushing and i was wrong? and talk to her
- [in tears] she confesses she was raped when she was 14 and was scared to have sex
- im still ****ing pissed and think its just an excuse.
- i call her a selfish, ugly, lying, goldigging whore
- years later i find out she really was raped at 14 and never had sex after that
- i confess i cheated cause she didnt return the favor
- she now dates only women and is bi-sexual, still a "virgin" and is extremely chauvinistic
- shes pissed but still has feeling for me and i try to start over but no progress

should i fix it? or leave it.. i still have strong feelings for her but that selfish act makes me ****ing pissed as hell and i start saying hurtful **** to her and it just messes everything up

Wtf, STRONG overreaction. You know this chick was raped, and you're still pissed YEARS LATER, that she didn't give you a BJ? Pissed enough that it affects your sex life with other women...

Sounds like you have just as many issues as she does. I was pissed right along with you, until you mentioned she was raped and that this happened years ago. You both let something from the past affect your sex life. The only difference is she was traumatized, and you just didn't get a BJ. Pussy.

[DrZaius]

Girl was better off without you OP, she doesnt give you a bj so you sleep with her friend, then she tells you she was raped and you basically destroyed her. Strong jackass.

[gswarrior510]

Girl was better off without you OP, she doesnt give you a bj so you sleep with her friend, then she tells you she was raped and you basically destroyed her. Strong jackass.

i dont see how here getting raped has anything to do with asking op to eat her out and then not doing **** back. ok she got raped, so what? let's base her whole life around that second so she can have an excuse for every guy.

NEXT

i dont see why you are so stuck on her. ok, she wants to be a lesbian or w/e..**** her then, is there not enough girls?

[Rockchalk0420]

leave it..too much baggage.

[lexinak]

cliffs:
- started dating girl
- first date she flaunts shes a virgin
- [this makes me believe shes a lying slut]
- i fall in love w/ her so i don't care [shes nervous around me and we bond well]
- things progress she talks about if i eat pussy [i confirm]
- i try to please her want of being eaten because i wanted to make her happy
- eat her, she orgasms, i get up just barley undoing my zipper she stops me
- she just ****in says don't get greedy now, and it ends, we leave.
- i'm ****ing enraged as **** how do you lead that on to a lover and not return it???
- afterwords she says she wants to suck me and wants me in her, but she blows the date off everytime.

this just ****ing ticks me off YOUR GONNA LEAD ME EATING U AND GIVE NOTHING BACK????

- i leave, cheat and have sex with her friend
- i ignore all her calls and don't let her know anything
- realize maybe i was rushing and i was wrong? and talk to her
- [in tears] she confesses she was raped when she was 14 and was scared to have sex
- im still ****ing pissed and think its just an excuse.
- i call her a selfish, ugly, lying, goldigging whore
- years later i find out she really was raped at 14 and never had sex after that
- i confess i cheated cause she didnt return the favor
- she now dates only women and is bi-sexual, still a "virgin" and is extremely chauvinistic
- shes pissed but still has feeling for me and i try to start over but no progress

should i fix it? or leave it.. i still have strong feelings for her but that selfish act makes me ****ing pissed as hell and i start saying hurtful **** to her and it just messes everything up

Dude, leave her alone. You had your chance and you blew it. Because of you her two major sexual experiences with guys were 1. being violently sexually assaulted and 2. being verbally abused as if she was responsible for being raped in the first place. No ****ing wonder she's chauvinistic and only dates women.

[Candees]

thanks alot guys i guess all i can do is leave it..... god i just want that selfish **** to suck my dick, make it even and call it a day its not that hard.... its so annoying while having sex or bj by other women i keep remembering her selfish deed and it kills my mood/erection.. im traumatized -_-

I love how op completely disregarded me when handing out thanks despite I said to leave it first.

negged 4 rudeness

[.aeterna]

i think you both have ****in issues...

[Mudkip]

Dude, leave her alone. You had your chance and you blew it. Because of you her two major sexual experiences with guys were 1. being violently sexually assaulted and 2. being verbally abused as if she was responsible for being raped in the first place. No ****ing wonder she's chauvinistic and only dates women.

damn never thought of it that way.......thx brah <3 damn..

I love how op completely disregarded me when handing out thanks despite I said to leave it first.

negged 4 rudeness

sry brahthor

[SaliorUSN]

nah, leave it. you won't be able to help her. if you have a past that affects you so negatively, it's only the individual that can help themselves and move on from it. you made some bad choices, but i guess just learn from it on not to handle a situation so harshly without knowing the full situation. but as for her...nobody can really help her unless she wants to help herself, and if she hates men because of her experiences, then speaking to a man (particularly one that gets pissed off about her not returning the favor, so to speak), then it really isn't going to help her at all. like i said, learn from the situation and move on. you can't help them all.

and you shouldn't be so pissed about it. if she really did get raped, then obviously she hasn't handled it the right way, and it's messed her up. she shouldn't have led you on, but women do that, and maybe she wanted to but backed out because she was scared. it sucks, but it's completely over now, so don't even bother feeling mad about it. but lol...you didn't please her because you wanted to make her happy. it was so you could get something from it. or at least 50/50. otherwise you wouldn't be so mad about it. i often eat out my girlfriend without expecting anything back. but i guess my relationship is different to what you're describing. either way...nothing productive will come out of you getting mad about it. and you won't be able to help her unless she knows she needs help. she'll open her eyes in her own time.

This^^^
rep
I hope you learn from this, so that in your future relationships, you stop being selfish, because being selfish will never lead you into a happy long lasting relationship.

[marcwagz]

ugh... people like OP making good girls lesbians.

[Candees]

sry brahthor

It's okay, I negged you and immediately felt better after wards.

[janky]

It's okay, I negged you and immediately felt better after wards.

LOL! I'm sure your .05 worth of rep point deduction was such a devestating blow to his life.
U mad I got you on re?

[janky]

cliffs:
- started dating girl
- first date she flaunts shes a virgin
- [this makes me believe shes a lying slut]

Or psycho, but good call.

- i fall in love w/ her so i don't care [shes nervous around me and we bond well]

Little quick there buddy...

- things progress she talks about if i eat pussy [i confirm]
- i try to please her want of being eaten because i wanted to make her happy
- eat her, she orgasms, i get up just barley undoing my zipper she stops me
- she just ****in says don't get greedy now, and it ends, we leave.

"Eat my pussy, but I'm not doing sht back... and YOU dont be greedy"
Sure. Makes perfect sense.

- i'm ****ing enraged as **** how do you lead that on to a lover and not return it???
- afterwords she says she wants to suck me and wants me in her, but she blows the date off everytime.

this just ****ing ticks me off YOUR GONNA LEAD ME EATING U AND GIVE NOTHING BACK????

Don't blame ya. I'd be mad too. She has exhibited utter selfishness and absolutely ZERO willingness to reciprocate. To me, this right here is enough to conclude shes a selfish bitch that thinks the world revolves around her.

- i leave, cheat and have sex with her friend
- i ignore all her calls and don't let her know anything

Smart man.

- realize maybe i was rushing and i was wrong? and talk to her

Maybe not so smart...

- [in tears] she confesses she was raped when she was 14 and was scared to have sex
- im still ****ing pissed and think its just an excuse.
- i call her a selfish, ugly, lying, goldigging whore
- years later i find out she really was raped at 14 and never had sex after that

How is that your fault or even your problem? So what? Tragic, sure, but does that give her the right to take it out on every single guy she dates for the rest of her life? Fuk no.
And should you have to put up with her treating you like sht just because of some sht you had nothing to do with? Fuk nah.

- i confess i cheated cause she didnt return the favor
- she now dates only women and is bi-sexual, still a "virgin" and is extremely chauvinistic
- shes pissed but still has feeling for me and i try to start over but no progress

Strong maturity. What is this bitch, 12? "I want you to do what I tell you, but I wont do anything for you, and then when you express you're angry about my disrespect, ill blame it on my past. Oh, you're still angry? Well then all men must be sht so I'll just like women and blindly hate an entire gender because one guy (rightfully) got mad at me for acting stupid!"
Cool fukking story.

should i fix it? or leave it.. i still have strong feelings for her but that selfish act makes me ****ing pissed as hell and i start saying hurtful **** to her and it just messes everything up

Wtf that's a real question?
Chalk it up to a loss and delete this bitch from your life. Just tell her "pretend we never met" and you do the same.
You're better than this, and she needs a fukkin wake up call.

[Lottabody]

Am I the only one who thinks this guy is a huge assh0le?

[janky]

Am I the only one who thinks this guy is a huge assh0le?

Yep.
That bitch was completely irrational. She is expecting him to be a good little servant boy and do what he's told, but shes not willing to do anything for him at all! That's crap.

On top of that, she's incredibly immature and juvenile. How is OP an ass hole for not putting up with her sht and getting what he wants elsewhere?