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    Do you let your girlfriend go through your phone?

    I don't have anything that I don't want my girlfriend to see but I kinda feel like we should have some level of privacy.

    She even said that she'd let me look through hers but I told her I trust and her and don't want to see it.

    What do you guys think?
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    i did. now i understand why people don't. lack of trust. snoop snoop snoop. face it women want to be jealous. for possible future gfs i'd lock my phone.
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    Absolutely not. Not even just to use the calculator. Even if you have nothing to hide, it's a principle about respect and privacy.

    That being said I'm no hypocrite; never go through a girl's phone. 2 years with a chick and I couldn't tell you if she had an iPhone or a BlackBerry.
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    when I was in a relationship I would, however I was in another one I certainly wouldn't... I never had anything to hide, and no reason for them not to trust me, and that's all there is too.. despite being in a serious relationship, it's imperative to maintain a level of privacy (respectively)
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    There's really no need for her to be going through your phone...the whole respect, trust, and privacy thing and whatnot.

    On the other hand, if you're in a serious relationship you shouldn't have anything to hide anyway...and if you do then obviously you're not taking the relationship seriously in the first place.
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    If she's a serious girlfriend yes, and not a single fuk will be given that day.
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    I don't really have anything to hide so its not a big issue.

    That being said, if she find something in my phone that pisses her off and she starts sooking she can GTFO.
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    Originally Posted by Eruption View Post
    i did. now i understand why people don't. lack of trust. snoop snoop snoop. face it women want to be jealous. for possible future gfs i'd lock my phone.
    No you face it, a lot of men who bring up a big deal about trust will/are probably cheat(ing).

    Having said that, I wouldn't even bother with a guy that I must snoop through his phone because I already know he's cheating.

    However, if and when people feel there is just cause to do it, their gut is probably right.
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    Originally Posted by ll ReNeGaDe ll View Post
    If she's a serious girlfriend yes, and not a single fuk will be given that day.
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    uhmm why would you let her?????

    is she a detective? Does she work for the cia? Why does she need to see your phone??? Clearly she doesnt trust you for ****, sucks bro. Get a new girl, one that doesnt need to check your phone to know youre not playing her....
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    Originally Posted by DollarAndADream View Post
    I don't have anything that I don't want my girlfriend to see but I kinda feel like we should have some level of privacy.

    She even said that she'd let me look through hers but I told her I trust and her and don't want to see it.

    What do you guys think?
    This is ALWAYS bad news.

    It sets the expectation that you're ok with her going through your stuff. It starts with your phone, then it's your facebook, then its every fukking thing you own.
    Not to mention, people that do this (male or female) are intentionally LOOKING for reasons to go off or even loosely justify something as "cheating" or "lying".
    Why the fukk people want to INVITE that kind of drama is beyond me.

    If you feel the need to act like a private investigator (or probation officer) in a relationship, either you've got some growing up to do, or you shouldn't be dating someone you can't trust.
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    Depends on the situation I think. If it's a snooping/checking up on someone type of thing where they check it every day or after every phone call then something is wrong there. Not sure what I'd call it but I wouldn't use the word "trust". Some people are just fuking nosy and some aren't. Like if you leave your facebook open.. most girls cannot resist snooping around in there. And the second they see something they don't like..whether it's telling some girl from the other side of the planet she looks hot.. or some type of f'd up comment you'd normally keep to yourself or on the internet... that could start drama.

    I don't really keep anyting on my phone to give a fuk about who goes through it. My mom can go through it for all I care.

    My laptop on the other hand.. GTFO
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    I would tell her no, straight up. She will prob be upset for a bit but I can bs my out way easily.


    But that's because I have a LOT of things I don't want her to see... lol
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    I'm with you.


    My ex had once asked to look through my phone and I refused. He said he wouldn't hesitate to show me his since he had nothing to hide and if the same is true for me, I would hand it over. I had nothing to hide but what's mine is mine.


    I had no interest in looking in his phone, never did. That demonstrates lack of respect and privacy. It also comes off as insecure to me.


    As far as checking phones if questionable behavior arises, I wouldn't know how to go about that.
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    she dont trust you at all if she goings threw your phone. my girl did that once, **** didnt go good lol
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    Originally Posted by janky View Post
    This is ALWAYS bad news.

    It sets the expectation that you're ok with her going through your stuff. It starts with your phone, then it's your facebook, then its every fukking thing you own.
    Not to mention, people that do this (male or female) are intentionally LOOKING for reasons to go off or even loosely justify something as "cheating" or "lying".
    Why the fukk people want to INVITE that kind of drama is beyond me.

    If you feel the need to act like a private investigator (or probation officer) in a relationship, either you've got some growing up to do, or you shouldn't be dating someone you can't trust.
    Whoa dude....you fawking nailed it. Truth be told, if you dig deep enough, you are gonna find something about someone that you don't wanna know....so why would you go through/let someone go through your phone?? Eff that.
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    Originally Posted by janky View Post
    This is ALWAYS bad news.

    It sets the expectation that you're ok with her going through your stuff. It starts with your phone, then it's your facebook, then its every fukking thing you own.
    Not to mention, people that do this (male or female) are intentionally LOOKING for reasons to go off or even loosely justify something as "cheating" or "lying".
    Why the fukk people want to INVITE that kind of drama is beyond me.

    If you feel the need to act like a private investigator (or probation officer) in a relationship, either you've got some growing up to do, or you shouldn't be dating someone you can't trust.
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    Originally Posted by janky View Post
    This is ALWAYS bad news.

    It sets the expectation that you're ok with her going through your stuff. It starts with your phone, then it's your facebook, then its every fukking thing you own.
    Not to mention, people that do this (male or female) are intentionally LOOKING for reasons to go off or even loosely justify something as "cheating" or "lying".
    Why the fukk people want to INVITE that kind of drama is beyond me.

    If you feel the need to act like a private investigator (or probation officer) in a relationship, either you've got some growing up to do, or you shouldn't be dating someone you can't trust.
    I agree. Once I told her no she was mad for about 10 seconds then got over it anyway.
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    I don't really care if my wife goes through my phone. I have been in Iraq for 9 months so I don't remember is she goes through my phone or not but I don't remember it being a big deal.

    I have nothing to hide so if that is all I have to do to make her happy, too easy.
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    Originally Posted by liferzach View Post
    BTW, Janky has solid advice. If more of the misc listened to him, we wouldn't be surrounded by insecure virgins.
    Funny, from what I noticed its the women and the male virgins who are quick to use the insecurity card.

    I'm far from a virgin, and I've gone through my girl's stuff and she's gone through mine. Not a single fuk was given that day. It doesn't matter who your girlfriend is, if you 100% trust your woman and don't need to verify during the first year or so of the relationship you are naive as fuk and stuck with the clueless virgin-like attitude of her being a precious little snowflake who could never do anything wrong.
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    Originally Posted by ll ReNeGaDe ll View Post
    Funny, from what I noticed its the women and the male virgins who are quick to use the insecurity card.
    ^
    This.

    I'm far from a virgin, and I've gone through my girl's stuff and she's gone through mine. Not a single fuk was given that day. It doesn't matter who your girlfriend is, if you 100% trust your woman and don't need to verify during the first year or so of the relationship you are naive as fuk and stuck with the clueless virgin-like attitude of her being a precious little snowflake who could never do anything wrong.
    QFT.

    However scheming and scandalous you think your woman is, multiply it several times and you'll probably be getting closer to her actual "sly rat cunning" quotient.
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    sounds like SHE has trust issues.
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    Originally Posted by ll ReNeGaDe ll View Post
    Funny, from what I noticed its the women and the male virgins who are quick to use the insecurity card.

    I'm far from a virgin, and I've gone through my girl's stuff and she's gone through mine. Not a single fuk was given that day. It doesn't matter who your girlfriend is, if you 100% trust your woman and don't need to verify during the first year or so of the relationship you are naive as fuk and stuck with the clueless virgin-like attitude of her being a precious little snowflake who could never do anything wrong.
    So you're saying you HAVE to do this? I dont know if I'm reading your post right.
    You're saying you HAVE to check up each others **** in the first year to verify?
    That sounds very insecure to me. It's like saying "I KNOW you're up to something and IM gunna find it!!"
    Why would you go into things expecting the worst and then digging to try and prove yourself right?

    In the early stages of relationships people are just tapering off from all the other people they were talking to while "playing the field"... you're bound to see a text or pic of a guy with his shirt off if its the first month or so. No one just sits around single talking to ONE person at a time lol..

    If you're 3-4 mos in and still feel the need to go through each other's sht looking for reasons to justify cheating, well, that's practically the definition of insecure IMO.

    From dictionary.com
    in·se·cure   
    [in-si-kyoor]
    –adjective
    1.
    subject to fears, doubts, etc.; not self-confident or assured: an insecure person
    Besides, If you don't trust someone that far in quit wasting your fukkin time yanno?
    You should never have to "check up" on your partner. If you do that's a really bad sign. Regardless of if it's your bad or hers, either way, things will be ending soon.
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    Originally Posted by janky View Post
    So you're saying you HAVE to do this? I dont know if I'm reading your post right.
    You're saying you HAVE to check up each others **** in the first year to verify?
    That sounds very insecure to me. It's like saying "I KNOW you're up to something and IM gunna find it!!"
    Why would you go into things expecting the worst and then digging to try and prove yourself right?
    You don't have to do sh*t. It depends how smart you are IMO. If you've only been with a girl a year and you still think she's a precious little snowflake who can do no wrong, you're naive as fuk.

    In the early stages of relationships people are just tapering off from all the other people they were talking to while "playing the field"... you're bound to see a text or pic of a guy with his shirt off if its the first month or so. No one just sits around single talking to ONE person at a time lol..

    If you're 3-4 mos in and still feel the need to go through each other's sht looking for reasons to justify cheating, well, that's practically the definition of insecure IMO.

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    Since everyone is subjected to doubts about one thing or another, that definition would make all 7 billion people on this planet insecure. "Trust but verify" during the the first phase of the relationship is not insecurity, its just smart.

    "of course she's cheating me I'm ugly waaah foreveralone.jpg" = insecurity
    "let's verify that I can trust her not to be a typical whore" = Smart.

    Besides, If you don't trust someone that far in quit wasting your fukkin time yanno?
    In that case, intelligent men should never ever be in a relationship, since they're smart enough to know their girlfriend is probably not a heavenly blessed snowflake who can do no wrong.

    You should never have to "check up" on your partner. If you do that's a really bad sign. Regardless of if it's your bad or hers, either way, things will be ending soon.
    That (much like the rest of your post) is the product of feminist brainwashing via hollywood. During our first year, I checked up on my current girl, and she checked up on me -- and not a single fuk was given that year. In fact, me finding her rebuttals to men is probably what gained my trust for her, and we're stronger as a couple today because of it.






















    By the way -- the females are agreeing with you. That is a strong indicator that you need to reassess the way you think.
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    I think its "not a single **** was given" when you DONT go through eachother's phones. In all honesty why do I want to see his phone? If he has something to hide thats his problem and on his conscience. At least Ill know I wasnt the psycho bitch that led him to it. Couples who check eachothers phones are very plainly missing trust and lack confidence in eachother. Simply by telling my bf I dont care what he does on his phone allows us to further trust one another more.
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    My wife and I facebook passwords are the same along with everything else but we never go through each others stuff. We have respect for each others privacy along with trust. Something she seems to lack . Might as well dump her because it's not going to work.
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    Originally Posted by ll ReNeGaDe ll View Post
    Funny, from what I noticed its the women and the male virgins who are quick to use the insecurity card.

    I'm far from a virgin, and I've gone through my girl's stuff and she's gone through mine. Not a single fuk was given that day. It doesn't matter who your girlfriend is, if you 100% trust your woman and don't need to verify during the first year or so of the relationship you are naive as fuk and stuck with the clueless virgin-like attitude of her being a precious little snowflake who could never do anything wrong.
    C'mon, man. I'm 28yo and married bro. Still thinking I should be checking my girls phone? Really, I don't care what is on there. Believe it or not, some women are not whores. If I wanted to know what she has been texting, I could just get the juicy details from verizon. Some shiit you just don't have to know. At this point, I would feel beta if I said, let me go through your phone....

    Also, she doesn't go through mine either. Not for the fact that I may be hiding anything, but sometimes I receive messages from friends that they trust me to not show to anyone...like if they are having probs or something and want only me to know....etc

    "OMG she got a text from a guy, brb dumping that whore." rowfles.
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    Originally Posted by liferzach View Post
    C'mon, man. I'm 28yo and married bro. Still thinking I should be checking my girls phone? Really, I don't care what is on there. Believe it or not, some women are not whores. If I wanted to know what she has been texting, I could just get the juicy details from verizon. Some shiit you just don't have to know. At this point, I would feel beta if I said, let me go through your phone....

    Also, she doesn't go through mine either. Not for the fact that I may be hiding anything, but sometimes I receive messages from friends that they trust me to not show to anyone...like if they are having probs or something and want only me to know....etc

    "OMG she got a text from a guy, brb dumping that whore." rowfles.
    That's why I said during the first phase of the relationship. If she earned your trust she earned your trust.

    But to call verification procedures "insecurity" is feminine as fuk. Insecurity refers to lack of doubt in yourself, not lack of doubt in other people.
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