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    When a girl cancels a date, do you call her again?

    So, I was planning on going on two dates this weekend. The first girl was a first date and she texted me saying that she couldn't go because she was really tired and needed to sleep before work. This was a pretty reasonable explanation as she works two jobs and needed to work the graveyard shift again that night. The second girl was a second date and she texted me and said she had the flu. Reasonable explanation, I suppose. So, anyway, do you think I should call either of these girls again or should I write them both off as losses?
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    Ignore them even if they contact you, at least for a while

    make sure you don't contact them
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    At first I was writing about what I'd do if they stood you up, but re-reading...

    I would probably hit them back with a short-n-sweet line along the lines of, "can't say i didn't try ". They will most likely respond to it and that's where you DO NOT respond. Wait for them to initiate contact again and then playfully tell them "you owe me a date. where are you taking me?"

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    I would not contact them again until they contact you.
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    The second girl was lying to you.
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    Originally Posted by UMADSON View Post
    Ignore them even if they contact you, at least for a while

    make sure you don't contact them
    This. Also, the first one's excuse if incredibly lame and indicates little interest. She should have known about the scheduling in advance.
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    The ball is in their court and its their prerogative to contact you. If they dont then move on.

    By the way, they were both lying to you.
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    Both excuses sound really questionable tbh.

    Let them contact you. If they don't then who cares.
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    Yeah they were lying, but dont take it as a diss to yourself, you just didnt build enough interest. Women are the epitome of opportunity they take the least path of resistance every time.

    You need to realize that they will never hold themselves accountable for any responsibility, and that you must always be guiding.
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    Originally Posted by NYY View Post
    Both excuses sound really questionable tbh.

    Let them contact you. If they don't then who cares.
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    the ONLY thing I would say to do outside of this - wait 3 days.... and txt hey

    and see if they reply - that will be enough of an indicator........
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    My policy is.. if they cancel and don't counter off i.e. "hey I forgot I have to go to a family function tonight but we should hang out tomorrow" or something else along those lines Ilet them go. If they want to hang out they will let you know by at least suggesting an alternate time.
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    Originally Posted by AreaCode201 View Post
    My policy is.. if they cancel and don't counter off i.e. "hey I forgot I have to go to a family function tonight but we should hang out tomorrow" or something else along those lines Ilet them go. If they want to hang out they will let you know by at least suggesting an alternate time.
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    Originally Posted by kineticforce View Post

    the ONLY thing I would say to do outside of this - wait 3 days.... and txt hey

    and see if they reply - that will be enough of an indicator........
    This.

    Also you would think they might have tried to reschedule the date since they canceled. Give it a few days and shoot a text. If a response then try again.
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    Like everyone is saying, don't contact them first, let them initiate.
    If they are interested they will make an effort to hit it off again.
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