How do you know if your good looking?

[Abjaar]

most obvious if you get approached by females.

any hot bishes that have a crush on you that you know?(while you don't really know eachother)

if a hot bish wants to have sex with you when you are socially awkward then you are handsome

do chicks touch you (i had a hot bish touch my delts often when we were working on a group task first year of uni, or a bish that comes to you for cuddling?)

[jacketfan]

I don't know if you're really bad looking but looking at your avi you really have a chubby face. Get your bf% down to 6-8 and you'll see major improvments.

lol i have a thread full of pics of myself on one of the first two pages on here. pretty far below average. the chubby face has some to do with it, but seems like staying between 6-8 percent bf year round just to have an average looking face just isnt worth it. the amount of work and sacrifice for that lol. probably less than 1 percent of people on this bodybuilding site even bother staying that lean year round

[JohnnyJenkins]

most obvious if you get approached by females.

any hot bishes that have a crush on you that you know?(while you don't really know eachother)

if a hot bish wants to have sex with you when you are socially awkward then you are handsome

do chicks touch you (i had a hot bish touch my delts often when we were working on a group task first year of uni, or a bish that comes to you for cuddling?)

Actually, if women feel confortable coming up to you and touching you, it's more likely that you're just average looking. If you're good looking, women act like bears, they're more afraid of you.

[stopbnngmekthx]

most obvious if you get approached by females.

any hot bishes that have a crush on you that you know?(while you don't really know eachother)

if a hot bish wants to have sex with you when you are socially awkward then you are handsome

do chicks touch you (i had a hot bish touch my delts often when we were working on a group task first year of uni, or a bish that comes to you for cuddling?)

lol no

if girls are comfortable around u and approach easily, ur average.

if they are intimidated, urdoinitright.

[SkinnyMass]

-I look in the mirror and think "****'n eh!"
-Girls check me out at the gym constantly. Like ad nauseam.
-People tell me I'm handsome (no not just my parents, lol).
-I've been called Adonis.
-I've never been rejected.
-I get more respect in customer service environments.



Being white knighted by a girl on my bodyspace, lol.

Edit: Some girls give you this standoffish bull**** if you're handsome and muscular. It's like a defense mechanism or they assume you have a big ego. It's easy to break down the bitch shield if you're witty and smile though.

This is true, I noticed the other day at the checkout in the supermarket some idiot was trying to be all funny and the customer service woman loved him, I thought what a DHICK but when I went she said*passionately*'See you later precious' she was fat and ugly, but had it been some stinky smelly person doing the same she'd have turned her nose up at him,*appearance is a lot in todays society.

Personally i go out of my way to make the less aesthetically gifted feel good, everyone is is human and we all SHHIT the same stuff, so why should the good looking get more respect*

[Hmzone]

lol i have a thread full of pics of myself on one of the first two pages on here. pretty far below average. the chubby face has some to do with it, but seems like staying between 6-8 percent bf year round just to have an average looking face just isnt worth it. the amount of work and sacrifice for that lol. probably less than 1 percent of people on this bodybuilding site even bother staying that lean year round

True but i guess about 10% isn't that impossible is it? have you ever been under 9% btw? It completely changes your face. I'm currectly on a bulk and it's definitely hurting my looks abit.

[stopbnngmekthx]

This is true, I noticed the other day at the checkout in the supermarket some idiot was trying to be all funny and the customer service woman loved him, I thought what a DHICK but when I went she said*passionately*'See you later precious' she was fat and ugly, but had it been some stinky smelly person doing the same she'd have turned her nose up at him,*appearance is a lot in todays society.

Personally i go out of my way to make the less aesthetically gifted feel good, everyone is is human and we all SHHIT the same stuff, so why should the good looking get more respect*

hot girls don't poop.

they sweat it out and its like rose water.

fact.

that's why their hair smells so pretty.

[SkinnyMass]

Actually, if women feel confortable coming up to you and touching you, it's more likely that you're just average looking. If you're good looking, women act like bears, they're more afraid of you.

I don't know to be honest, I think it's more the other way around, if a girl is comfortable touching you and does it, then it means your in their, if she never touches you it means she's not comfortable with you and there is no chemistry.

It's all about eye contact, does she text back, does she agree to meet, does she put a kiss at the end

[batmanman]

i get girls looking at me then looking away all the time, but I think thats bs about them checking out hot dudes like that, if I was hot they'd smile, not look away

[SkinnyMass]

Looks aren't everything, however looks and personality is everything. Personality and no looks is still better than vice versa.

Ugly dudes with personality can and will always get hot girls, fact is girls aren't visually attracted to men as men are to women, but they do like attractive men. An ugly dude who's a jerk won't ever get laid, but if the ugly dude is fun, try's his best, makes her feel good, then he's in their, this is due to the fact he's suggesting to the woman he's comfortable, he's saying it's ok to not be perfect, and he is a better role model for their possible future children, given that there is no idea how the kids will come out, disabilities etc, a vain perfect looking guy appears less likely to deal with disadvantaged offspring, however a dude who's connected to the world will be happier in a relationship be he's secure.

Though it's always essential that for every man to become eligible, he must groom, dress, socialize, work etc appropriately.
But just looking good isn't enough to be attractive to a girl unfortunately, despite what the media portrays, it's false, the sooner you realize it, the sooner you can get laid with good chicks

[Niko49ers]

Generally, look at the girl's you've dated or "messed around with."

[jacketfan]

Generally, look at the girl's you've dated or "messed around with."

plenty of good looking guys bang nasties because they dont have teh confidence or drive/game to go after more attractive girls

[stopbnngmekthx]

i get girls looking at me then looking away all the time, but I think thats bs about them checking out hot dudes like that, if I was hot they'd smile, not look away

looking down is different then looking away

Looks aren't everything, however looks and personality is everything. Personality and no looks is still better than vice versa.

Ugly dudes with personality can and will always get hot girls, fact is girls aren't visually attracted to men as men are to women, but they do like attractive men. An ugly dude who's a jerk won't ever get laid, but if the ugly dude is fun, try's his best, makes her feel good, then he's in their, this is due to the fact he's suggesting to the woman he's comfortable, he's saying it's ok to not be perfect, and he is a better role model for their possible future children, given that there is no idea how the kids will come out, disabilities etc, a vain perfect looking guy appears less likely to deal with disadvantaged offspring, however a dude who's connected to the world will be happier in a relationship be he's secure.

Though it's always essential that for every man to become eligible, he must groom, dress, socialize, work etc appropriately.
But just looking good isn't enough to be attractive to a girl unfortunately, despite what the media portrays, it's false, the sooner you realize it, the sooner you can get laid with good chicks

lol no

girls are bull****ters when it comes to this. just because u think a girl is hot doesn't mean she thinks the same. They'd rather be around ugly guys because they feel less insecure and then pin it on "he has a good personality". its a cover up. I know a guy with an awesome personality and looks, but girls can't be around him without shutting down. its a double edged sword cause u think u have it but the same time they're intimidated by it. and even if they like the attractive guy, they'd rather be with the ugly guy and make an excuse to cover up the fact that they're insecure with "he has a better personality" even if its not true at all.

female logic, bending the truth and convincing themselves of it since the book of genesis.

[JohnnyJenkins]

I don't know to be honest, I think it's more the other way around, if a girl is comfortable touching you and does it, then it means your in their, if she never touches you it means she's not comfortable with you and there is no chemistry.

It's all about eye contact, does she text back, does she agree to meet, does she put a kiss at the end

Having chemistry with a girl doesn't mean you're good looking.

[Clean]

I've thought about this, and IMO, looks aren't just based on actual looks. You need to be "special" in some way in order to negate your negative features and highlight your good features. Me for instance, I am a shorter dude, but when I've been out to clubs and stuff, I often get called "cute" etc and other times "hot" while making out with chicks, etc. IMO, I am probably a solid 8/10 in the face, but with a good haircut, good clothing that fits my build, and my physique, I think it makes up for my shorter height along with whatever other deficiences I might have. That makes me stand out than most other dudes. My point is, that you could be an ugly dude, but if you stand out in some way, such as being famous, athlete, bodybuilder, or just have something interesting going for you that no one else has around, then most people will look past your looks and find you "attractive."

This is probably the reason why you see alot of 8/10 girls with 5-6/10 dudes in college who are skinny as fck and just not great looking to most. The reason is because they have good personalities and are probably really funny, so their attractiveness is boosted a couple of points because of that.

[Alivedog]

lol no

if girls are comfortable around u and approach easily, ur average.

if they are intimidated, urdoinitright.

been talking to this bish for three weeks and going on third date tomorrow.... bish still tells me she's nervous around me.



hells yes brutha

[Mr.Zuka]

Actually, if women feel confortable coming up to you and touching you, it's more likely that you're just average looking. If you're good looking, women act like bears, they're more afraid of you.

Bullshiit. ONLY hot older women (milfs/cougars) will do this. Younger chicks will act the way as described above.

[Goby]

ITT self delusion at a maximum scale

[alex2363]

age levels= different situations. I see young ladies like 18-23 checking me out and they just kinda look and get all squirmish like...the older ones stare and look like they want to do something or start something, so age levels are going to give diff outcomes. I date a young lady and its more sexual, older ones is a combination of both.

[xacimo]

Look in a mirror. I'm sure you know what a goodlooking male looks like (strong jaw, symmetrical face etc). See how close you fit.

However if you are actually good looking you will already know unless you are completely useless at reading females. You would have probably been told by girls before, and you would notice them giving you attention. Stuff like Looking at you lots, looking at you with a 'hungry' look (hard to describe), making eye contact then looking down and blushing/smiling, making eye contact then running eyes over your body and making eye contact again and smiling.

Its especially easy when you're young because young girls are much easier to read and do dumb crap like giggling all the time and getting their friends to ask you out.

[Marzzz]

I get looks all the time but they look away as soon as they see me look at them. I've been flaked on probably 80% of my dates. I rarely get approached by a girl but a lot of chicks initiate contact with me. When I was younger and fat, I was told I was ugly. When I started getting into shape, I've been told I was hot. To be honest, I don't know where I stand on the looks department. When I look in the mirror I like what I see but I'm not photogenic and take **** pictures. But away from that, I don't care too much about my looks.


So, I don't know.

[SteezyChr]

Look in a mirror. I'm sure you know what a goodlooking male looks like (strong jaw, symmetrical face etc). See how close you fit.

However if you are actually good looking you will already know unless you are completely useless at reading females. You would have probably been told by girls before, and you would notice them giving you attention. Stuff like Looking at you lots, looking at you with a 'hungry' look (hard to describe), making eye contact then looking down and blushing/smiling, making eye contact then running eyes over your body and making eye contact again and smiling.

Its especially easy when you're young because young girls are much easier to read and do dumb crap like giggling all the time and getting their friends to ask you out.

yeah i get attention and stuff sometimes, its just not like every girl. So idk.... i feel like i get looks but i just assume they are looking at me for some other reason..

[Mr.Zuka]

yeah i get attention and stuff sometimes, its just not like every girl. So idk.... i feel like i get looks but i just assume they are looking at me for some other reason..

i assume the same thing.

[asianguyyo]

I use a mirror.





Srs though, do girls come up to you and say Hi alot? Do you ever catch them staring with anything besides disgust on their faces? Or just find an honest girl who is a stranger to you and ask.

I know I'm not ugly by any means. Girls stare a lot, but always look away when I look at them, no girl has ever approached me

wtf lol

[kvN03]

if 16 year olds stare at me, and Im 19 almost 20... should I take that as I'm good looking?*

[SteezyChr]

bump

[guvanata2]

Make a beautifulpeople.com account. For example, I made one and got 52 positive votes but got voted out (first time with a not so good pic was like 21 positives only). Therefore I know that the majority of people think I am ugly. If you get voted in, it means you are pretty damn good looking.

[Casca]

The last minute or so of this helps me justify not looking at many females as equals. Yeah, it was expected, but still shows them for what they are....ho's.

[thaxceptional1]

picture won't tell if your ugly or not, there are so many variables in taking photos like the angle, your facial expression, if u smile or not, if a camera can even capture your true color, does the camera notice your best features...so i wouldn't go with a pic. even tho with my online pics i get told im pretty good looking, but if i stand in a mirror (no homo) i can honestly say (to myself) that i am very very gorgeous. and some girls see what i see, and some don't.

[thaxceptional1]

I know I'm not ugly by any means. Girls stare a lot, but always look away when I look at them, no girl has ever approached me

wtf lol

well i stare at people and think nothing of them...don't let it fool u man. i was fooled by a girl like that and she didn't like me when i confronted her. but there was one girl who i caught lookn then i look back n she hesitated n looked back again and i could tell she thought i was attractive. funny thing is i ****ed up everything with this girl, she thinks im a total weirdo, and she was probably the best thing i could of had in my life if i played it cool. but nope, im stuck on a ****in computer talking to *******s on a bodybuilding forum about "how do i know im good looking?"...i ****in hate myself.