So I've been avoiding this girl who likes me. I live in the military dorms so it's a small community of 1000 people in a bunch of apartment style dorms. I'm working on my car and I have 2 buddies talking to me and she comes over and hangs out with me in the cold. She is freezing but she decides to hang out with me for 2hours while I'm fixing my car and she follows me to my room. I head to dinner which is across the street and I sit with a buddy of mine from earlier and a girl I like and the girl following me sits across from me. I don't say much to her the whole dinner, talk to the other girl most of the time and I leave and the girl proceeds to follow me again.
She comes to my room and I'm studying and she hangs out and then I'm just like **** it, I'll just make out with her then bang her. So I start taking her clothes off pretty quick and getting a hard on, then I take off my clothes and put a condom on and at that point, I'm going limp and am like wtf. Well I tell her to get on top and I get hard again and she's ontop of me for 15 mins while I think of the last girl I banged.
I'm so bored by then I push her off of me and I get on top and I instantly go limp as I look down at her. She has a cute face, a bit too chubby for me though. I've never tried to have sex with someone I'm not interested in and I couldn't believe I just couldn't just get off and kick her out.
I kicked her out anyway, I told her I wasn't really into her and I was like, Imma go take a shower which she leaves while I'm in the shower as expected.
I don't really feel bad even though I really care about most people's feelings. This is weird, I never am like this. I usually lose feelings if I finish or if the girl is an ******* so I think she is in her room crying right now and I'm kinda upset if she is. I don't really wanna call or text her cause it's embarassing but how can you tell a person that ur just not into them and was just doing it for the hell of it.
Has anyone experienced something like this?
02-22-2011, 11:31 PM #1
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I hate hurting peoples feelings, i was in the same kind of situation. I just lied and told her i was in love with someone else and it was really getting to me and it wasn't her and she was great and if i wasn't eternally oneitised she would be perfect.
Made her feel good, she gave up her pursuit and took away my burden of guilt. I'm just sayin' karma is ruthless.
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So you couldn't keep your dick hard, and you're trying to play it off as you weren't attracted to her?
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I was on CQ duty and banged this chick in my unit, it totally wasn't worth it and after 5 minutes she got off and I told her I was just going to shower and head back down to finish my CQ duty. Like you I wasn't attracted to her and just kept thinking about how much I don't really like her ha, ha so you know it didn't stay up.
I ended up hitting it again while on CQ duty again ha, ha didn't feel like masturbating so I knocked on her door and hit it doggie style until I busted and then left. I took a shower and went back down to the duty desk.
There was one girl who picked the lock to my bathroom while hanging out with my roommate. She undressed and pulled open the shower curtin and I rejected her right then and there because she got AROUND and didn't even try to hide it like the other girl I didn't have much interest in. I told her this shower was solo and she put her clothes back on and left ha, ha I can only imagine how bad her self-esteem was after that.
Same girl got drunk on halloween and came to my room and asked me why I wouldn't **** her. I made up some excuse and she RAGED, knocked some **** over in my room and then walked down the barracks hallway tearing **** off the walls.
02-23-2011, 02:53 PM #22
I've been in this situation before. chick was pretty cute with her clothes on, then once her clothes came off it was an instant boner kill. I managed to get hard for a bit then **** her then i would go soft when she would try and be all sexy. I told her it was my bad and just remained friends after that.Dr. Craig.
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I remember one time I had a bit to drink and passed out on my this crappy old sofa I had crammed in my dorm room. Apparently my door was open and one of the dorm-hopping sluts came into the room and jumped on top of me, started unbuttoning my pants and trying to wake me. One of my friends came by and ran her off. I was completely passed out and had previously made it known I didn't want any part of this slut. She was a civilian but her dad was retired so she had access to the base from her dependent card. F'kn sluts. lol
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kinda like that but cuter face
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i don't have amazing looks and im a damn manlet so i guess all it takes is some balls, personality and consistency and to not try to bang a chubby one.Never forget where you came from.
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