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02-10-2011, 06:51 PM #61
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02-10-2011, 07:04 PM #62
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02-10-2011, 07:06 PM #63
They do because women are judged almost entirely on their looks. Men have many other factors that may be judged on which include social skills, careers, wealth (may be inherited rather than attained from a career), as well as looks. Some men may judge a girls smarts or life situation but how many guys really take that into consideration for those girls you see posted in those 9.99/10 threads?
Men expect highly groomed women because that's their greatest if not only asset men are driven to attain. Some men may come off as poorly groomed but there is the long shot they can make up for it in other areas.
I'm sure there are fat slob men that have nothing to offer and expect playboy models but that's to be expected. Lets say these fat slob men fall into the lower 50% of available males out there. They probably will never attain a "hot" girl because they not only have no looks but they have little else to offer. The point of this thread is that some of the women that fall into that lower category of available females will still have options above their league and expectations even higher than that.
There is that saying on the misc that 90% of the women chase 10% of the men. Well that 90% is sure to include some women that aren't fit at all.
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02-11-2011, 12:44 AM #64
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02-11-2011, 12:57 AM #65
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02-11-2011, 12:58 AM #66
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02-11-2011, 01:07 AM #67
No idea- I've never dated a girl that works out more than two hours a week, where I'm usually doing 6, and 10 or more during the summer. I donno, I just don't care. If a girl is skinny and has nice tits and is interesting and isn't a complete bitch, that's good enough for me. I don't find muscles and very low bodyfat attractive on women, if I wanted that I guess I'd be ****ing dudes.
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02-11-2011, 10:44 PM #68
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02-13-2011, 02:10 AM #69
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02-13-2011, 06:49 PM #70
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02-13-2011, 06:50 PM #71
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02-13-2011, 07:07 PM #73
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02-13-2011, 07:13 PM #76
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02-13-2011, 07:30 PM #80
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02-13-2011, 07:33 PM #81
lol good point
i wrote this
Jade, on Sun Feb 13, 2011 07:21 PM, said:
Because some people like it. I dont know how many times I have to tell you that. Not everyone wants the same thing.
me:
thats actually not really all that true. people who are out of shape are insecure about themselves and not very many men want a girl wgho is stronger than they are. if ssaid guy were not fat they would want one who isnt fat as well...yes there are a few people with a fetish for weighty women but those are few and far between. i have spelled out why my opinion is the way it is. its logical and makes sense. I despise those who look at thoxe who spend the time to look good and believe they can just have it while doing notihng with themselves. being overweight is the calling card for lack of motivation and denial... at least that is if they want to be dating someone who is not like them... to those shalllow women and men i say put in the effort or lower your standards. jade you will be surprised just how right i am. if in shape people were ok with dating and marrying fat people you would see a lot more of those types of couples around... tthere are not many of those couplles. if someone is fat and thinks they will find someone who puts the time in ... they will be sorely mistaken.
edkit: i still have yet to see the list of those 3 couples where the woman is fit and the man is fat, not famous, nor rich, nor powerful. feel free to take your ttime. and yes sometimes someone does something so incredibly selfless that enables them to go outside their leaguw but those atre few and far between.
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02-13-2011, 07:35 PM #82
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02-13-2011, 07:37 PM #83
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02-13-2011, 07:43 PM #84
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02-13-2011, 07:45 PM #85
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02-13-2011, 07:51 PM #86
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02-13-2011, 07:54 PM #87
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02-13-2011, 09:50 PM #88
because its about drive in life. one should enrich the life of the one they are with. dating is a dry run for marriage and fat people arent something i can respect.
you misread the thread. i am not saying a woman needs to look like a man in order to date a fit guy. i am saying they should be fit themselves (for a woman) in order to have the sense of entitlement that they deserve a fit man. if you are a fat woman you should date a fat man.
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02-13-2011, 09:53 PM #89
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02-13-2011, 10:05 PM #90
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