I have a serious problem.
I dated my last gf for five years and lived with her. We we're sort of engaged and thinking long term. I lived with her for three years. However, things went south real fast around the 2.5 year mark after I left for the military. I was fortunate enough to get stationed back in Hawaii and we stayed together. She started becoming a wild party animal (doing blow, smoking weed daily, drinking) while I studied hard and put my career first. I went to school part time while on active duty. 99% sure she was using me and cheating on me the last 2.5 years of the relationship. She got into my head and we both had trouble letting go until one day I said I had enough. I never talked to her again.
I went almost two years just being single and smashing randoms. It took me nearly a year to even want to talk to women because I was such a bitter person towards them.
Fast forward to now. In the beginning of December I get introduced to a really really awesome girl. She's two years older, has a good job, not a whore, works hard, college educated, puts her career first. I started dating her and now we are official.
Here's my problem. All the shady things my ex has done has caused me to always revert back to what I thought and believed with her. I can't stop thinking my new GF is going to act the same as my whorish coke head ex. I know they're not evenly remotely close but I always revert back to what I know.
For example: My ex used to be a drunk and stoner. She was cheating on me when I was deployed. I keep thinking the new GF is going to do the same thing.
WTF do I do and how do I get over this hump?
CLIFFS: EX GF a cheating cum dumpster
New GF complete opposite
Keep dealing with new GF's actions to how I dealt with my ex.
INb4 cool story bro. Wow strong arms. Stop being a pussy. blah blah blah