Wanting to here from members on here when their girlfriends said "They want some space"
How did it work out? Were you able to give her space? Did you send a couple texts a day? How did it end up?
This sucks. It's so hard not to text her.
01-18-2011, 06:48 PM #1
01-18-2011, 06:59 PM #2
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It did not work for me, we ended up fighting and broke up. I couldn't understand why she needs a space for. So, I assumed she was cheating or wanted to. And, I assumed that because when we first met, we texted all the time and saw each others all the time and after 3 months, she started asking for space. Lol, it was weird and felt loss of connection.
You don't need to blow your gf's phone up though, and don't be clingy, do your own thing, but text her, if she doesn't want you to even text her then i don't know why you guys dating.أشهد أن لا إله إلاَّ الله و أشهد أن محمد رسول الله
01-18-2011, 07:03 PM #3
If a girl ever says she needs space, it's because:
1) You did something to hurt her significantly
2) She has found another guy
End of story. Don't text her, not even once. I'm assuming since you didnt mention screwing her over, that she must have found another guy. Deal with it, have the attitude that she will lose interest in him eventually. When she is over him, she will consider if you were all over her trying to get her back, or you moved on and did your own thing. You can see which one of those two options is more appealing to a woman.
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No communication from here on. Let her communicate with you. Likely, there is another guy in the picture meaning, she may jump off your dick and onto his or worse, she may want to be single and jump on a bunch of cocks.
Best bet is to give her space and remember, what you guys have together, and that you are the man. If your not the man in the relationship, she will find one.
What you need to realize is that, by your response of "it sucks not to text her" your being a needy bitch in the relationship. Your the one wearing the apron in the relationship, on about your feelings, and on your back waiting for her to make love to you. WTF DUDE?
That **** may fly in the movies but, not in real life. I hooked up with a girl last year who ripped on guys trying to win her over with movies or **** they sign on tv. All the elaborate dinners, dates, gifts to win her over and **** is gay. Stop it. Be a man. Hit the clubs with your boys (that is if you still have any left and haven't ****ed off on all of them).
Seriously, balance is key. Chill with your boys, play sports, watch the fights, football, gym - GTL it up. Be a man.
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01-18-2011, 11:47 PM #14
We took a 'break' for 4 days, then I ignored her for 3 days. I decided to text her back today, but was pretty nonchalant responding to her. We met up so i could give her back an old shot glass, then we talked about the old us for 30 min. I was happy we ended up kissing and i got a hand job.
Reading some threads here, most say 'don't reply to her texts' and I agree. However, being that me and you both ended the relationship by our actions, there is a right time to text her back and not ignore her. Remember that she would still want to be with you if you had treated her right.
01-19-2011, 12:09 AM #15
Not from personal experience, but observation I have found that 80% of the time it means it's over or will be soon. The funny thing is I have had friends that had girlfriends tell them they need space, so they back off and the girl breaks up with them because they were to "distant". On the other hand I have had other friends get told the same words, and they continue to keep contact and the girl breaks up with them for being to "needy". It seems like it's a lose lose situation.
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couldnt it be bc there something your doing that she doesnt like? maybe something shes talked about but that you didnt think was such a big deal...sometimes they can ask for space to let u know it really needs to be fixed. of course everyone else on this thread could be right, but just sayingAnti fat girl crew
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