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    Couldn't get hard with new girl srs

    Me and my new girl were going at it and i would get rock hard while we were still clothed and dry humping but then once i started eatin her out and fingering her my boner just immediately went down. She was perfectly clean and i like eating girls out but i dont know why i stopped being hard. I guess I was nervous because it was my first time with her and she had high expectations for me. How can i stop this from happening for next time? I'm thinkin about gettin some cialis and just gettin over the first time with her.
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    Nerves bro.. even if you don't feel nervous that's what it is.. Just try not to fool around too much before hand. Been there.. it's all good bro.
    It could ALWAYS be worse.

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    you were just nervous. It happens to the best of us. Just try not to think so much about it next time.

    First time I messed around with this one girl I tried to rub one out before and couldnt. When I got to her place we started to mess around and I couldnt get hard for the life of me.

    A few years later started dating that same girl and didnt have a problem at all. Just let it happen and you should be fine.
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    Yup....as stated above nerves. My first couple times were less then ideal with my girl. Still could get the job done....but nothing to brag about. But that will go away very quickly....and then rock her world. Just make sure you get her off orally if you can't stay hard. Don't want her not getting any pleasure and bailing. This is very important....especially if you like her and want to keep her around. Your "boy" will come around and work his magic soon enough.
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    Let her know you're nervous with her because you like her. Otherwise she might wonder if it's her. It also takes some pressure away from you, because you don't have to worry about what she's thinking. She might even help you ease into it.
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    Originally Posted by KenKosto View Post
    Nerves bro.. even if you don't feel nervous that's what it is.. Just try not to fool around too much before hand. Been there.. it's all good bro.
    thanks man good advice

    Originally Posted by DunkinD View Post
    you were just nervous. It happens to the best of us. Just try not to think so much about it next time.

    First time I messed around with this one girl I tried to rub one out before and couldnt. When I got to her place we started to mess around and I couldnt get hard for the life of me.

    A few years later started dating that same girl and didnt have a problem at all. Just let it happen and you should be fine.

    thanks brah

    Originally Posted by Mad Dog Bodine View Post
    Yup....as stated above nerves. My first couple times were less then ideal with my girl. Still could get the job done....but nothing to brag about. But that will go away very quickly....and then rock her world. Just make sure you get her off orally if you can't stay hard. Don't want her not getting any pleasure and bailing. This is very important....especially if you like her and want to keep her around. Your "boy" will come around and work his magic soon enough.
    i didnt hesitate to go down on her and pleasure her before and after the incident but she was still bummed we didnt have sex


    Originally Posted by puro supafly View Post
    Let her know you're nervous with her because you like her. Otherwise she might wonder if it's her. It also takes some pressure away from you, because you don't have to worry about what she's thinking. She might even help you ease into it.

    Yeah I actually told her I was nervous but I didnt say it was because I liked her but she understood. It's just I felt so stupid cause I had this hot naked girl all over me and I couldnt get hard. I ordered some ejaculoid just to see what would happen with that
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    I get performance anxiety pretty bad with new girls. Wish I could say 'nothing to worry about', but it's not an easy thing to deal with and can be a viscious circle. Nothing short of being more comforable around the person is going to help, but when it happens once, you tend to start thinking about it every time... like I said, viscious circle.

    Good luck man, I feel your pain.
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    nerves bro. happens to everyone. maybe especially since you really like this girl.
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    Couldn't stay hard

    Ok I didnt know how to start a new thread so here is my deal..

    Ive been messing with this chick for over 2 months had sex plenty of times. I havent seen her in over 2 weeks be cuz she pushed me away. so I called this other female over that I used to mess with and everything went good stayed hard and had no problems. well the following night the chick that pushed me away comes over and i couldnt stay hard for her.... anyone have anything to say? the chick that pushed me away i used to have feelings for until a month into it she just wanted to be "friends" which was cool until she stopped coming around and i called my back up chick and delivered the goods then the next night the chick that I had feelings for came over and just couldnt stay hard please help!! its gotta be something emotional or something the intimacy wasnt there anymore or something any advice or suggestions are much appreciated
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    Originally Posted by R3vel4tion View Post
    Me and my new girl were going at it and i would get rock hard while we were still clothed and dry humping but then once i started eatin her out and fingering her my boner just immediately went down. She was perfectly clean and i like eating girls out but i dont know why i stopped being hard. I guess I was nervous because it was my first time with her and she had high expectations for me. How can i stop this from happening for next time? I'm thinkin about gettin some cialis and just gettin over the first time with her.
    I had the same problem and taking Cialis will not help you....Cialis/viagra only work when you are sexualy stimulated (Taking Cialis willl no make you "want sex" or get you hard for nothing). You are probably just to nervous so you can be properly stimulated.....my advise would be to just tell her that it's not easy to be with a beautiful woman like her and it's make you really nervous.
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