Came to a realization today. It's really something I have probably known deep inside me for quite a while now. Ever since I transformed from that skinny kid to a muscular beast oozing with machismo. Most likely it's a realization that a lot of you have been holding subconsciously for a while too but continue to deny.
That realization is this:
You work out?
You dress good?
You carry yourself with poise, real poise?
If you answered yes to all of the above questions, then chances are you are in the top percentile of hotness for your gender. So why are you so concerned about what women that aren't feeling what YOU have to offer are thinking?
To you they shouldn't be anything more than a big mac box in the garbage can (that is women that ARE NOT feeling you, ya dig player?).
Open your eyes, society isn't a bunch of bodybuilding.com hotties and fit men walking around trying to outdue each other with their profiles, no no no. It's far from that. In society you are RARE, you hear me? RAAAAARE!!
Say it with me, RAAAAAAAAAAARE
So why are you ashamed of who you are? Why are you so shy and stuck up about walking up to that girl that is ALREADY checking you out? Why do you walk like a chump that doesn't believe in himself when you have or will one day have the body of a god? You know she's going to end up settling for some skinny dweeb that doesn't have HALF the charisma, swag, body and poise that you do..so why do you continue to let it slip away? How many times have you kicked yourself when you see a decent to hot looking woman with a man that doesn't have half of what you have going for you. I know I've been there and I used to look those women in vain right in the eye with a look like "haha, you've fallen for THAT?". I would be able to convey the look they gave me back and it was always an ashamed look of "you're right, why aren't I with a guy like you". The bottom line is, I did this purely for my own ego, it would give me a lift..but at the end of the day I was always the one jerking my dick while the girl was out screwing her loserish/wimpy/skinny (whatever word, just less than me) boyfriend or her friend with benefits.
The bottom line is, I was denying the world of who I really was. Everything was being held in except for the charisma and swagger, talk about selfish! The main person who I was denying was that sexy woman that was begging for me to approach her so she wouldn't have to settle for second rate goods.
It's time to man up fellas.
Part two coming after toastmasters tonight.
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04-02-2009, 03:08 PM #1Registered User
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Pssst. Got a minute? Come in here...let me tell you something...
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04-02-2009, 03:34 PM #2Registered User
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I came to this conclusion when my girl and I broke up. I am like a tiger let loose on a herd of antelope... Or whatever it is that tigers eat... My analogy fell apart, but you know what I mean
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04-02-2009, 03:39 PM #3Cutting
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lol you gonna use that speech at toastmasters?
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04-02-2009, 03:40 PM #4Registered User
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eloquent thoughts dear watson.Originally Posted by Pumping4Lyyyfe
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04-02-2009, 04:02 PM #5O'YEAH
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Repped for a good postOriginally Posted by Pumping4Lyyyfe
''The fight is won or lost far away from the witnesses, behind the lines, in the gym, and out there on the road; long before I dance under those lights.'' - Muhammad Ali
“Cus was a strong believer that in your mind you had to be the entity you wanted to be. If you wanted to be heavyweight champion of the world, you had to start living the life of a heavyweight champion…- iron mike
"'No' doesn't mean no, 'no' means work on the neck, the nipples, try back in five minutes" - a wise man
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04-02-2009, 04:05 PM #6Registered User
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You have valid points.
Spike92 is 15.
^ place this in your sig to remind the world that Spike92 is indeed 15 and will never be anything other than 15.
When im not hungry I eat. When Im tired I train. When I feel like giving up I push harder.
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04-02-2009, 04:15 PM #7Banned
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Repped. I needed this. Having a **** week.
Cant wait for part 2
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04-02-2009, 04:16 PM #8is staying positive! :)
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I also am starting to feel like this, I mean just look at the threads w/ guys having gf problems. We ask them to post a pic of said gf, and are like "wow man you're settling".
I've already started to internalize that we're the prize of the relationships, and if one girl isn't buying what you're selling, there are tons who will.★★★AJ Lee Crew★★★ - Officer of Punk Destruction
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04-02-2009, 04:36 PM #9Nothin but a peanut!
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good thread
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04-02-2009, 05:30 PM #10Rogue Manlet
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repped
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04-02-2009, 06:17 PM #11O'YEAH
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I dunno why, but OP went to red pretty quickly....
''The fight is won or lost far away from the witnesses, behind the lines, in the gym, and out there on the road; long before I dance under those lights.'' - Muhammad Ali
“Cus was a strong believer that in your mind you had to be the entity you wanted to be. If you wanted to be heavyweight champion of the world, you had to start living the life of a heavyweight champion…- iron mike
"'No' doesn't mean no, 'no' means work on the neck, the nipples, try back in five minutes" - a wise man
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04-02-2009, 06:31 PM #12Banned
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anyone else find this really funny?Originally Posted by genesismachine
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04-02-2009, 06:34 PM #13Registered User
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Originally Posted by genesismachine
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04-02-2009, 06:40 PM #14α
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You sound a little too self-absorbed OP
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04-02-2009, 06:57 PM #15Registered User
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Good post OP! Why red dood?
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04-02-2009, 06:59 PM #16Recompin'
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sweeeeeet post dude, why are you red?
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04-02-2009, 07:41 PM #17Registered User
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Its true, repped.
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04-02-2009, 07:52 PM #18You went full retard, man
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Very true, we are ALL great studs and iron warriors in crowds of sheep and normies!
why are you red? my almighty rep should have helped
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04-02-2009, 07:54 PM #19Registered User
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op writes true words
Ron Paul 2016
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04-02-2009, 11:25 PM #20Registered User
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It was meant to be funnyOriginally Posted by sHaDyOneDeath
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04-02-2009, 11:46 PM #21Banned
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04-03-2009, 01:37 AM #22Registered User
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its a party. like re-releasing me back into the wild
Rep appliepie
hw delivers on point..
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04-03-2009, 01:42 AM #23Angus Wrangler
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So like charizard rare or pikachu rare?
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04-03-2009, 01:50 AM #24Registered User
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Lol just because a person doesn't decide to have huge muscles in no way means he has any less worth then you. Thats your own delusion to try and tell youself that you are something special.
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04-03-2009, 01:59 AM #25Angus Wrangler
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This you brah?Originally Posted by ausurfer
Originally Posted by Pumping4Lyyyfe
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04-03-2009, 02:01 AM #26Registered User
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Wow you're a funny one.. I'm not but for your own satisfaction you can believe I am. But too be honest I can pull enough poon to be happy and satisfied.Originally Posted by Vagitarian
What OP is saying (and your backing up) is that same mentality of guido's that think "oh but my hair and skin is so much better than that guys.. what a loser"
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04-03-2009, 02:02 AM #27Banned
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yes BUT its like most guys. We see an average 6 and a smokin 9 with huge tits and great body. Which one are we more inclined to want to be with? Or even just have sex with?Originally Posted by ausurfer
Im sure most women would rather a healthy masculine man than some skinny rat. A true man. An alpha male. The man that the rats all look up to, and are no match for.
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04-03-2009, 02:09 AM #28Registered User
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Girl are different though. Through someone like Kate Beckinsale out and any guy would shag her w/o question.Originally Posted by deathdroprob
There is no guy that you can through at girls and expect them to have the same reaction. I know many girls that absolutely hate the look of muscley guys and would prefer a fatty over a muscular body.
That said that are a lot of women that will drop their panties at the sight of a guy with a decent body.
What I'm saying is that if you think that you are somehow better then another person because you have decided to attain a muscular body, then you are merely deluding yourself into justifying the time and effort.
If you look in a club a **** load of glamors are with guys with average bodies.. This isn't because they "settled".. its because they are the best that they could get.
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04-03-2009, 02:10 AM #29Angus Wrangler
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Just pullin' your leg buddy. You can step down from your soap box nowOriginally Posted by ausurfer
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04-03-2009, 02:12 AM #30Registered User
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Just voicing my opinion, buddy.Originally Posted by Vagitarian
Just pullin' your leg buddy. You can step down from your soap box now.
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