Misc, do i have a shot with this girl?(srs)

[Marcoccia]

on far right

Dam if that's her on the far right she need to work on those arms look how flabby they are.

[GymRat128]

lmao lololooll thissss hahah



? how is that cool??

the subway is f*cking nasty its crowded, smells like sh*t, and there's always the occasional hobo, who either smells like straight up urine, or sh*t. (literally)




your lucky brah, hopefully I'll live there someday, I can wait to get the f*ck out of NYC.

I wouldnt say cool, just intresting from outside observer, cant imagine going on date and jumping from subway to subway, I agree about urine and my 3 days in NY i saw bunch of dudes drooling on themself on the subway but nothing beat the 15lb rat's running around, look like they on dat der cell-tech

[blacksmith77]

All girls are twice as insecure as we are

[Nickkkkk001]

ask her to dinner.











make her laugh and have a good time.

[UrsTruly]

elaborate (srs)



5'9" is very short for the community i live in (99% white, im hispanic)

she is like 5'2" lol, but has been with a lot of guys who are like 6' or over

Bro I bet those dudes 6' and over were like a lot of taller ppl I know...think they run sht cuz of their height (no hate)..height is only an issue if the bish is shallow and from your description she isn't, also if she is 5'2 then you're fukin golden... Just shoot her a text and actually be nice to her and not be a BK..not all females like dickheads....Get your confidence up bro please, you're killing me and I dont even know you

Also, I need to move to fukin SD real bad...good lord.

[789789]

If you have to ask... you don't.

[TrentAM]

Do what you normally do in a situation where you are attracted to a girl. If nothing comes from it move on. good luck and in for updates!

[lateralus87]

If that's you in your avatar I see no reason why you wouldn't have a chance (srs, no homo)

That being said your best chance was when she first started texting you. Either way, you wont regret trying whether its good or bad results, I guarantee it. This is the kind of stuff that tortures you for years if you let it sit, trust me I've been there. Stop being so hard on yourself, a lot of girls couldn't give a single fck how muscular you are, as long as you're not super fat. You're going to have to force yourself to be more social and more confident, and theres no manual for that, it comes from within. I know its not easy but she is gorgeous, its worth a shot brah.

[MindZiper]

didnt read, but... strong self esteem.

edit: just go for it. cant really lose anything.

[nick1990]

OP are you the guy in the background of the picture?

the guy in the front
why?

lmao lololooll thissss hahah

? how is that cool??

the subway is f*cking nasty its crowded, smells like sh*t, and there's always the occasional hobo, who either smells like straight up urine, or sh*t. (literally)

your lucky brah, hopefully I'll live there someday, I can wait to get the f*ck out of NYC.

always wanted to live in NYC myself
SD is chill as hell though

dude just ask her out

if you ask her out and she says yes, you're in. even if she just said yes to be nice or to go as friends you can increase your chances when you go out with her. and when you do go out with her dont be nervous, just act like yourself and have fun. if it sucks at least you tried. you miss 100% of the shots you dont take brah

i just think it would be awjward as fuk since i have known her so long and havent done shiit
And then i normally act nonchalant/like i dont care around her.
fukkkkk

Dam if that's her on the far right she need to work on those arms look how flabby they are.

nugguh you gay

All girls are twice as insecure as we are

i dunno brah, this girl is pretty "smooth"
She always knows what to say and how to act.
Never seen her act flustered or retarded like other girls

If you have to ask... you don't.

youre prob right lol

[Goby]

elaborate (srs)



5'9" is very short for the community i live in (99% white, im hispanic)

she is like 5'2" lol, but has been with a lot of guys who are like 6' or over

You are the biggest bitch in the world if you are serious with some of this ****.

Please drown.

[Daveeee]

oh hey its a westview woman

[nick1990]

Do what you normally do in a situation where you are attracted to a girl. If nothing comes from it move on. good luck and in for updates!

lmao, look at my user title brah
I dont have a normal routine with girls

If that's you in your avatar I see no reason why you wouldn't have a chance (srs, no homo)

That being said your best chance was when she first started texting you. Either way, you wont regret trying whether its good or bad results, I guarantee it. This is the kind of stuff that tortures you for years if you let it sit, trust me I've been there. Stop being so hard on yourself, a lot of girls couldn't give a single fck how muscular you are, as long as you're not super fat. You're going to have to force yourself to be more social and more confident, and theres no manual for that, it comes from within. I know its not easy but she is gorgeous, its worth a shot brah.

I dunno dude
SHe is like a 9/10 and im hovering around 6-7/10
Just feel like im under her or something....

[FryDude]

Ask yourself this one question.

Will having her shoot you down make you feel worse? If you answer yes to this don't follow through with it.

I'm not too sure I'm the guy you want to consult about 'chances' so I'll let the misc answer that portion of your question for you.

lol I'm srs. Don't approach her if getting shot down will have you feeling depressed. It's not worth it 2 all.

[lift_heavy20]

just ask her out man, dont let her be that one that got away. You have hobbies, you bodybuild right? I always tell girls that and their like really thats cool lol.

[Retarted]

I wouldnt say cool, just intresting from outside observer, cant imagine going on date and jumping from subway to subway, I agree about urine and my 3 days in NY i saw bunch of dudes drooling on themself on the subway but nothing beat the 15lb rat's running around, look like they on dat der cell-tech

looool oh yeah cant forget about the rats lol I guess the first few times you go on a subway its cool, but when u do it daily it loses its "charm" lol


and to the OP, do it bro and report back. good luck.

[Likestolift]

since you asked the misc, you have no shot. If you had the confidence to be with that chick you would have done it and you would be making a thread about how you smashed an 8/10 chick.

[Nickkkkk001]

youre prob right lol

yo, get that fxcking thought out your head. Everyone in the misc could have the girl of their dreams..just if you are half way good looking and have a great personality. Just treat her like a guy friend..in a way. But be nicer and more respectful.

really isn't that hard. You might think it is... but seriously, it isnt.

You need to look past that she's a 9/10 and you are a 6/10 short mexican. Grow some fxcking balls and txt her tomorrow. ask to take her to lunch or dinner. take a walk in the park. w/e.

i expect a thread tomorrow about this. srs.

oh and fxck what everyone else says. All these people say oh you blew it, you don't have a shot anymore, if you really wanted it you would have it. well looks like you are just a shy little guy. Well it's your time to shine now.

[NYY]

Just go for it.

Even if you were to get turned down you'll feel good knowing you at least gave it a shot.

[voe]

sounds like a self fulfilling prophecy, OP.

[nick1990]

oh hey its a westview woman

what does this mean? (srs0

Ask yourself this one question.

Will having her shoot you down make you feel worse? If you answer yes to this don't follow through with it.

I'm not too sure I'm the guy you want to consult about 'chances' so I'll let the misc answer that portion of your question for you.

lol I'm srs. Don't approach her if getting shot down will have you feeling depressed. It's not worth it 2 all.

fuk man, im pretty sure i would feel awful if i got shot down....

since you asked the misc, you have no shot. If you had the confidence to be with that chick you would have done it and you would be making a thread about how you smashed an 8/10 chick.

youre prob right

[lateralus87]

I dunno dude
SHe is like a 9/10 and im hovering around 6-7/10
Just feel like im under her or something....

Guarantee she started texting you because she thought you were cute. Even you think that. Besides, girls end up with guys all the time that seem way less good-looking than them. If i saw the two of you on the street I wouldn't think it looked out of the ordinary at all.

[ShadyGuy]

anyone else think this nick**** is a troll?? seriously man use some common sense, the fact that you are making these posts on a forum show how insecure/unconfident you are. dont you think the girl also realizes this? my advice......delete your fu^king account, get some confidence in the real world

[TrentAM]

[QUOTE=nick1990;588819343]lmao, look at my user title brah
I dont have a normal routine with girls

I have the same routine as you. Virgin as well but I DONT GIVE A ****!

[MoneyToBlow]

she's a 9/10 imo and it really sounds like you really can't handle a girl like her. You are going to have to be confident , assertive, and have your **** together to be with a girl that hot. Even though I think you don't have much of a shot, you should still go for it. Regret is worse than getting rejected.

[continuedbacon]

Because you have so little confidence in your ability to get with this chick, you should start talking to her more often. She probably had a thing for you when you first met. Build rapport with her, and ask her out.

OR

Ask her out even though you're embarrassed doing it. Just get it over with, and you'll feel better about yourself. Before she replies you'll feel like a retard and feel like kicking yourself but if she wants to go out with you you're golden.

[SteezeFactory]

You need to go out with her somewhere and give it a shot. Seriously, what is the worst that can happen? You go out with her, things don't go your way, and you are just friends with her from there on out? Guess what, if you don't make a move you will end up being friends with her and not get to smash either. So what difference does it make? If you don't make a move you are guaranteed to not get with her. If you try, you give yourself a chance.

Your choice man. Get some damn confidence in yourself and see what happens. If you don't think she would want to date you, then why the fuk would she think any different? Confidence is key brah.

[nick1990]

yo, get that fxcking thought out your head. Everyone in the misc could have the girl of their dreams..just if you are half way good looking and have a great personality. Just treat her like a guy friend..in a way. But be nicer and more respectful.

really isn't that hard. You might think it is... but seriously, it isnt.

You need to look past that she's a 9/10 and you are a 6/10 short mexican. Grow some fxcking balls and txt her tomorrow. ask to take her to lunch or dinner. take a walk in the park. w/e.

i expect a thread tomorrow about this. srs.

oh and fxck what everyone else says. All these people say oh you blew it, you don't have a shot anymore, if you really wanted it you would have it. well looks like you are just a shy little guy. Well it's your time to shine now.

Im not sure if this post was meant to insult me or to help me lmao (srs)

Just go for it.

Even if you were to get turned down you'll feel good knowing you at least gave it a shot.

im not so sure about that....

sounds like a self fulfilling prophecy, OP.

possibly, but how can i change it?

anyone else think this nick**** is a troll?? seriously man use some common sense, the fact that you are making these posts on a forum show how insecure/unconfident you are. dont you think the girl also realizes this? my advice......delete your fu^king account, get some confidence in the real world

I dont really have anyone else to talk to about things brah (srs)
Have never felt comfortable talking to anyone, and have never gotten close enough to someone to get comfortable.
The misc is prob the closest thing i have to friends

you are right about getting confidence though, just dont know how

she's a 9/10 imo and it really sounds like you really can't handle a girl like her. You are going to have to be confident , assertive, and have your **** together to be with a girl that hot. Even though I think you don't have much of a shot, you should still go for it. Regret is worse than getting rejected.

Like i cant handle her mentally, or im not good looking enough?

Because you have so little confidence in your ability to get with this chick, you should start talking to her more often. She probably had a thing for you when you first met. Build rapport with her, and ask her out.

OR

Ask her out even though you're embarrassed doing it. Just get it over with, and you'll feel better about yourself. Before she replies you'll feel like a retard and feel like kicking yourself but if she wants to go out with you you're golden.

Should i text her or something?
FB?
Or should it be IRL?

WTF should i even talk about?
She has many, many guys who white knight her and stuff on FB and irl, so im sort of late to the party if you know what i mean

[Nickkkkk001]

Im not sure if this post was meant to insult me or to help me lmao (srs)

if anything, it was meant to help. srs.

you are letting negative thoughts enter your brain. Well start telling yourself that she likes you and that you are perfect for her etc..

[TrentAM]

[QUOTE=nick1990;588831573]Or should it be IRL?


DO it in RL