Cliffs: 6 months ago was a huge WK and BFFL, although for some reason she fell in love with me but didn't want a relationship.
Ignored her for a good 2 months before seeing her at a party and we made out multiple times. (I was the second guy to kiss this girl, solid 8/10)
Next day she thanks me for a good night but still doesn't want a relationship.
Basically ignored her from July till now and we saw each other randomly throughout the months.
I get informed by all her friends that she's putting on a brave face around me and she's hurting because I simply don't care enough to keep interest with her. Basically she's now chasing me for my attention.
I speak to her today and she opens up to me about how i'm the most amazing guy she knows and how she doesn't know if it's still love but she always feels happy around me and enjoys my company.
I tell her we could 'see' eachother which means we can meet up with whoever we like whilst dating, but she doesn't want that or a relationship.
She continues to tell me all her emotions and I tell her 'I know, this hasn't changed anything between us' and she goes into dissapoint mode because she's still wanting me to stick around.
I know I could easily kiss her whenever I want, although she's still a virgin so I don't think I could escalate into a true FWB. I'm still the 2nd guy out of 4 to kiss her and the closest guy she's loved, I'm just interested whether theres' a way to smash this barrier down, as I think she's still hurt from her last boyfriend who used and dumped her to go out with her best friend. If there's no real solution, it's cool because I'm enjoying the social side of things with the women I meet up at college and town. I would however consider the possibility of a relationship with said girl if she would just give in to her desires and quit chasing me and then retreating while her friends bitch at me for not talking to her enough.